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over a year ago
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"After recieving e mail informing me i got a wink and rushing to see who from yes another man when i quiet clearly state im straight why do they do it"
Use the filters if you don't want man to either look at you or message you dude. ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"If you post pictures surely it is for the pleasure of all. Just because you are straight doesnt make you less fanciable. Just accept you had a wink (cos the chances are you will get more and not all from fems ) I have been here a year and probably only winked half dozen times at most. I dont care if fems or couples or men wink at me.. comeon get real .. its a sex site you are here and they admire you..be flattered NOT offended. "
Well said Cinnamon....also i'm pretty sure that gay men can read.Oscar Wilde was a homosexual man....he could read AND write.
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I do find it funny when the single men start turning on each other.
Blimey, if I started a thread every time a under 45, married, bi, Dom male looked, winked, wrote to me I'd need my own dedicated server! ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i get winks and messages from bi and gay guys on here.
it doesnt bother me because they are saying nice things and i take it as a compliment.
just relax about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"because there are loads of bi men with straight on their profile, how are we supposed to know who is bi and who isnt?"
the bi ones struggle to read joking before everyone jumps on me |
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"I do find it funny when the single men start turning on each other.
Blimey, if I started a thread every time a under 45, married, bi, Dom male looked, winked, wrote to me I'd need my own dedicated server! "
Have you set your age pref in filters?
And for the OP if you don't want to recieve from gay men which you clearly have a problem with then instead of complaining set your profile up correctly and only receive from fems or couples, of course if theyre a couple with a bi male you still could be messaged!
On the other hand you could just stop moaning!
Or is it that you get so few winks that you were so dissapointed when you finally got one that it was a guy who chanced his arm that you might be like some of the other profiles where bi/ straight on the profile really don't matter or they just don't read as opposed to cant read? ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"After recieving e mail informing me i got a wink and rushing to see who from yes another man when i quiet clearly state im straight why do they do it"
probably for the same reason men wink and email couples when their profile states they are not looking for single males!
nature of the beast matey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take the compliment and chill out!
We all like to be appreciated, if you put your pics on here and get no response whatsoever then worry!
Winks, compliments, come ons and friendly chats are all par for the course.
We're just humans expressing our sexual selves, enjoy!! |
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"I do find it funny when the single men start turning on each other.
Blimey, if I started a thread every time a under 45, married, bi, Dom male looked, winked, wrote to me I'd need my own dedicated server!
Have you set your age pref in filters?
And for the OP if you don't want to recieve from gay men which you clearly have a problem with then instead of complaining set your profile up correctly and only receive from fems or couples, of course if theyre a couple with a bi male you still could be messaged!
On the other hand you could just stop moaning!
Or is it that you get so few winks that you were so dissapointed when you finally got one that it was a guy who chanced his arm that you might be like some of the other profiles where bi/ straight on the profile really don't matter
or they just don't read as opposed to cant read? "
Yes, that's why I included "looked", no one under 45 can contact me. |
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OP you could also ask the question why do erm 'straight' guys Pm us bi guys and ask if we want to give them a quick blow job
its one of those things with sites like this, you have to learn to seperate whats not for you out |
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"After recieving e mail informing me i got a wink and rushing to see who from yes another man when i quiet clearly state im straight why do they do it
probably for the same reason men wink and email couples when their profile states they are not looking for single males!
nature of the beast matey"
I have to say this can occur if you read the not looking and it hasn't been selected or you see single males verifying. Confusion in the profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with the above post. Hubby is always getting his pics fabbed by TV/TS. "
Just take it as a compliment, i had a thread a few weeks ago about it, most of them dont read the profile or just because they like your pics, ignore the word 'straight' and hope to change u lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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