This is the best i have been on. Others some i had to pay loads for was on one site 8 years and the woman so nasty if you looked good on cam and chated to there friends and one other site people from all over the world but was more about pics then swinging and others just boring ...... and this is far the best and free if you wish ... thay dont rip of people like others sites do ........ thay dont make up fake profiles and send them to you .... like some sites ..... thay do there best for people here ... Fabs the BEST X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

try asking single str8 men over 50 wether it,s the best or not . trying to get a "meet" is harder that rockin horse shit. the discrimination to the over 50s is astronomical . no i,m afraid it,s not the best site by far . women will always say it,s great because they can get a meet on any site & that,s why were on here in the 1st place. single str8 men are at the bottom of the pecking order & find it difficult anyway . but over 50 your either extremely lucky or on here with your wife or "other" half.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if carlsberg made swingers sites this would be the one

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

so is it easier for single guys over 50 to get meets on other swinging sites.

Its not discrimination its individual preference. Im sure you have preferences as others do. I know lots of women on here that meet single guys me included.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"try asking single str8 men over 50 wether it,s the best or not . trying to get a "meet" is harder that rockin horse shit. the discrimination to the over 50s is astronomical . no i,m afraid it,s not the best site by far . women will always say it,s great because they can get a meet on any site & that,s why were on here in the 1st place. single str8 men are at the bottom of the pecking order & find it difficult anyway . but over 50 your either extremely lucky or on here with your wife or "other" half."
Its like that on all swing sites but you get out what you put in from this .... chat rooms, forums, and going to the partys all help .... Fab have them sunday partys loads of single men go to meet ladys at chams ... one in Aug Beach party no membership ... its places like that you meet ... it all helps when a single man .. x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

So why is your profile set as 18-50, surely that puts you guilty of what your accusing others off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So how much "luck" have you had on other sites the ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This should be interesting now.......... Sits back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so is it easier for single guys over 50 to get meets on other swinging sites.

Its not discrimination its individual preference. Im sure you have preferences as others do. I know lots of women on here that meet single guys me included. "
maybe he is on about paying sites for ladys as i know alot of others swing sites and men get just the same as here .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not been here to long; but would have to agree with general _iew; its a good site and the fact it has a good "verify" system helps witle out the fakers etc

Equally i would say that its all down to how you present yourself in your profile ie; if your Bi say so dont lie - if your married tel us all - etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry ...I have just looked at your profile.

Being over 50 isnt the problem IMO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if carlsberg made swingers sites this would be the one

"
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* cReEpS rOunD cRyPt * -l-

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not been here to long; but would have to agree with general _iew; its a good site and the fact it has a good "verify" system helps witle out the fakers etc

Equally i would say that its all down to how you present yourself in your profile ie; if your Bi say so dont lie - if your married tel us all - etc etc"
your RIGHT XX 5O IS still a spring chicken in my eyes , age is a number ... its all down to how you present yourself and come across to others .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is the best site I've been on. I am also over 50 but honestly meet very few men over 50. Why? I want the tall good looking fit guy, not the wee pot bellied balding guy I meet in the street ... the ones who list bowls and watching darts as sporty and athletic.

I'm here for me, to fulfill my fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Although my mailbox isn't over worked or under any kind of strain this site works better than most, I've made some good friends off here, as been said so many times, you reap what you sow!

I'm just waiting for the shoots to appear now......... Trust me to sow in a drought lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Although my mailbox isn't over worked or under any kind of strain this site works better than most, I've made some good friends off here, as been said so many times, you reap what you sow!

I'm just waiting for the shoots to appear now......... Trust me to sow in a drought lol"
you have made good friends because you always come across lovely .... and positive i like that xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Although my mailbox isn't over worked or under any kind of strain this site works better than most, I've made some good friends off here, as been said so many times, you reap what you sow!

I'm just waiting for the shoots to appear now......... Trust me to sow in a drought lol you have made good friends because you always come across lovely .... and positive i like that xx"

Thank you....... Cheque in the post

No point in being miserable is there, after all there is fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"best I have experienced"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Best I've used, as well as from my friend's experiences too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only other one I know is swinging heaven but it isn't perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like single men over 50

They are usually more respectful plus I'm older.

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By *obsrocketMan over a year ago

Loughborough

I have tried other sites and I got one meet from all of them. Joined Fab in Dec 2009 and havn't looked back since, made lots of friends and am now going to clubs, socials and have just got back from a weekend away at a Naturist camping site. Is fab a good site? Well I think so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is the best swinging site overall; however, there are a few features on Swingingheaven that are better, such as:

1. Being able to open multiple chat rooms.

2. Search for keywords within profiles.

Fab, please include these and you will be the supreme ruler of swinging sites. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of the other sites i was on years ..... i would get so upset after going into chat rooms being singled out ..... by the woman in there click who felt thay run the site ...... john would get so fed up seeing me upset.. and say its a site joanne not your life thay dont know you .... and why do this to yourself .... so i left and come on fab and never had that here ... why i like it so much as never had that here.

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman over a year ago

Fabville !!!

Been on here since site started lol so must be good

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By *kmale421Man over a year ago

wirral

"This is the best swinging site overall; however, there are a few features on Swingingheaven that are better, such as:

1. Being able to open multiple chat rooms.

2. Search for keywords within profiles.

Fab, please include these and you will be the supreme ruler of swinging sites. xx

I agree with this. If anypart of the site was to be improved, for me it would be the chat & camera facility, but otherwise it's an enjoyable site and I have made a few friends here. To be honest though, FAB is just one of the elements in my swinging life as I have found going to clubs as really good fun and I am looking forward to perhaps going to a few socials too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It works for me........ I'm not a club goer, as I won't go alone, and seldom get invited to parties, but having said that I attend socials and have a good time usually ....... Roll on 30th June, next social

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really! I've just looked at your profile and your 56 looking for 18 to 50 ?? Surely your old enough to be grandfather to an 18 year old! Not realy realistic I'm 40 and would stand a chance with an 18 yr old!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I not 18 god I wish I was but some gals like grandfather figures lol I certainly do but I lucky to get father figures lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

in answer to the question "have i had meets from any other sites" yes i have & had meets from all of them except this one. and to put the record str8 i put every single thing i,m into on my profile so people would,nt get misunderstood with anything i,m into.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i agree fab is good value for money (its free) verifications are the best part but you still get a lot of timewasters and all talk no action muppets (not as many as other sites though)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i agree fab is good value for money (its free) verifications are the best part but you still get a lot of timewasters and all talk no action muppets (not as many as other sites though)"
It is good value some of them other sites milk people and single men its not right. Thay are not as good as this site ... so why pay if you dont have too ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This phone app has made it do much better, and more attictive .... Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i agree fab is good value for money (its free) verifications are the best part but you still get a lot of timewasters and all talk no action muppets (not as many as other sites though) It is good value some of them other sites milk people and single men its not right. Thay are not as good as this site ... so why pay if you dont have too .."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I found lots of rocking horse shit if you want some nearly given up looking for meets so collect the shit. Chin up just keep trying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i know a few guys over 50 get on great on here, but they have really good profiles,

what do you expect to get from a paragraph about what you want, and next to no public photos, your going to get left behind and im sure the reponse would be the same no matter if you were 20/30/40s

if you want results then have a great public profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please tell me who ill copy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i agree fab is good value for money (its free) verifications are the best part but you still get a lot of timewasters and all talk no action muppets (not as many as other sites though) It is good value some of them other sites milk people and single men its not right. Thay are not as good as this site ... so why pay if you dont have too .."

i think this is the key with any site, sex or even dating in my expirence.

the sites that wont let you contact people and receive mail properly for free are usually the ones with reduced member bases or fake members, your always going to do best on sites with the most amount of members, so free sites always going to have the advantage for me

and i wudnt pay for the others, but do usually keep up my supporter membership, fab has it the right way - pay for optional extras, works well for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i know a few guys over 50 get on great on here, but they have really good profiles,

what do you expect to get from a paragraph about what you want, and next to no public photos, your going to get left behind and im sure the reponse would be the same no matter if you were 20/30/40s

if you want results then have a great public profile"
your right ... people need to make the most of there profiles or will get left behind as alot on offer ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please tell me who ill copy lol"

well for starters get some decent pics instead of just one with your nob out haha

they must be so much more to you than what picture shows, if you want to stand out from the crowd you need to try harder and good quality pictures showing you off in full is usually a great way to start!

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By *amnationsedgeMan over a year ago

Ashborne

Its not bad if you can get past the wall of disintrest, it never ceases to suprise me how many people just delete the messages they get without a single reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yet again i have to correct someone again. i have a PUBLIC pic on my profile with 2 private ones. but i see that there is someone who agrees with me on the subject of over 50s & rockin horse shit.

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

Compared to other sites I have been a member of in the past, FAB is by far the best I've been in.

I've made more contacts, met more people and had more fun out of this site in the few years I've been a member, than with all the others combined!

Yes, I am the wrong side of 50, but I don't find that a hindrance; in some people's eyes, it is a bonus to meet an older guy.

Long Live FAB!!!

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By *unterslickCouple over a year ago

tullamore

yes,,without a shadow of doubt,100% the best

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By *unterslickCouple over a year ago

tullamore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like it, im new to the scene, ive done the sending msg, which hasnt really worked for me but im also not in a rush to meet people, ive learned i need to get more involved and be more social, so joining in the forums is the first step, hi everyone

, then its a club visit for me to take it to the next level.

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By *exyswingersCouple over a year ago

nottingham

yes we agree 100 percent fab is the best site for swinging xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jim, let's be right about your profile......its not good!!!!!

It's messy, unclear and unappealing.

At your age supply will exceed demand......you may want to meet 18-50's but how many 20-30s will want to meet a 56yr old.......and if they do then they will have the pick of the crop......and your messy profile won't stand out......

Check your spelling and layout.....its not good!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to be a member of a couple of other sites and I did get some meets. But once I joined Fab I didn't need to be on the other sites anymore.

I tried Swinging Heaven but I don't like having to pay to read and reply to messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...it never ceases to suprise me how many people just delete the messages they get without a single reason."

Just because you didn't get to hear it, doesn't mean the reason didn't exist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is my first membership on any Swinger forum, and have so far never felt the need to go looking at any others.

I like it here

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple over a year ago

Boldon

"I like it, im new to the scene, ive done the sending msg, which hasnt really worked for me but im also not in a rush to meet people, ive learned i need to get more involved and be more social, so joining in the forums is the first step, hi everyone

, then its a club visit for me to take it to the next level.

Hi 7up and welcome to the forums - I'm an occasional user of the forums myself but I have started to become recognised now

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple over a year ago

Boldon

"I have tried other sites and I got one meet from all of them. Joined Fab in Dec 2009 and havn't looked back since, made lots of friends and am now going to clubs, socials and have just got back from a weekend away at a Naturist camping site. Is fab a good site? Well I think so.

Rob, mwah, it was a great weekend with fab people and cant wait to play next time hun xxx

(oh, I've found fab the best and I have tried others)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi guys thanks for the welcome, yeh theres been alot more interest in my profile since joining in in the forums, one step at at time and im sure ill ill make friends in tbe end.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You seen the state of some guys profiles? ........ how are people supposed to be attracted?

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By *its The Spot AlotMan over a year ago

Plymouth

I think men will always struggle on these sites a bit and if older it's bound to be more.

But this site seems about the best ive seen and not a rip off !!

I choose to pay a little for the silver membership which makes it ok not "Having" to pay just to get messages I Hate that.

Weather your 50 or 30 chillout and have fun if it's one meet or lots

it's not a Competition !!!!!

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple over a year ago

London

We think its the best of the sites for people in the UK and supercedes some of the others mentioned here by a long way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yet again i have to correct someone again. i have a PUBLIC pic on my profile with 2 private ones. but i see that there is someone who agrees with me on the subject of over 50s & rockin horse shit."

thats hardly a public pic a close up blurred pic of a face with glasses drew over your fetures. but if you think thats good enough to get you meets then feel free carry on its obviousily working well if you have such confidence in it

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

Over 50 you say?

I need a 5 year burn out plan then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes we think so.. some you need a map and compass to find your way around them lol

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By *ldestswingerintownMan over a year ago

Lancaster

OK, first of all to say where I'm coming from: I'm an over 50, overweight and not particularly attractive fella (though I'm a nice person!). A lot of the time I'm out of the country for work, so the times when I can meet are limited.

I've been using this site and one other (A*F ) for about five years now, primarily to meet women with whom to go to the swingers clubs here in the North-West. The other site charges and is beset with fake profiles. This site is free, easy to use and seems to have a lot more genuine profiles than the other site, and a lot more from women in the North-West - two or three per day instead of about two or three per week.

In terms of "luck" I've met about a dozen women through the other site - some of whom became good friends - and exactly none through this site.

No, I don't understand it myself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cant agree with u more about the over 50,s not getting any meets not in our coffin yet

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By *uffinCouple over a year ago

Chichester

Great site....fun,friendly and easy to use.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best I've stumbled upon over the years and I haven't really looked further since I found fab so that's an endorsement in itself. As good as it is, there is always room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of timewasters and also a ton of people who don't even bother to read a profile ruined my wife's experience on here.

That said they exist on every site for me it's the best of the ones I've been a member of. I might not done everything I was hoping to do when I first joined but sure will eventually.

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By *ricky_DickyMan over a year ago

Mirfield

Is Fab the best? depends on who you ask. Go on any swingers site and ask the question which is the best site and you'll get the same answer "this one" site regulars are always quick to defend their favourite site, people who either don't like a site or don't rate it often leave to find a site that suits them.

So is it the best, according to most of the folks who have posted it is or have they just not found somewhere they like better?

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I`ve been on one rather well known site that used to be free but after being sold became essentially a pay site! I left because of that! I`ve also been on a couple of other free sites that have gone into oblivion, a forth that I have no wish to visit again because of the attitude of the original admin and mods, a fifth site I`ve been with since it started is my "home" out of loyality. It`s much, much quieter than on here and it`s almost like all on there are "mates"! It`s got it`s good points like being able to upload pictures almost at will, direct links to other web sites (within the Admin`s rules) and other little things.

This site also has it`s good points and it`s not-so-good ones, depending on your status. For example, there`s times when I would have loved to message someone with, for example, some information but because they`ve blocked all single guys (perhaps understandably in some cases) I haven`t been able to message them.

Even so, I would say that this is the best large scale site I`ve been a member of.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

I (M) have been a member of AFF in the past, and had some amazing meets with single women on there, but that was a few years ago, and having looked at it am not tempted to use it again for us as a couple. Looks full of fake profiles...and it wasn't exactly free of them back then!

Fab seems more honest and trustworthy, in general.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love Fab, and all the fab peoples, when I was offline for a couple of months, I swear I had Fab withdrawal symptoms,, I find the peoplle friendly & and helpful.....mostly.

now using a mobile I can access fab anywhere, even when in the smallest room..i know...tmi..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opinion this is without doubt the best site. I've been on a couple of others and this is the most honest and well put-together site out there. Seems as if it's been run for the benefit of members rather than for profit... very honourable these days! Keep up the good work!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love this site for mailing people and always use it as a first point to contact people to meet. Forums are also the best we have seen.

But as others have said SH chatrooms are far better, so we do pay subscription to SH just for that lil bit of fun.

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

Not the best and not the worst!

Too many single guys for our liking and too many cheaters. The forums do make it better, you can see how people post and that gives you a good insight as to their personality.

The first site we were ever on is still going and is still free for basic membership, but only one mail a day.. A couple of months later, we joined another, world wide site and that is where we get most of our meets from. Because it is a pay site and not cheap, you don't tend to get those who can't have something strange turning up on their credit card statement!

BUT.... A a social site and as a site for chatting to friends and as a site to make you smile, laugh and even blow a fuse? Fab is a pretty good one, but the chat rooms are a bit frustrating!

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