Good for you bro ????
I’m married and playing away (personal reasons), I have had mixed messages from people some in here.
Some don’t like to meet married men and some are fine with it. But I find that quite a few people on Fab are more accepting of married women playing away than men.. |
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"I'm not sure if it would be worth mentioning in your profile that you are married, that way you will know who will and won't meet a married guy, and they can't say that they weren't aware. "
Yes I agree! Always best to be upfront from the outset to avoid any misunderstandings ???? |
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"On the rare occasion you’ll find a couple who PREFER a married man playing away. But I have only come across two couples on here who have said that  "
I have only met 1 couple in here who were fine with it.. so far lol |
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"Good for you bro ????
I’m married and playing away (personal reasons), I have had mixed messages from people some in here.
Some don’t like to meet married men and some are fine with it. But I find that quite a few people on Fab are more accepting of married women playing away than men.. "
Yes if it’s a woman then it’s ok. That’s Fab for you! |
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I've noticed there are very few single female profiles that state they are married/in relationship and on here for secret, illicit fun.
On the contrary I see dozens of profiles stating they are married/in a relationship but on here with hubby/partner's consent.........odd that innit
Imagine how short the shrift males would get if they tried pulling that stunt on here  |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
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"Some will some won't. For us, married people playing away without knowledge is a huge no. No judgement, just our preference "
perfect. I’m married and says so on my profile. For most couples / ladies is about honesty. Your personal choice. Some say no, others prefer it.
Just be honest about it when asked or declared it so others make an informed choice. |
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We somewhat prefer talking with married men only for the reason it would most certainly guarantee our own privacy as were new to this and don’t want ANYBODY knowing what we’re upto |
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We prefer single men mainly because of availability and accommodation. Most married men we find can’t accommodate and want to meet daytime in the week which doesn’t work for us. However if they are upfront, can meet weekday evenings and accommodate then we are happy to meet up. It’s mainly about honesty for us.
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"I'm not sure if it would be worth mentioning in your profile that you are married, that way you will know who will and won't meet a married guy, and they can't say that they weren't aware. "
I'm amazed how many married men have single profiles where they don't mention they are married... scary |
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"Well done for your honesty ..
You’ll probably be frowned upon by previously scorned women now ..
But Atleast you’re honest  "
Agreed.
We do not know the details of the relationship or reasons behind his choices, IMO, no-one should judge without understanding the situation first.  |
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"Well done for your honesty ..
You’ll probably be frowned upon by previously scorned women now ..
But Atleast you’re honest
Agreed.
We do not know the details of the relationship or reasons behind his choices, IMO, no-one should judge without understanding the situation first. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many bi couples/ladies on here maybe local to me ,would play with a married man, my wife doesn't know"
We value honesty.
Cheating men do not know what the word means. |
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"How many bi couples/ladies on here maybe local to me ,would play with a married man, my wife doesn't know
We value honesty.
Cheating men do not know what the word means. "
Honesty is a humble and reassuring trait. I wouldn't want my meets to be anything less of that in a ideal world |
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I'm married and regularly meet two married women (separately, although a threesome would be amazing!), as they prefer married men as they are less clingy and needy than single men can be! |
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I think that for me is less to do with the ethical side of it (although I won’t lie, that is a factor) than it is to do with not wanting to be part of a whole drama should the partner find out. It just opens up too many worries for me reference discretion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find this a bit of a weird question. Does it matter someone is married and swinginging without consent? I've met couples, I'm married without consent and they were more than happy. I think its more to do with control!!!! Another man is competition. |
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I'm married and on without consent.
I was on here several years ago (Have only just come back on) and had several married female friends in a similar situation, also met with couples who didn't mind
Not looking to try to change anybody's mind or justify things, its just the way circumstances have led things but as others have said, its best to be up front |
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"I find this a bit of a weird question. Does it matter someone is married and swinginging without consent? I've met couples, I'm married without consent and they were more than happy. I think its more to do with control!!!! Another man is competition."
I think people are more open to women who are married and here without consent than they are to men don’t the same.. For me it doesn’t matter as its no one of my business as long as there is discretion I’m happy to meet married women. |
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I would rather see a married fella if theyvwere hinest at the stsrt and stste in their profile they are married, but if they are just lookin for EXTRA FUN AND WIFE DOESNT KNOW
Thsts bullshit,
Just sad greedy bastards who dont give a fuck to their own wife who is in love with you,
One day ur sins will find u out
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you bro ????
I’m married and playing away (personal reasons), I have had mixed messages from people some in here.
Some don’t like to meet married men and some are fine with it. But I find that quite a few people on Fab are more accepting of married women playing away than men.. "
yes I find the same I'm upfront about it to but married women seem to get a free shot where as married men doing the same are looked upon as cheating scumbags by alot on here. |
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"I’m married and it’s on my profile, all of us have different reasons to do what we’re doing.
Does your wife know that you are on here?
Why is that important for you? "
It isn't but we are curious.
We guess that you would rather not answer. |
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We've met lots of guys over the years but not once did the subject of their marital status come up. We never asked and they never mentioned it. Were some of them married? Probably. Here's the thing, though, had they adertised on their profile or in a message that they were married, we wouldn't have met them. The truth is we like not knowing. Suspect we're not alone in this. |
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"We've met lots of guys over the years but not once did the subject of their marital status come up. We never asked and they never mentioned it. Were some of them married? Probably. Here's the thing, though, had they adertised on their profile or in a message that they were married, we wouldn't have met them. The truth is we like not knowing. Suspect we're not alone in this."
Yes, not knowing is sometimes a great way to be...... |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"We've met lots of guys over the years but not once did the subject of their marital status come up. We never asked and they never mentioned it. Were some of them married? Probably. Here's the thing, though, had they adertised on their profile or in a message that they were married, we wouldn't have met them. The truth is we like not knowing. Suspect we're not alone in this."
Best amend my profile then and... dial my age down a tad |
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