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A combination. I do love having lots of one night stands as I love the thrill and intrigue of someone different and a new experience. But some familiar regulars is nice and often better sex. Plus I have hubby. |
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"How do you manage not to bond with someone regular and keeping it NSA? I mean, how do you cope with oxytocin flooding your brain?"
I do bond, but it's more a bond of friendship than anything else x |
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I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. |
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In the main our best experiences have been with couples we want to see more frequently and explore and grow with them too. Yeah, quite happy to say we don't necessarily seperate friends and swing friends but do expect to know someone has a certain degree of discretion before we mingle the two. |
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"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "
Lots of couples have single profiles too... |
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"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "
I'd say your view is a bit "out of date" on the scene..
Swinging is for all (singles & couples) otherwise why do couples look so much for 3sums.
Also theres couples that play solo too and even have single profiles too..
My view anyway !
And yes i do prefer regular (i have a swing partner & always more chance to push boundaries)..however the trill to meet someone new is also good...so I choose a bit of both . |
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A mixture of both. It's good to build confidence with regular people who we become friends with but also like the thrill and excitement of the first time. We never have any expectations that it will be more than a one time thing necessarily but it's nice when it does.
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"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "
I'm part of a couple as well as single (meeting on my own). Had regular partners for me only as well as the ones who joined husband and me. In both ways the answer is the same - prefer regular until it's time for new. |
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"How do you manage not to bond with someone regular and keeping it NSA? I mean, how do you cope with oxytocin flooding your brain?"
Being clear about boundaries in advance. Not cuddling too much after. |
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"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts.
I'm part of a couple as well as single (meeting on my own). Had regular partners for me only as well as the ones who joined husband and me. In both ways the answer is the same - prefer regular until it's time for new."
Ditto, regular allows trust and knowledge, confidence, boundaries to stretch and explore, dare I say friendship... So many benefits for regulars
... But the one thing you don't get is the excitement of meeting someone brand new, which also has a pretty special excitement about it. |
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Only had a few regulars but they have become very good friends can't beat the nervous excitement of brand new people but knowing people's tastes and kinks
Is a nice comfort love meeting like minded people as not many people get the lifestyle |
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we prefer to make friends and see how it goes however having regular sex friends can become complicated in the end. I think that is why we like clubs and new party invites as we don't know what we feel like on the night.
That is what makes swinging so exciting for us. |
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"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "
Perhaps some of us singles like to meet regulars and then indulge in swapping together or introducing others...
I find this far easier to do with someone I know a little better
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"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "
So do you believe singles can't be swingers? X |
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"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "
So singles can't give a proper answer? According to who? As one part of a couple I can say that singles are part of the swinging scene. Swinging is a mindset, not a relationship status. When I was a single fem I was still a swinger, I was looking for 3sums, 4 sums and moresums. Do you tell the single men that you are looking to fuck that they are not part of the swinging scene? |
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Regular play partners are so much better than one off meets. You relax, enjoy more, experiment and explore boundaries feeling safe and trusting of each other.
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"Regular is SO much better. I tend to feel more relaxed and comfortable with a regular playmate. And more willing to push boundaries "
Exactly this, we much prefer regular playmates. Far more relaxed which leads to far more fun..... |
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I stand corrected even though in every dictionary it says that swinging is between a couple that like to have casual sex with other couple. Cannot help but notice that most of the profile on fab have lots of verification by different people and not many repeat meets so I guess although regular must be what everyone craves for but it seldom happens. |
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"I stand corrected even though in every dictionary it says that swinging is between a couple that like to have casual sex with other couple. Cannot help but notice that most of the profile on fab have lots of verification by different people and not many repeat meets so I guess although regular must be what everyone craves for but it seldom happens. "
"Swinging - engage in group sex or swap sexual partners within a group, especially on a habitual basis"
I have 100's of verifications as I've been on/off here for over 10 years now. I don't display them all though as people love to pass judgement (despite the majority being from hosting club events). Just enough to show that I'm genuine. I don't ever ask people to re-verify if we meet regular either. I've been lucky enough to have some amazing regulars over the years. But have also continued to meet on my own. That's the beauty of being a single swinger, you can do as you please  |
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never used to bother me as it was all just good fun but now with covid ive changed my mindset and after lockdown will only meet regular or those who want regular the only prob with regular is every now and then you find that clingy one and i dont do clingy ..just fun |
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"I stand corrected even though in every dictionary it says that swinging is between a couple that like to have casual sex with other couple. Cannot help but notice that most of the profile on fab have lots of verification by different people and not many repeat meets so I guess although regular must be what everyone craves for but it seldom happens. "
Not everyone wants/does repeat verifications. |
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