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Yesterday evening my husband and I were waiting for our final HB jab in our local GUM clinic.
I noticed two young girls sitting in front of us who looked vaguely familiar.
They were casting covert glances in our direction and I suddenly realised they might attend my daughters college!
My unease turned to dismay when the nurse came out and called my full name!!!
If they DO know my daughter, I'm sure to get rumbled so does anyone have any suggestions that I can offer as an excuse for being in a sexual health clinic with her father???  |
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Sexual health clinics offer a huge range of services so you could have been there for loads of reasons
As for calling your full name out? thats awful,ours has a ticket system where they just call a number out |
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"Yesterday evening my husband and I were waiting for our final HB jab in our local GUM clinic.
I noticed two young girls sitting in front of us who looked vaguely familiar.
They were casting covert glances in our direction and I suddenly realised they might attend my daughters college!
My unease turned to dismay when the nurse came out and called my full name!!!
If they DO know my daughter, I'm sure to get rumbled so does anyone have any suggestions that I can offer as an excuse for being in a sexual health clinic with her father??? "
I don't understand this. Why on earth do you (parents) need to give any explanation to your child? |
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Maxi is having her coil replaced at ours in a couple of weeks. They can carry out a number of procedures etc not just sexual health issues.
Hope you get sorted..... |
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"What do you think they were there for? You know the whole 'people in glass houses' thing?
That's my other point: indeed."
Girl1 (to your daughter): I saw your mum at a GUM clinic yesterday!
(Your smart) daughter: You were at a GUM clinic?
Girl1:   |
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"Yesterday evening my husband and I were waiting for our final HB jab in our local GUM clinic.
I noticed two young girls sitting in front of us who looked vaguely familiar.
They were casting covert glances in our direction and I suddenly realised they might attend my daughters college!
My unease turned to dismay when the nurse came out and called my full name!!!
If they DO know my daughter, I'm sure to get rumbled so does anyone have any suggestions that I can offer as an excuse for being in a sexual health clinic with her father??? "
to be fair how many people are going to go upto someone and say......you'll never guess who i saw at the clap clinic today! think about it i think you'll be ok |
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QUOTE: What do you think they were there for? You know the whole 'people in glass houses' thing?
There's no stigma for college girls going to GUM clinics because they are encouraged to do so by school. They regularly go to get free condoms if nothing else! I know this for a fact because my daughter has been herself.
QUOTE: I don't understand this. Why on earth do you (parents) need to give any explanation to your child?
If you yourself are not a parent then you WON'T understand. It would be very difficult, living with a teenage daughter who likes to believe that 'mum and dad don't do THAT anymore'. Also, I don't think every teenager is capable of understanding or has the maturity to deal with the revelation that her parents are 'up to something'. We would have to explain everything and it would get very personal and generally messy. Added to which, my daughter believes in being true to one person etc etc... |
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"Yesterday evening my husband and I were waiting for our final HB jab in our local GUM clinic.
I noticed two young girls sitting in front of us who looked vaguely familiar.
They were casting covert glances in our direction and I suddenly realised they might attend my daughters college!
My unease turned to dismay when the nurse came out and called my full name!!!
If they DO know my daughter, I'm sure to get rumbled so does anyone have any suggestions that I can offer as an excuse for being in a sexual health clinic with her father???
I don't understand this. Why on earth do you (parents) need to give any explanation to your child? "
cause partents care about what their kids think about them?
I care about my kids opinion of me so if anyone told my child they saw me at such a place or that i used sites like this i would want to cover myself, all because im the mum i dont want to say to my children...whats it got to do with you...my relationship with my kids isnt really like
I dont have to explain myself to anyone but because i love my kids and want their respect in some subjects i would try to explain or cover myself, but because i'd want to not because i'd have to |
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If you don't want to tell her the truth you could always say you were asking them for advice on the best way to discuss sexual health and regular testing with your children. Say you were too embarrassed to go to your Doctor about it.
Or if you and your partner are not long term, you could always tell her you have never been tested and thought it was a sensible thing to do.
As well as STDtesting, my clinic does family planning, contraception and IUD's, cervical screening etc, so it does not have to be an STD you were seeking advice about. |
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If your daughter and these 2 girls are at college, unless they are very immature, ignorant or downright thick, then we would be pretty certain that they would know what a GUM clinic is and the whole range of reasons for going! If you cant be honest with your daughter and wish to lie to them about the real reason if asked, then you can make up a multitude of explanations, contraception,thrush, cystitis etc...of which no stigma will be attached.
Its shocking the amount of parents that are embarassed to talk to their own kids, especially of college age! Hell, your daughter and her friends maybe getting more sex than you and with more partners!
You could of course say 'For personal reasons'...  |
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simple
"mum, some one saw you at the fanny clinic"
"that's right, your dad and me are rapant swingers, when you fuck as many people as we do, you have to take your sexual health seriously"
hope that helps |
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"simple
"mum, some one saw you at the fanny clinic"
"that's right, your dad and me are rapant swingers, when you fuck as many people as we do, you have to take your sexual health seriously"
hope that helps"
Haha love it!!! |
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"QUOTE: What do you think they were there for? You know the whole 'people in glass houses' thing?
There's no stigma for college girls going to GUM clinics because they are encouraged to do so by school. They regularly go to get free condoms if nothing else! I know this for a fact because my daughter has been herself.
QUOTE: I don't understand this. Why on earth do you (parents) need to give any explanation to your child?
If you yourself are not a parent then you WON'T understand. It would be very difficult, living with a teenage daughter who likes to believe that 'mum and dad don't do THAT anymore'. Also, I don't think every teenager is capable of understanding or has the maturity to deal with the revelation that her parents are 'up to something'. We would have to explain everything and it would get very personal and generally messy. Added to which, my daughter believes in being true to one person etc etc..."
I have three adult daughters. Two live with me, one with her boyfriend. I entertain at home, but not once have my children seen any man in my home as I do care what they think about me, and would never have anyone here if they're around.
I respect my children's privacy and they respect mine and it would NEVER cross their mind to question me. My children have no qualms discussing their sex lives with me but they would be mortified to ask me anything about mine.
I suppose it's down to the boundaries people have with their children. Some on here tell their kids about their meets, take them to clubs, bring people in when the kids are there...each to their own I guess.  |
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If you yourself are not a parent then you WON'T understand. It would be very difficult, living with a teenage daughter who likes to believe that 'mum and dad don't do THAT anymore'. Also, I don't think every teenager is capable of understanding or has the maturity to deal with the revelation that her parents are 'up to something'. "
The chances of your daughter even mentioning anything to you are slim as she'll be either too embarrassed, not bothered or generally thinking it's none of her business.
Even if she does mention it calm down as others have said there are other reasons why someone might go to such a clinic. I bet though she'd probably be a lot more mature about it then you think if she were to find out the truth as she's now a teenager in college so not too far from being an adult.
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