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how many people have you blocked in the last month or so
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have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this |
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I've only blocked 22 accounts.
It's mostly people local to me that I'm *very* not interested in, and / or who post so many pictures that they were making my local updates feed unusable.
A couple of the nastier pieces of work from the forums too. |
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over a year ago
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Also blocked quite a few because people don't read profile or send crude messages its annoying and frustrating...you take time to write what your here for and they can be bothered to message but not read... |
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over a year ago
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I can honestly say I only have one person in my block list at the moment , I just ignore people who I’m not interested in and reserve blocking for more serious infractions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recently... Not so much. But before I blocked messages from men or CDs I would block about 5-10 people per day.
On the rare occasion I cam I get a lot of men PMing me (many of them straight  ). I block about 15-20 men whenever I cam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Through pms only one  fella kept harrasing me about sucking my cock, changed my filters after that.
On cam about thirty, mainly guys with a list that gets longer every time  |
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"have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this "
Lost count, around 20. Was just as bad when under a couples profile. |
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"have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this "
yes probably 3 times worse than pre lock down behaviour. But noone, like usual, I am interested in taking anything further with. Thought lockdown would be the ideal time but looks like not. People just seem to write creepy messages thinking it sounds hot.  |
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"have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this "
I must have blocked 10, since lockdown xx
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"have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this "
Yep but mainly men that go tit blind when looking at profile pictures which then means they are unable to read our profile due to being tit blind.
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Fair few, mainly because they haven't read our profile properly or just won't take a polite "sorry not interested but good luck and happy fabbing" as an answer. We ignore/delete any messages from single guys with a dick pic attached and blocked our first single woman yesterday ....we'd updated status asking for suggestions for new pics to take and got "try growing some curves", can't be bothered with people looking to cause hassle by sending inflamitory messages like that so easier just to block and leave them to rot in their own nastiness |
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Only one. I very rarely block people.
This person and I had a conversation that had become toxic with no chance of resolution. I decided to cut it off for both our benefit.
Generally I probably block about one person a year. Only extreme pestering or abuse etc would make me block someone. |
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Loads.
Mainly men and for reasons
Profile says don’t send friend requests unless we know you or spoken - they don’t even send an email straight in with friend request - instant block.
Men who start with hi ya babe - we a couples profile!
Offensive ones because we say not interested.
Rest we ignore if not interested - but always block if they clearly not read the profile - we see it as being only way to educate.
If people clearly read profile or it’s just a complimentary email - we either answer and chat or with a thanks but no thanks if they not for us or just delete. But blocks always for rude, directed at female only, or friend requests. |
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Every day, some one new gets added. We do wonder if we'll ever reach the max number. Or we'll of blocked everyone on the site.
Either, asking to meet during lockdown. Pushy, constant messaging, offering a Dom, or something simalar not on our wish list, 100's of miles away, they will come to us and we share hotel costs? Those who insist they can make me beg for more and make me squirt across the room. Then finally usernames some get blocked on the name choice. |
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"Also blocked quite a few because people don't read profile or send crude messages its annoying and frustrating...you take time to write what your here for and they can be bothered to message but not read..."
Yep same here  |
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I can guarantee i have sonebody blocked every day lately
Talk about impatient
When they msg to meet u now
Knowing nobody is supposed to b neeting until this is over
But u still get the dickhead gobshites still asking to meet
Then wen i say
Sorry not now but can arrange wen over
They start giving abuse
Slatering my piccys n videos callin me alsorts
Well jelousy will deffo get u nowhere now luve
So only one solution
BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None
We ignore and delete
Probably should start though  "
I had been employing that philosophy myself but a particularly persistent fabber has just wanted the distinction of being my second banned person. Hopefully I won’t have to keep adding too many, I really don’t like having to do it  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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Just one who I think has a golden ticket for Fab as he can say what the heck he wants in the forums, which is usually nasty repetitive rubbish yet gets away with it and when I checked his profile he had blocked us so he’s obviously got some beef with us, so blocked him in case he decided to unblock us one day 
Think we only have about 10 on block in 6 years so not faired to badly. |
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"Also blocked quite a few because people don't read profile or send crude messages its annoying and frustrating...you take time to write what your here for and they can be bothered to message but not read..."
Add to this the ones who send multiple messages that you have never replied to (I let it get to about 10 and then put them out of their misery) |
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over a year ago
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Absolutely anyone who's asked to meet, had statuses up asking to meet or offering drugs/cash to meet. So, absolutely loads!
Oh, and the charmers who send abuse if you don't reply |
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"Usually just block them if they just delete the message without replying, find it’s a lot easier and saves bothering anyone twice "
But I sometimes only have time to reply later on the day. I automatically delete all after reading quickly messages. I save the ones i wana reply later. So it might not necessarily I'm not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes ....ive got quite a few on my bloke list even when you ignore they message again.a few that have been rude and abusive .in the lockdown alot of new ones have joined |
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My block list is growing.. But mainly because I check new joiners click message if blocked by filters add to block list so not cluttering up local updates.. Don't cnecessarily message those I can... Though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hardly block anyone unless they are really abusive x i know it's different for guys than girls. I can understand why girls block a lot of guys especially the ones that have no respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But I sometimes only have time to reply later on the day. I automatically delete all after reading quickly messages. I save the ones i wana reply later. So it might not necessarily I'm not interested "
I give a woman 24 hrs if i dont get a reply i block them saves wasting time & if they delete the message straight away i block them too saves alot of bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im a blocker as i find its the quickest and easiest way to deal with things from not interested to the rude and nasty but since lockdown ive blocked more profiles than i have all the years ive been here put together.
but once blocked stays blocked makes life on fab so much easier |
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"have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this "
I only block people when I notice they have blocked me. Not for tit for tat. They have blocked me for a reason so I block them to avoid us contacting. |
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"have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this "
A lot, but no more than usual / pre corana .. if we don’t fancy them, or think we’d click then we just block .. saves time all around.
Hence out block list us rather large...but if you have been around a while, and aren’t blocked.. then you never know ..  |
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"have to say since the pandemic , we have had way more messages and persistent messages even when you say not for us , and it seems the only way to stop messages of chancres is to block them , any one else suffering this "
block me I don't care profile pic is amazing lol
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None, even though I got meet now msgs.
Just put up an update dying when I meet be meeting in the future and left it at that.
Not much point blocking, they may have another profile. Plus they maybe a test to to see if you respond. Ahhh....didn't think of that. Like a mystery shopper sneekin around to see who bites.
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"About 50 mostly fakes, (if they dont verify themselves over kik etc ) time wasters and guys not reading the straight part of our profile
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i don't think i ever seen a fake profile. no idea how to spot one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know what’s been going on this week, whether I’m getting cranky or something but I’ve gone from a low-key 1 to an 8. Mainly for people sending out of the blue graphic one liners to not taking no for an answer.
Think I need a holiday to chill out |
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