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Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.  |
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I say to myself that I don't like to see genitals in general on Fab, but I also say that I wouldn't want to go down on an untidy pussy or a weird looking cock. Sometimes it takes Mr to remind me that the genitals are only a small part of the whole person, and also that in the moment, I wouldn't care!
So in theory, if I see them in advance, I guess I look for them to be neat and tidy, but in reality, I get so excited at going down on a lady I probably wouldn't worry about what it looked like!
Sorry, that's definitely a ramble...
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"I say to myself that I don't like to see genitals in general on Fab, but I also say that I wouldn't want to go down on an untidy pussy or a weird looking cock. Sometimes it takes Mr to remind me that the genitals are only a small part of the whole person, and also that in the moment, I wouldn't care!
So in theory, if I see them in advance, I guess I look for them to be neat and tidy, but in reality, I get so excited at going down on a lady I probably wouldn't worry about what it looked like!
Sorry, that's definitely a ramble...
C (her)"
ok what about face and body? Got to remember we can only base our choices by what is shown and said to us online. |
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab. "
Not everything or everyone are perfect
Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???
Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.
You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??
But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex |
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over a year ago
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Depends if for play or relationship.
For play you might be more concerned about cock/pussy, for relationship more about person they are and connection so can overlook other things |
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over a year ago
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In the same way that some people have faces that are photogenic and look better in pictures than in real life - I think the same applies to bodies and body parts as well.
Some people are far better and more attractive in real life so I try not to base everything on photos  |
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.
Not everything or everyone are perfect
Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???
Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.
You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??
But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex"
so which one would you put as a less of an importanance? as you started the prettiest pussy thread? would you get with a fabber if they didn't have an attractive pussy but had other things you liked? liked personality but not body or pussy? |
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"In the same way that some people have faces that are photogenic and look better in pictures than in real life - I think the same applies to bodies and body parts as well.
Some people are far better and more attractive in real life so I try not to base everything on photos "
ok so if the person wrote to you sounded nice sweet person but you didn't find any of their photos abit attractive, would you carry on chatting hoping to meet one day (post lockdown)? |
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over a year ago
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Attraction for me is both physical and mental....so no, if i didnt find them attractive entirley...i wouldnt carry on further, nor would i expect anyone to lead me on if they arent really attracted...  |
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At the end of the day we all have our own ideas and views on what we like. I think there’s enough variation on fab for people to be able to afford to be picky and only go for what they like otherwise why bother at all, it’s a definite bonus that you can pretty much check everything before ever actually having to meet X |
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"Do I have attractive junk ? Lol  "
beauty is in the eye of the beholder (but clearer photos may help too)
As someone else said some are photogenic but not sexually attractive in person. I called them types wooden planks. where some people pleasantly surprise you. I tend to go for if I find their photos physically attractive, then usually 80% of the time, I find them super hot to fuck which is what I'm mainly looking for. Hot sex with someone I find attractive. But some men have sexually attractive personality and demons in bed but not overly photogenic pretty. If ya know what i mean |
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"For me, the attraction is in the personality. Looks draw me in, and to be honest, while I do have preferences in a pussy, i dont care really what it looks like. Im drawn to the entire woman. "
Hows that possible when looking through search list of who is online? I tend to go with if their profile photo and name is attractive and they say something fun in the headliner, I would wink or message them |
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"Do I have attractive junk ? Lol
beauty is in the eye of the beholder (but clearer photos may help too)
As someone else said some are photogenic but not sexually attractive in person. I called them types wooden planks. where some people pleasantly surprise you. I tend to go for if I find their photos physically attractive, then usually 80% of the time, I find them super hot to fuck which is what I'm mainly looking for. Hot sex with someone I find attractive. But some men have sexually attractive personality and demons in bed but not overly photogenic pretty. If ya know what i mean "
Looks like my junk is photogenic and my face and body ain’t lol |
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Fair point OP, I forgot about body/face.
As someone else has mentioned, it varies for me on whether it's for sex or for a relationship. For sex, I'm more choosy, because I'm not getting won over by personality etc (usually), so I'm looking for at least a decent face and body.
In a relationship I'm still looking for someone I find attractive, but I have definitely had relationships where they aren't "my type on paper" but I have clicked with them.
Fortunately Mr Sprite has everything I was looking for, including an exceptionally handsome face and a sexy body.
C x |
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Everyone seems to be making very good points on this thread.
For many people the lack of a face pictures on public view is the result of the need for initial anonymity and descretion.I don't post mine publicly but do include in a message.
Although I do have one close up genital picture, I generally don't use it or like genital pictures.
Instead I prefer full length body pictures (without face) and if they happen to show the genitals, then that's fine. Again it's down to attraction, and the full length body is a great part of that.
But what really gets to me is people saying they don't want to see genital pictures, then you go on their profile and see all their own pictures are..... You guessed it.. |
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"Fair point OP, I forgot about body/face.
As someone else has mentioned, it varies for me on whether it's for sex or for a relationship. For sex, I'm more choosy, because I'm not getting won over by personality etc (usually), so I'm looking for at least a decent face and body.
In a relationship I'm still looking for someone I find attractive, but I have definitely had relationships where they aren't "my type on paper" but I have clicked with them.
Fortunately Mr Sprite has everything I was looking for, including an exceptionally handsome face and a sexy body.
C x"
lucky you and you're generous lover as you share him? And he's perfect because he lets you go off and play? |
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I'm more interested In what makes a cock or pussy attractive? What do attractive genitals look like? Make up ? I'm all for lipstick on my dipstick but in not going to smear it on myself lol |
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"Everyone seems to be making very good points on this thread.
For many people the lack of a face pictures on public view is the result of the need for initial anonymity and descretion.I don't post mine publicly but do include in a message.
Although I do have one close up genital picture, I generally don't use it or like genital pictures.
Instead I prefer full length body pictures (without face) and if they happen to show the genitals, then that's fine. Again it's down to attraction, and the full length body is a great part of that.
But what really gets to me is people saying they don't want to see genital pictures, then you go on their profile and see all their own pictures are..... You guessed it.. "
yes full naked body shots for men is great. I don't think women its most important to have naked photos of her body.
some people don't want to show their face at all until the actual meet. makes me abit suspicious and I wouldn't meet or chat to anyone until i seen at least one face pic |
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"I'm more interested In what makes a cock or pussy attractive? What do attractive genitals look like? Make up ? I'm all for lipstick on my dipstick but in not going to smear it on myself lol"
attractive genitals are the ones you just excited about touching, sucking and licking when you see it. As we only initially judged on fab for our looks, how important is certain aspects of someone's body to us in order to have sex?
Personally great looking cock and face is most important in looks. Closely followed by personality then body |
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.
Not everything or everyone are perfect
Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???
Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.
You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??
But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex
so which one would you put as a less of an importanance? as you started the prettiest pussy thread? would you get with a fabber if they didn't have an attractive pussy but had other things you liked? liked personality but not body or pussy? "
I would put cock / pussy as the least importance as you will be more onto the rest of the body / face & personality... there are loads looking for huge cocks etc as they receive more pleasure and if thats the case, looks / personality should be thrown out the window.
I started the pretty pussy thread to see who actually has the best looking pussy on fab
Yes i certainly would get with a fabber if their pussy wasnt as i expected but the rest ticked my boxes
As stated by someone in the above comments which i agree with, there are people who look amazing in pictures but the opposite in person.
Then there are people who dont look so good on pictures but a lot better in person. |
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab. "
I know that I couldn't have sex with somebody who body didn't excite me. I could be fine with an unattractive face (to a limited extent) if I love their body. It is very unusual to find genitals that would put me off but I can think of one example from my past.
In addition to what you have asked about, I couldn't have sex with somebody I disliked as a person.
Ultimately a woman's body is what I have the most engagement with during sex. A body I want to touch, kiss and explore will beat most less-favourable attributes, and a body I'm not into can't be made up for with other great attributes.
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.
Not everything or everyone are perfect
Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???
Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.
You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??
But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex
so which one would you put as a less of an importanance? as you started the prettiest pussy thread? would you get with a fabber if they didn't have an attractive pussy but had other things you liked? liked personality but not body or pussy?
I would put cock / pussy as the least importance as you will be more onto the rest of the body / face & personality... there are loads looking for huge cocks etc as they receive more pleasure and if thats the case, looks / personality should be thrown out the window.
I started the pretty pussy thread to see who actually has the best looking pussy on fab
Yes i certainly would get with a fabber if their pussy wasnt as i expected but the rest ticked my boxes
As stated by someone in the above comments which i agree with, there are people who look amazing in pictures but the opposite in person.
Then there are people who dont look so good on pictures but a lot better in person. "
maybe why some people love when people add videos to their profiles.
All my exes who met me online say I'm similar or better in real life and we usually have a good time. The ones I really like their profile usually just the same or better in person |
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I couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted too, it's like if my Mr was the best looking bloke on earth but his cock was small it would be a no deal for me (even if he was good in other departments a good size dick is a must for me) but on the other hand he could be a demon in bed and have be a great size but if I don't like the face then again it would be a no from me. |
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted too, it's like if my Mr was the best looking bloke on earth but his cock was small it would be a no deal for me (even if he was good in other departments a good size dick is a must for me) but on the other hand he could be a demon in bed and have be a great size but if I don't like the face then again it would be a no from me. "
i think I need to be attracted to most aspects of a person. Including there genitals  |
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"Fair point OP, I forgot about body/face.
As someone else has mentioned, it varies for me on whether it's for sex or for a relationship. For sex, I'm more choosy, because I'm not getting won over by personality etc (usually), so I'm looking for at least a decent face and body.
In a relationship I'm still looking for someone I find attractive, but I have definitely had relationships where they aren't "my type on paper" but I have clicked with them.
Fortunately Mr Sprite has everything I was looking for, including an exceptionally handsome face and a sexy body.
C x
lucky you and you're generous lover as you share him? And he's perfect because he lets you go off and play? "
Thank you, I do feel lucky. It took a long time to find a good one!
And yes, he's perfect (for me) in a lot of ways, but one is definitely that we have an open and exciting sex life. |
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.
Not everything or everyone are perfect
Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???
Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.
You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??
But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex
so which one would you put as a less of an importanance? as you started the prettiest pussy thread? would you get with a fabber if they didn't have an attractive pussy but had other things you liked? liked personality but not body or pussy?
I would put cock / pussy as the least importance as you will be more onto the rest of the body / face & personality... there are loads looking for huge cocks etc as they receive more pleasure and if thats the case, looks / personality should be thrown out the window.
I started the pretty pussy thread to see who actually has the best looking pussy on fab
Yes i certainly would get with a fabber if their pussy wasnt as i expected but the rest ticked my boxes
As stated by someone in the above comments which i agree with, there are people who look amazing in pictures but the opposite in person.
Then there are people who dont look so good on pictures but a lot better in person.
maybe why some people love when people add videos to their profiles.
All my exes who met me online say I'm similar or better in real life and we usually have a good time. The ones I really like their profile usually just the same or better in person"
Yes that is correct and ‘marketing yourself’ is also not 100% correct as 90% of the profiles on here are catfish.... like i dont normally go on Cams but i have seen one of the ‘popular’ fabber on there and WOW! I must say that she looked completely different to her profile pictures yet all the desperate men were hyping her up ?? |
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"I couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted too, it's like if my Mr was the best looking bloke on earth but his cock was small it would be a no deal for me (even if he was good in other departments a good size dick is a must for me) but on the other hand he could be a demon in bed and have be a great size but if I don't like the face then again it would be a no from me. i think I need to be attracted to most aspects of a person. Including there genitals "
turn the lights out, and I still would if he was a demon in bed and big cock.. or just do doggy?
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Must admit I agree with you,OP. There's a lot of talk here on Fab about how important personality and a connection is, but I'm here to satisfy my fantasies, and those don't include having sex with men (or women) I don't find attractive - and that means I want to see their face, body AND genitals. It's why we play mainly in clubs where there are no surprises. |
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"Must admit I agree with you,OP. There's a lot of talk here on Fab about how important personality and a connection is, but I'm here to satisfy my fantasies, and those don't include having sex with men (or women) I don't find attractive - and that means I want to see their face, body AND genitals. It's why we play mainly in clubs where there are no surprises."
Shame I never got my opportunity to go to clubs. I would find being attracted to men easier and more accurately than online  |
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.
Not everything or everyone are perfect
Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???
Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.
You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??
But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex"
Rubbish! Why would anyone change their standards to have sex? If you don't find them attractive or fancy them why on earth would you have sex ? Your 100% stat is wrong because we're not part of that figure!! |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab. "
I tend to agree. If it isn't attracting me nothing would happen. |
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"Must admit I agree with you,OP. There's a lot of talk here on Fab about how important personality and a connection is, but I'm here to satisfy my fantasies, and those don't include having sex with men (or women) I don't find attractive - and that means I want to see their face, body AND genitals. It's why we play mainly in clubs where there are no surprises."
100% for both me and K.
We aren't looking for emotional connections or a partner etc. We are looking for hot humans to join in on our sexual adventures much like other people might use sex toys we like adding humans.
You wouldn't pick a sex toy that doesn't appeal to you it's the same thing.
Cock / pussy, then face and then body for us and we need to see them all before committing to a meet.
It's also why clubs are great as there's no surprises!
KJ x |
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"Must admit I agree with you,OP. There's a lot of talk here on Fab about how important personality and a connection is, but I'm here to satisfy my fantasies, and those don't include having sex with men (or women) I don't find attractive - and that means I want to see their face, body AND genitals. It's why we play mainly in clubs where there are no surprises.
100% for both me and K.
We aren't looking for emotional connections or a partner etc. We are looking for hot humans to join in on our sexual adventures much like other people might use sex toys we like adding humans.
You wouldn't pick a sex toy that doesn't appeal to you it's the same thing.
Cock / pussy, then face and then body for us and we need to see them all before committing to a meet.
It's also why clubs are great as there's no surprises!
KJ x "
Have you met people in clubs who you thought their profile doesn't show any justice to their charm? |
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Tricky one. When looking at photos I have a 'type' I find physically attractive.
But experience tells me that looks are not a guarantee of a great time sexually.
When out and about I find I am more attracted to how someone presents themselves, what they are wearing (and how they wear it), hair style, tatts., than actual body type.
I try to do the same on Fab when I look at photos it is how they present rather than what they present. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Must admit I agree with you,OP. There's a lot of talk here on Fab about how important personality and a connection is, but I'm here to satisfy my fantasies, and those don't include having sex with men (or women) I don't find attractive - and that means I want to see their face, body AND genitals. It's why we play mainly in clubs where there are no surprises.
100% for both me and K.
We aren't looking for emotional connections or a partner etc. We are looking for hot humans to join in on our sexual adventures much like other people might use sex toys we like adding humans.
You wouldn't pick a sex toy that doesn't appeal to you it's the same thing.
Cock / pussy, then face and then body for us and we need to see them all before committing to a meet.
It's also why clubs are great as there's no surprises!
KJ x
Have you met people in clubs who you thought their profile doesn't show any justice to their charm? "
Yes. We have got on very well with one guy we met a few years ago. We're on the same sexual wavelength and enjoy each others company - and he's a great fuck with a lovely cock! We have met a few times outside the clubs. Perhaps you should give a club a try after covid. |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
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"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?
I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab. "
I agree there has to be some sort of physical attraction, especially on here.. but a little rich coming from a faceless profile lol |
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