So.... Following on from the Worst meet thread which certainly had some eye openers.
I got thinking about how we all escape from nightmare meets quietly and discreetly so not to cause a scene.
Ours is the casual 3 taps to the left knee or if drinks are on hand 3 taps left hand on the glass.
Never had to explain the reason why we leave, just a "we should really be getting going" but we're both on the same page every time we have to make a hasty exit |
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I think with any meet, wether you are visiting or hosting, there should always be a "get out" agreement.
Personally, I don't assume if a meet has been invited that anything will happen. I fully accept that once we've met, moods, desires, expectations etc can and do change and both parties should be free to change their minds.
I'd accept it in good grace and thank them for the opportunity. I'd hope they would also. |
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"So.... Following on from the Worst meet thread which certainly had some eye openers.
I got thinking about how we all escape from nightmare meets quietly and discreetly so not to cause a scene.
Ours is the casual 3 taps to the left knee or if drinks are on hand 3 taps left hand on the glass.
Never had to explain the reason why we leave, just a "we should really be getting going" but we're both on the same page every time we have to make a hasty exit"
Well that's 15 minutes well spent - hilarious stories in there  |
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When I was a proper single girl on here before I had honed my skills, I chatted to this fella, seemed nice. Swapped pics via Kik. He looked like my type (rugby/viking) He said he was a single Dad and his kid was going to spend the weekend with the mother and that was the only weekend he had free. Happened to fall on a mate's 30th which was fancy dress Heroes and Villains, I went as The Crow by the way. So I decided to go to the party, leave early and go to this bloke's place. So I'm dressed as The Crow (Google if you need to) on my way to this guys's flat, get there, he opens the door and he is NOT so much Viking like more Jabba The Hut...FML right?
So I go to the loo, set my alarm to go off in 5 mins with my ringtone so mimic a phone call. We sit and chat for a few minutes, he then lunges at me, 30 seconds later ringtone goes off, I grab my phone and act out a phone call
'Oh no. Really? Now? OK on my way' Make my excuses (mate in trouble at party) and bolt outta there! Long black coat flapping behind me, white and black face make up THE WORKS. Managed to get a taxi but he got a fright when he pulled up seeing me. |
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When we had a couples profile we'd always call the first meet a 'social' so we could escape afterwards if needed. In reality most became much more than a social on the same day  . On the other hand we did see some on the way to a social and turned back, messaging them to say sorry they were not for us (folk sending utterly misleading photos !).. |
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If its a social it's usually pretty obvious it's not going well so we finish our drinks and go. We learned the hard way that if things aren't going well at a play meet the best thing to do is just say so. Otherwise one person ends up not realising the other one is having a tough time. We've never had to do this yet. |
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We now use the green or red drink request. If it’s green then it all on board if it’s red then we go no further than a chat. Learnt that from some good friends on here works very well |
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Always do a non-sexual social meet first! That way I can leave, no pressure, and text them later that the chemistry just wasn't there for me. Much better for everyone. |
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"We now use the green or red drink request. If it’s green then it all on board if it’s red then we go no further than a chat. Learnt that from some good friends on here works very well"
I like this one.  |
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"We now use the green or red drink request. If it’s green then it all on board if it’s red then we go no further than a chat. Learnt that from some good friends on here works very well
I like this one. "
It’s clever and subtle we met a couple for a drink and when me and her fella went to the bar he said we are on for more as she has ordered a green drink lol |
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