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By *auriceF OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
One of my biggest pet hates in the lifestyle is this conversation:
“We like to take pictures and videos of everything”
“Ok. I’d be open to that. But if that’s the case, I’d like a copy of the footage too.”
*Outraged* “Oh absolutely not!”
I’m not a performer: we can both take pics & vids or neither of us can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of my biggest pet hates in the lifestyle is this conversation:
“We like to take pictures and videos of everything”
“Ok. I’d be open to that. But if that’s the case, I’d like a copy of the footage too.”
*Outraged* “Oh absolutely not!”
I’m not a performer: we can both take pics & vids or neither of us can. "
Maybe you should try a single girl rather than a couple?  |
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There's a lot of trust involved, OP, and a couple may feel they have more to lose than you. Hence previous posters suggestion. But if you can build up that trust, they may relent, that's how we are.
But I take your point that it doesn't feel fair. Your only power here is to walk away if you can't accept their terms. |
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By *auriceF OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"There's a lot of trust involved, OP, and a couple may feel they have more to lose than you. Hence previous posters suggestion. But if you can build up that trust, they may relent, that's how we are.
But I take your point that it doesn't feel fair. Your only power here is to walk away if you can't accept their terms. "
The thing is, if they feel like they have too much to lose, they shouldn’t insist on taking any pictures or videos at all. |
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