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How difficult is the question...
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By *attooBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
‘Are you sexually attracted to people of the same sex?’
To me, that’s pretty straight forward - am I missing something that applies to the general male population of Fab?! Is there a far more complex issue I’m just not grasping?!
I check the profiles of everyone before I message or that message me and the number of guys who say ‘straight’ yet have pics of cocks hinging oot is them unbelievable. Or say they’re looking for TV, I don’t believe you’re straight if you’re wanking off a penis, regardless how pretty their dress is.
I don’t believe this applies to the genuine swinging community, the ones that tend to frequent these forums - but these ‘100% straight’ guys who love the boaby are all over fab!
Why is it so difficult for a man to admit their bi curiosity? I’ve had very little experience with other women, but am completely honest about thinking it’s hot to play - in my eyes that makes me bicurious. Doesn’t mean I’m off dating women. Why can’t guys be open, is it a challenge of their masculinity? Please enlighten me. |
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By *ljamMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"‘Are you sexually attracted to people of the same sex?’
To me, that’s pretty straight forward - am I missing something that applies to the general male population of Fab?! Is there a far more complex issue I’m just not grasping?!
I check the profiles of everyone before I message or that message me and the number of guys who say ‘straight’ yet have pics of cocks hinging oot is them unbelievable. Or say they’re looking for TV, I don’t believe you’re straight if you’re wanking off a penis, regardless how pretty their dress is.
I don’t believe this applies to the genuine swinging community, the ones that tend to frequent these forums - but these ‘100% straight’ guys who love the boaby are all over fab!
Why is it so difficult for a man to admit their bi curiosity? I’ve had very little experience with other women, but am completely honest about thinking it’s hot to play - in my eyes that makes me bicurious. Doesn’t mean I’m off dating women. Why can’t guys be open, is it a challenge of their masculinity? Please enlighten me. "
Like anything it can be massively complex, or not complex at all. Depends as much on the person asking the question as the subject which is being asked about. |
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By *attooBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Interesting.
I’m certainly not attracted to the same sex yet love bi play but only in a MMF environment.
Having a MF couple both sucking my cock is SUCH a great sight and experience.
Clear as mud."
See to me, you are bi. Regardless if it’s only in certain scenarios, you still like it |
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"Interesting.
I’m certainly not attracted to the same sex yet love bi play but only in a MMF environment.
Having a MF couple both sucking my cock is SUCH a great sight and experience.
Clear as mud.
See to me, you are bi. Regardless if it’s only in certain scenarios, you still like it "
I'd say your bi aswell to be honest doesn't matter really matter about the scenario |
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By *attooBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Interesting.
I’m certainly not attracted to the same sex yet love bi play but only in a MMF environment.
Having a MF couple both sucking my cock is SUCH a great sight and experience.
Clear as mud.
See to me, you are bi. Regardless if it’s only in certain scenarios, you still like it
I'd say your bi aswell to be honest doesn't matter really matter about the scenario"
This is the exact point!!!! I say I’m bi on my profile!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of guys I have spoken to have told me that they are worried of putting bi or bi curious as they think it will limit the fem attention they seek! " that's true, it does
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"Interesting.
I’m certainly not attracted to the same sex yet love bi play but only in a MMF environment.
Having a MF couple both sucking my cock is SUCH a great sight and experience.
Clear as mud.
See to me, you are bi. Regardless if it’s only in certain scenarios, you still like it "
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I suppose it depends upon your definition of bi lol
For some bi means you're attracted to the same sex and could have a relationship with either sex.
For some bi means you're simply willing to have sex for sex's sake with the same sex without the attraction.
Have said it before but, Bi playful may be a term that would suit some people better
Can't agree with you more about being honesty being the best policy though lol
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By *attooBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"A lot of guys I have spoken to have told me that they are worried of putting bi or bi curious as they think it will limit the fem attention they seek! that's true, it does "
I’d rather guys were honest and let me decide! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Male here, I’m straight, have no Bi tendencies whatsoever. Wouldn’t bother me having group play with male(s) that were Bi, so longs they don’t want to try anything with/on me and vice versa, just doesn’t float my boat.
Each to their own tho, I have my preferences just like Bi or Bi Curious have theirs, respect to each individual for whatever they want. |
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"Male here, I’m straight, have no Bi tendencies whatsoever. Wouldn’t bother me having group play with male(s) that were Bi, so longs they don’t want to try anything with/on me and vice versa, just doesn’t float my boat.
Each to their own tho, I have my preferences just like Bi or Bi Curious have theirs, respect to each individual for whatever they want. " exactly what I was going to say, but done far more eloquently
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By *attooBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Male here, I’m straight, have no Bi tendencies whatsoever. Wouldn’t bother me having group play with male(s) that were Bi, so longs they don’t want to try anything with/on me and vice versa, just doesn’t float my boat.
Each to their own tho, I have my preferences just like Bi or Bi Curious have theirs, respect to each individual for whatever they want. "
I totally respect each individual’s preference. What I do not understand is the blatant lies! Why is it so difficult for those to play bi to admit they have bi tendencies and reflect it on their profile. You are not straight if you enjoy being pumped by another dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male here, I’m straight, have no Bi tendencies whatsoever. Wouldn’t bother me having group play with male(s) that were Bi, so longs they don’t want to try anything with/on me and vice versa, just doesn’t float my boat.
Each to their own tho, I have my preferences just like Bi or Bi Curious have theirs, respect to each individual for whatever they want.
I totally respect each individual’s preference. What I do not understand is the blatant lies! Why is it so difficult for those to play bi to admit they have bi tendencies and reflect it on their profile. You are not straight if you enjoy being pumped by another dick. "
I couldn't tell the amount of straight guys who contact me .
When the profile states why I use it .
I am straight and wouldn't hide my bi side if I had one.
They always say they are straight but that they have been drinking and could I send photos.
The answer is always no.
I dont mind chatting to anyone but I have no sexual tendencies towards men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male here, I’m straight, have no Bi tendencies whatsoever. Wouldn’t bother me having group play with male(s) that were Bi, so longs they don’t want to try anything with/on me and vice versa, just doesn’t float my boat.
Each to their own tho, I have my preferences just like Bi or Bi Curious have theirs, respect to each individual for whatever they want.
I totally respect each individual’s preference. What I do not understand is the blatant lies! Why is it so difficult for those to play bi to admit they have bi tendencies and reflect it on their profile. You are not straight if you enjoy being pumped by another dick. "
Please don’t wrap your head around this....
It’s perfectly okay to lie to couples and women about being bi on the forums because people will judge you negatively....
But it’s not okay to lie about being married playing away , playing bareback , or being a smoker.... It’s perfectly okay to judge people for doing these things...... |
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