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over a year ago
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"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into  mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same...  "
I think it maybe depends on the guy? I get alot of messages from other guys and ladies don't really tend to reply to my messages which I get because no doubt I'm message 1 of 1000 in their mail box.
If an attractive female views my profile I like to think that it would mean they would be likely to have a conversation with me if that makes any sense at all? |
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"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same... "
Men don’t have that much interest from ladies as you might from men xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went from mode to non mode the other day as I don't care if people see I have viewed their profile and they can think what they want from it.
If they message me off the back of it, then I deal with it.
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over a year ago
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Nope. If someone looks without messaging they are most likely, either, just curious about something I’ve posted on the forum or more probably not interested.
I use stealth mode as I don’t want people thinking I was interested because I looked. I’m a nosey fucker. |
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"If viewers like what they see they might chat but if not they don't deserve to be harassed for a little peek and run "
If I'm dipping my toes... I send a wink. I had a gorgeous gal after my own heart winking at me the other day, I winked back but then read her bio saying she doesn't reply back to winks. But she winked first so Im guessing she wants me to message her. But because I'm not into women and she winked first. I'm leaving it for her to message. So basically if I'm interested I wink or directly send a message. certainly not just by looking at their profile. But men do question why I looked at their profiles if I am not interested...  |
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"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same...
I think it maybe depends on the guy? I get alot of messages from other guys and ladies don't really tend to reply to my messages which I get because no doubt I'm message 1 of 1000 in their mail box.
If an attractive female views my profile I like to think that it would mean they would be likely to have a conversation with me if that makes any sense at all? "
unfortunately most profiles I view I am not interested  |
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"I nosy in stealth mode too because I won’t know if there’s anything there or not until after looking, I don’t know any other way to check "
but it shouldn't be an issue checking people out. I duno how people can assume I'm interested just because I looked. so staying stelth mode to avoid any unnecessary discussions |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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"I nosy in stealth mode too because I won’t know if there’s anything there or not until after looking, I don’t know any other way to check
but it shouldn't be an issue checking people out. I duno how people can assume I'm interested just because I looked. so staying stelth mode to avoid any unnecessary discussions "
Exactly this, if I look and don’t message or wink then I’m obviously not interested but if we don’t use stealth mode, we get a new bombardment of why not and preference apparently isn’t a good enough reason somehow  |
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To some guys it's no skin off their nose to spend 1 minute sending a message to try to elicit a response from someone that's noticed them. I personally wouldn't message unless it was a frequent viewer, or a wink, and I thought I was what they were looking for and they were what I'm looking for. I look at profiles for all sorts of reasons, not just because I might fancy them as I generally like looking at profiles, however if most people messaged me just because I looked at them I think I'd might have to go ninja myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Probably because most men get very few views from women (that they can see anyway), so when one does look, they get all excited!
I don't care who's viewed my profile, it means nothing if they don't take the extra step and message me. |
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Over 200 views so far, nothing for the women on here but out of those I’d say 10 I’d like a wink or message.
That they don’t, doesn’t bother me but one or two who do look, I must admit I’m surprised as I’m certainly not what they’re looking for at all |
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"Wouldn’t think they were interested unless there has been a wink or fabbed some pics, anything else I’d assume they were just looking!"
I'm really confusing as I fab and wink at people I'm not sexually interested in, just wana make friends with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same... "
Wishful thinking? |
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