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How big is too big?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a lucky guy in the sense that I'm above average in the pants department, although some partners have complained that I'm 'too big'. Now I'm not exactly porn star size but I'd say around 9 inches, so have I had fussy partners or do women have a limit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had procedures done to my cervix so much prefer girth to length as anywhere near there can be anything from just discomfort to dam right painfull but I have heard those who have not had anything happen say they find longer a problem in certain positions anyway so I would say if I had to choose between longer and girth I would say girth everytime over length. Having said that have met men who are over average and not been as good in the sack for me than some who class themselves as average or below |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me, the female of this comedy act, it's not the size it's how you use it that counts!...  "
i would rather have short thin and hard than long fat and limp |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To OP, Some women will find you to big.. some will find you average.
Master is larger than average.. and I have no problem with it, but we have had other women that have struggled with the length.
Some women like size.. some dont.. I am greedy.. I want size, and it to be rock hard.. and the guy to be good.. lol oh and cum lots.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a lucky guy in the sense that I'm above average in the pants department, although some partners have complained that I'm 'too big'. Now I'm not exactly porn star size but I'd say around 9 inches, so have I had fussy partners or do women have a limit?"
I too prefer girth to length, but lets have a look at some pics and then I'll let you know  |
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"I'm a lucky guy in the sense that I'm above average in the pants department, although some partners have complained that I'm 'too big'. Now I'm not exactly porn star size but I'd say around 9 inches, so have I had fussy partners or do women have a limit?
I too prefer girth to length, but lets have a look at some pics and then I'll let you know "
There is such a thing as too much girth. Once met a guy who had one the size of a tin of beans, that made me wince 
And also had around 13 inches, some positions were tricky but he had the problem not me - so few women had ever been able to take it that he was so used to the sensation of wanking that he couldn't cum with penetration. Poor sod. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I tend to agree with the its not what you have its what you do with it...
For me,
Too thick is uncomfortable
Too long is painful
However, I'm still a little greedy haha
My partner is bigger than average and it has caused problems before he got used to me and and i got used to it!! 
I know girls though who say the bigger the better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are better endowed you simply have to be better at getting the woman aroused to take you....maybe it wasn't the women with the issue!! "
I'm not keen on friction, and I like to get it all in even if I have to work it in gently, so that's a +1 on that  
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep I tend to agree with the its not what you have its what you do with it...
For me,
Too thick is uncomfortable
Too long is painful
However, I'm still a little greedy haha
My partner is bigger than average and it has caused problems before he got used to me and and i got used to it!!
I know girls though who say the bigger the better "
laura you got a gorgeous bum |
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not to big as it hits my oddly placed lower cervix and can leave me sore or a few days after
but bout 9 inches is biggest i can take comfortably
but tip if women like me have the cervix problem then it does lower at that particular time so just be careful when trying larger men it does lower the cervix slightly
enjoy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My missus says my 8" is just right after having to take her ex bf 11"!! Apparently a thick 11" cock goes in ok but can be bloody uncomfortable. No complaints from her about mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a decent sized cock, say of around 8 inches with a decent girth.
I do believe that a guy has to be good at foreplay too, just having a big cock that you just push in and out with no technique is not that great.
But I do disagree with the 'its not the size but what you do with it' comments. Lots of people say this but many would not be satisfied with a 3 inch cock.
You only have to have a guy come on here with a good sized cock to have the girls (and Bussy) cooing over it. Saying size doesn't matter is just being pleasant to guys.
But if larger endowed guys just thrust with no prior foreplay and no technique to be gentle to build up sensations then they aren't particularly good in bed |
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"I like a decent sized cock, say of around 8 inches with a decent girth.
I do believe that a guy has to be good at foreplay too, just having a big cock that you just push in and out with no technique is not that great.
But I do disagree with the 'its not the size but what you do with it' comments. Lots of people say this but many would not be satisfied with a 3 inch cock.
You only have to have a guy come on here with a good sized cock to have the girls (and Bussy) cooing over it. Saying size doesn't matter is just being pleasant to guys.
But if larger endowed guys just thrust with no prior foreplay and no technique to be gentle to build up sensations then they aren't particularly good in bed "
Very well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nice subject
For all the guys who want or wish to have a big cock it may turn a fun killer like my 13inches
Yes it is hard to please a lady with that and be pleased without the worries of hurting her especialy when it is thick and cut
i wish i had a 9 inches or even a 7 inches |
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"I used to think I was well endowed, but after all the claims of big cocks I've seen on these forums I'm beginning to think I'm below average."
That begs a very good question. Just exactly what is average? Maybe one to ask in a separate topic |
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"I used to think I was well endowed, but after all the claims of big cocks I've seen on these forums I'm beginning to think I'm below average."
Average (national) is supposedly 6 inches in length. Not sure what it is girth-wise though. Well endowed is probably 8+?
Dunno, women usually have a moving goalpost for that sort of thing. |
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luckily for me my man is blessed with above average length and girth. luckily for him I am wet wet wet as soon as he's near me so we have no problems. when I am super wet, doggy style can make me edge forward slightly but apart from that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been told im above average in length and thickness,( 9inches and 6 inches thick)and this is not a good thing as I've found it puts many people off and limits my appeal  and defintiely reduces the positions I can have fun in if a lady had a coil fitted. |
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"Yes 6 inches in circumference around the base of the head. Wearing standard condoms causes a problem and bruising. "
I use Durex XL condoms, as i find those fit a bit better. You should look into those if regular condoms are bruising you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes 6 inches in circumference around the base of the head. Wearing standard condoms causes a problem and bruising.
I use Durex XL condoms, as i find those fit a bit better. You should look into those if regular condoms are bruising you."
cheers for that, usually i go to the british condom society, but will def look at those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wide is so good x I don't like to long as bumps on the cervix r nasty, imagin the bumps on ur balls guys and u will be there!!!! "
See but I love that sensation.... The cock hitting my cervix is just lovely. Lol
I have a rather large toy.. and if I ever met a guy as wide as that, I would try it lol
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thought of some guy fiddling with a tape measure in the bathroom, trying to see how big he is just makes me laugh.
You got what you have .. so whatever the size, just learn to use it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thought of some guy fiddling with a tape measure in the bathroom, trying to see how big he is just makes me laugh.
You got what you have .. so whatever the size, just learn to use it !"
Ouch ......... My steel retractable rule snapped back then
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thought of some guy fiddling with a tape measure in the bathroom, trying to see how big he is just makes me laugh.
You got what you have .. so whatever the size, just learn to use it !"
Oh please, it takes all of fifteen seconds to satisfy a simple piece of curiosity. Measuring yourself doesn't mean you're obsessed with size... |
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"The thought of some guy fiddling with a tape measure in the bathroom, trying to see how big he is just makes me laugh.
You got what you have .. so whatever the size, just learn to use it !
Oh please, it takes all of fifteen seconds to satisfy a simple piece of curiosity. Measuring yourself doesn't mean you're obsessed with size..."
Agreed. And 99.9% of guys have done it at some point. Its almost a natural human instinct to measure up, especially against others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agreed. And 99.9% of guys have done it at some point. Its almost a natural human instinct to measure up, especially against others."
Exactly. The only reason I can see for (some) women not getting that is that women genuinely need to know their bra size and they'd maybe rather not admit that they'd want to know even if they didn't need to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just the same that chaps differ in length, so does the length of the inside of a vagina ... some are short and some are long.
I guess you just have to find people who you're compatible with in the longitude of things LOL
Too long can be uncomfortable, nay painful for some ladies and especially in some positions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thought of some guy fiddling with a tape measure in the bathroom, trying to see how big he is just makes me laugh.
You got what you have .. so whatever the size, just learn to use it !"
You mean you've never tried to weigh your boobs??? LOL kitchen scales ... not post office LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thought of some guy fiddling with a tape measure in the bathroom, trying to see how big he is just makes me laugh.
You got what you have .. so whatever the size, just learn to use it !"
My response when a man asks me what's the biggest cock you have had is ' I knew theres something else I need in my shag bag I have lube condoms baby wipes bj mints but not a tape measure' like a gals gonna say hang on before we put a condom on that I just need to measure it. |
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"like a gals gonna say hang on before we put a condom on that I just need to measure it. "
At some point in previous relationships, most of my exes have let curiousity get the better of them and wanted to know exactly what my member measured up to. So i obliged. believe it or not, some women want to know just as much as men do, haha |
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It's an individual thing. For me, no cock is too big. I have had a cock so big i couldn't fit any part of it in my mouth. It hurt like hell but i fricking loved it! However, I have friends who prefer small ones. The smaller the better it seems! We are all built differently! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thought of some guy fiddling with a tape measure in the bathroom, trying to see how big he is just makes me laugh.
You got what you have .. so whatever the size, just learn to use it !
My response when a man asks me what's the biggest cock you have had is ' I knew theres something else I need in my shag bag I have lube condoms baby wipes bj mints but not a tape measure' like a gals gonna say hang on before we put a condom on that I just need to measure it. "
You mean you don't have a measuring kit and note book to keep tabs? Lol |
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