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over a year ago
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not a case of admitting it, i just dont feel the need to talk about my sex life with people, if anyone found out and asked me i wouldnt lie but i feel no need at all to make the first move on telling anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not a case of admitting it, i just dont feel the need to talk about my sex life with people, if anyone found out and asked me i wouldnt lie but i feel no need at all to make the first move on telling anyone"
This is how I feel too |
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"not a case of admitting it, i just dont feel the need to talk about my sex life with people, if anyone found out and asked me i wouldnt lie but i feel no need at all to make the first move on telling anyone"
Definitely second that!! My sex life is mine and it's a bit tasteless to volunteer information about it without being asked... |
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"not a case of admitting it, i just dont feel the need to talk about my sex life with people, if anyone found out and asked me i wouldnt lie but i feel no need at all to make the first move on telling anyone
Definitely second that!! My sex life is mine and it's a bit tasteless to volunteer information about it without being asked..."
Another in total agreement, I can't imagine any situation in which unsolicited, I'd divulge information about my sex life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some of my close friends know and a few of my work friends know too, but not my family, my friends always ask about it too i think they all want to try it but are to scared to be as open sexually as myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not a case of admitting it, i just dont feel the need to talk about my sex life with people, if anyone found out and asked me i wouldnt lie but i feel no need at all to make the first move on telling anyone"
I agree. I don't talk about my sex life in general as I'm a discreet person. Plus, for my friends to find out means that they're a part of this too!  |
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"A few trusted close friends know. I like somebody to be aware who and where I will be meeting a new man, for my safety, or in the unlikely event I go missing...
Curls x"
But is it necessary to mention you're a swinger? My sister always knows when I'm meeting someone new, but she things I'm on Match.com.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a girl who I work with but seeing as she's asked me to take her to La Chambre in a few weeks then she'll probably be in the fold too before long anyway! lol |
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I told my best friend because it came up in conversation and I knew he'd never judge me for it. It's a fairly unique situation there though because he's also my ex so already knows about a lot of my sexual preferences, although we never did any swinging. He calls it our "keys in a bowl club" no matter how many times I correct him lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a number of friends and cousins that know, I have also made some great friends from meeting in clubs.
My old boss new as I bumped into him in a club, but his wife wasnt with him so it was never mentioned again 
I 'converted' my ex husband (sorry all, he is nilla again now) & I met my ex girlfriend at a club so now I dont date nilla men or women at all, saves that awkward conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have told my best friend and my partner set up my own single profile on FABS, because they are there for me i know that i am safe. My partner would know exactly who i was meeting and when so if i did get into any trouble beware he is built like a full back on the rugby field. Apart from that i do prefer to swing with him as it's less hassle!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i let it slip on a very d*unken night out with two girls from work who i thought were my friends. i was off for a week and when i got back my boss had to pull me into the office and let me know that i was the talk of the town. Slapper was meant to be my nickname!! (i work with girls)
thankfully the boss and some of the other workers put it down to the fact all three of us had went for the same promotion and i had got it, so she sacked the other two for gross misconduct!!
having said that, i was really down and upset. from then on id never say to anyone non-scene x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few trusted close friends know. I like somebody to be aware who and where I will be meeting a new man, for my safety, or in the unlikely event I go missing...
Curls x
But is it necessary to mention you're a swinger? My sister always knows when I'm meeting someone new, but she things I'm on Match.com.
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A few of my close friends know. One of them is my safe friend - I let her know when I've got a meet and send her details of user name, phone number and location, especially if I ever go to someones house. She would never do anything with the info and it's deleted as soon as the meet is over and she's heard from me.
There have been a few instances when I've got carried away and realised that my phone's been ringing madly and she's said that she was all ready to turn up with a baseball bat and a rotty... 
But as soon as she's spoken to me and is reassured everythings fine.
I do think that as a single female who goes to hotels and on occasion private houses for meets that it's important to have some kind of safety system, even if you just leave details on your own answerphone or on a piece of paper in your house somewhere.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I leave details of the person I am meeting, address and their on line info and if I have seen them on skype or msn I always capture a face image (with permission)on my computer and save it all in a message from me to me, which I leave unopened.
All my close friends know that I do this (they think I am on a vanilla dating site) so in the unlikely event of my going missing the bastard's face will be all over the papers in no time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few of my close friends know. One of them is my safe friend - I let her know when I've got a meet and send her details of user name, phone number and location, especially if I ever go to someones house. She would never do anything with the info and it's deleted as soon as the meet is over and she's heard from me.
There have been a few instances when I've got carried away and realised that my phone's been ringing madly and she's said that she was all ready to turn up with a baseball bat and a rotty...
But as soon as she's spoken to me and is reassured everythings fine.
I do think that as a single female who goes to hotels and on occasion private houses for meets that it's important to have some kind of safety system, even if you just leave details on your own answerphone or on a piece of paper in your house somewhere. "
Couldn't agree more! I do that too am lucky to have a trustworthy friend who's almost vanilla   |
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"I leave details of the person I am meeting, address and their on line info and if I have seen them on skype or msn I always capture a face image (with permission)on my computer and save it all in a message from me to me, which I leave unopened.
All my close friends know that I do this (they think I am on a vanilla dating site) so in the unlikely event of my going missing the bastard's face will be all over the papers in no time! "
My partner is lucky like that she plays and just lets me know who when and where shes meeting etc.
I tell her the same you never know even as a fella what you could be facing out there lol.
She has told her best friend we both swing and her friend is fine with it and always eager for an up date when they meet for a coffee lol.
But I havnt told anyone.
I do feel a bit thick whats this "Vanilla" dating stuff?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i let it slip on a very d*unken night out with two girls from work who i thought were my friends. i was off for a week and when i got back my boss had to pull me into the office and let me know that i was the talk of the town. Slapper was meant to be my nickname!! (i work with girls)
thankfully the boss and some of the other workers put it down to the fact all three of us had went for the same promotion and i had got it, so she sacked the other two for gross misconduct!!
having said that, i was really down and upset. from then on id never say to anyone non-scene x"
Your boss was doing you know favours, there is no way that alone was gross misconduct, if they'd gone to tribunal the tabloids would potentially hve had a field day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want to tell anyone who isn't a swinger.
I love the fact that this aspect of my life is mine, private, exciting and for me to share with who I choose.
I don't want to let non swingers into my exciting little lifestyle.
I'm also into naturism which can also be judged by others.
My private life is private! |
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"i let it slip on a very d*unken night out with two girls from work who i thought were my friends. i was off for a week and when i got back my boss had to pull me into the office and let me know that i was the talk of the town. Slapper was meant to be my nickname!! (i work with girls)
thankfully the boss and some of the other workers put it down to the fact all three of us had went for the same promotion and i had got it, so she sacked the other two for gross misconduct!!
having said that, i was really down and upset. from then on id never say to anyone non-scene x
Your boss was doing you know favours, there is no way that alone was gross misconduct, if they'd gone to tribunal the tabloids would potentially hve had a field day."
actually it does come under gross misconduct in certain work places as bullying is classed as gross misconduct it sexual harassment as well to sexual preferences had a similar thinh at a old place and i was a witness to the bullying it is a sack able offence
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"would you admit to a close friend or fmily that ur a swinger !!!!!  "
Yes and yes but only if swinging comes up in conversation.
After all, its not like admitting you fiddle with kids is it!
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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recently told my mum and step-dad that I was a swinger .... I had already told them that I met my new fella at a naturist spa and my mum made the comment "I bet naughty stuff goes on too" and I just blushed!!!
Have told some of the girls I work with too ..... they are jealous lol
Most of my friends are naturists/swingers so if I'm asked I'm openly honest about it |
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Told my mate about it mainly because he is someone I don't have any secrets with. We even went on a gang bang together that a couple were throwing  . Quite ironic given that when I split with my ex he said he was going to sort me out a meet. In stead I sorted one out for him
If it cropped up in conversation with the right people I might talk about it but certainly wouldn't just blurt it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if any one asked id tell em, got nothing 2 hide its all about the fun and meeting people"
i think it depends on who asks
I wouldnt confess to someone who i thought would see it as a big joke and tell everyone, i have kids and being seen as mum to my kids is important to me and i wouldnt want this getting back to them and risking them thinking any less of me for shagging random men off internet sites |
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friends at work know as does a guy i used to manage lol
