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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago
manchester |
Losing track of the terminology lol
We aren’t cuck at all. I consider my wife is a hotwife as she has / used to have sex with other men with my approval. I was almost always present (except when she met a long term friend) and I enjoyed watching and also did some occasional joining in. So does that make us stag/vixen too??!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re stag/vixen , Hotwife, whatever the term in fashion for a couple where the female has sex with other guys with full approval of the Male. We never play solo and Fire is always involved to some extent (even if that’s just taking pics/vids or making sure the expensive lingerie he’s bought Smoke doesn’t go missing when she takes it off  ). |
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We're Stag and Vixen. He's always there if I play, for my saftey, he over see's the play, watches and joins in. He's in no way a cuck. He loves sharing me, and no argumemt from me being shared.
Vixen, NEVER play alone. Stag does and can play alone. Has his own single account for doing do. |
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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago
NOTTINGHAM |
We're stag and vixen.
S can fuck pretty much whoever she fancies, but I'll always be at the other end!
That's how we play at the moment, but I'm very much Up for S playing as a hotwife if she likes the look of a guy.
M. |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"We are the same even though we say hotwife couple. Hubby always joins in but he does enjoy some mild Cuck things. "
Us too, hubby here doesn't always join in, it depends on the situation.
Hard to fulfill though. |
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We are hotwife and cuck but understand it can be very confusing when it comes to all the different categories. If the woman in a couple is a hotwife it's never clear if the husband is a stag or cuck or anything between |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
nottingham/ derby |
Yes with a healthy splash of deviant sub, although actual sex is few and far between, its on the cards, safe of course, more fun playing and him seeing me have my boundaries pushed, and out of my comfort zone but safe. He likes to watch but nor is he going to stand there and just jack off, i can multitask when needed. The reclaim sex is fab, like hes re marking his territory, telling me how much of a naughty girl ive been  |
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"I really want this!!
What a guy that you can be a hotwife / vixen for and turn him into a cuck / stag ?
Yes."
I am sure you will have loads of offers after posting this !
I love your pics by the way, but i am too old to volunteer and whilst i have played 'bull' not sure cuck is my mind set most of the time xxx
good luck though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is such a horny dynamic. Fair play to any couples enjoying this lifestyle. Takes complete trust and the fun had from it must be unreal!!!!!
Sexy scenario for any single guy to be involved with.
As a single guy you gotta respect the boundaries of the couple but also be able to be open minded about what turns them both on.
Not easy!! But rewarding if it all works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same with us , Mrs has freedom to have fun , brilliant dynamic x
Opposite in our house, he goes off for the fun, sometimes I join in.
Danish x"
Hey guys whatever works and keeps both happy , defo leads to More fun between us though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What’s really interesting on threads with this topic is the number of single men who say they’d like to be involved with a woman in this sort of dynamic.
In our experience there are an awful lot of single guys who, when single, would quite happily play with cpls as the “extra guy”, but when they get into a relationship they won’t, as a cpl, meet single guys 
And, in our opinion, the Stag and Vixen dynamic isn’t as effective in a casual relationship - it’s more suited to cpls in a dedicated relationship. |
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"What’s really interesting on threads with this topic is the number of single men who say they’d like to be involved with a woman in this sort of dynamic.
In our experience there are an awful lot of single guys who, when single, would quite happily play with cpls as the “extra guy”, but when they get into a relationship they won’t, as a cpl, meet single guys
And, in our opinion, the Stag and Vixen dynamic isn’t as effective in a casual relationship - it’s more suited to cpls in a dedicated relationship."
I can imagine this is the case, however it is my biggest turn on and ideally if i meet a willing single vixen i would love to continue this. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We swing between cuckold/hotwife/stag and vixen. There are times when I (Bry) enjoy mild humiliation (cuckold) and there are times when Char does the picking and arranging (hotwife) but in general it's me that does most of the selection and organising (stag and vixen). Think a lot of couples are fluid in this way. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"We swing between cuckold/hotwife/stag and vixen. There are times when I (Bry) enjoy mild humiliation (cuckold) and there are times when Char does the picking and arranging (hotwife) but in general it's me that does most of the selection and organising (stag and vixen). Think a lot of couples are fluid in this way."
Spot on, always thought this even though we're quite strictly Stag and vixen, think the numbers of the couples that are fluid is higher than we probably think.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re stag/vixen , Hotwife, whatever the term in fashion for a couple where the female has sex with other guys with full approval of the Male. We never play solo and Fire is always involved to some extent (even if that’s just taking pics/vids or making sure the expensive lingerie he’s bought Smoke doesn’t go missing when she takes it off )."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We swing between cuckold/hotwife/stag and vixen. There are times when I (Bry) enjoy mild humiliation (cuckold) and there are times when Char does the picking and arranging (hotwife) but in general it's me that does most of the selection and organising (stag and vixen). Think a lot of couples are fluid in this way."
Us too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I give up with terms tbh. I'm a hotwife with no cuck element, or just a married woman playing solo. He has knowledge and awareness of my extra marital sex life, and has the right to stop it, but he's always left me to do what I want and fuck anyone I want. He's joined in on a couple of occasions, and will come with me to gangbangs and clubs in the post covid era. But I just play solo otherwise xx |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I give up with terms tbh. I'm a hotwife with no cuck element, or just a married woman playing solo. He has knowledge and awareness of my extra marital sex life, and has the right to stop it, but he's always left me to do what I want and fuck anyone I want. He's joined in on a couple of occasions, and will come with me to gangbangs and clubs in the post covid era. But I just play solo otherwise xx"
I don't get too caught up on terms either. You are a beautiful hot wife that's for sure!  |
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"We swing between cuckold/hotwife/stag and vixen. There are times when I (Bry) enjoy mild humiliation (cuckold) and there are times when Char does the picking and arranging (hotwife) but in general it's me that does most of the selection and organising (stag and vixen). Think a lot of couples are fluid in this way."
I think that's the best description of the three scenarios I've seen so far.4
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Covid-19 has seriously hampered any chances of getting a social let alone a meet especially as I'm a new ish member...(not having a single veri makes it difficult to convince anyone I'm not a time wasting let down) but with that said I would love to help put your hot wife/ vixen at the centre of our attention. Hopefully this summer things might change ...until then I woukd happily chat/flirt and build some chemistry with any possible couples who woukd like to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our experience there are an awful lot of single guys who, when single, would quite happily play with cpls as the “extra guy”, but when they get into a relationship they won’t, as a cpl, meet single guys
And, in our opinion, the Stag and Vixen dynamic isn’t as effective in a casual relationship - it’s more suited to cpls in a dedicated relationship."
yes and yes!!!
A stag vixen or swinging dynamic is heavily influenced by the bond between partners, compersion being a big, if not the biggest element. So personally I wouldn't consider doing it any other way.
sharing is caring guys!  |
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