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By *man013Man
over a year ago
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I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time |
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over a year ago
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time"
I disagree with all of this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Younger guys are new to me as well.
I've fucked a guy 19 years older than me and this year 20 years younger than me.
Both had their pros and cons...ill continue to enjoy both x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Younger has always disappointed...not in terms of attractiveness...but just knowing what to do next to keep things going....and on the boil. It's like they look at everything as a separate conquest..course. Not a flowing banquet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer older, there’s no specific reason it’s just always been like that.
I’ve slept with both older & my own age (20s) and can categorically say there is no correlation when it comes to age and sexual experiences.
There’s amazing fucks in their 20s, shit fucks in their 50s and vice versa!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have fucked older and people around my age.
You're a good fuck or a bad fuck no matter your age.
I'm still waiting to be a tad older so I can fuck a young one soon! "
Don't hesitate to contact me when you're ready for that younger guy   |
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"Younger has always disappointed...not in terms of attractiveness...but just knowing what to do next to keep things going....and on the boil. It's like they look at everything as a separate conquest..course. Not a flowing banquet!!"
I didn't have that issue with the 22 year old, maybe he just had alot of experience with older women and what I enjoyed the most about him was his stamina. Tbh the last 10 years, I only been with really younger. But when I was in my 20s, I tend to date men in their 30s or similar age. But at 43, I have no idea what men are like in their late 40s and upwards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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older.
allllll day long.
ive hardly ever played with anyone my age or younger, and based off of those interactions, my play dates with older men (and women) have been far more enjoyable, and erotic. not been as far as pension age just yet though  
my partner and i have ten years between us, and i honestly couldn't want for anything more 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time"
Your that full of shit, your eyes have gone brown
Older guys have stamina and energy...... and a damn sight more experience. |
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Anyone looking for older, please feel free to message me....
I have had wonderful meets with a few younger ladies, and I certainly appreciate the fact that they appreciate an older guy.
That said, as some one said earlier in the thread, good is good, no matter what your age, and I have have great sex with a range of ages.
M  |
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The good old saying 'Age is just number'
In a playmate that physical attraction and mutual connection to explore/indulge in desires than 'usually' everything fits into place for pleasureable experience regardless of age boundaries! |
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"The good old saying 'Age is just number'
In a playmate that physical attraction and mutual connection to explore/indulge in desires than 'usually' everything fits into place for pleasureable experience regardless of age boundaries! "
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Older men all the way, but that’s just what I’m attracted to! As someone who likes dominant men I find that older men it’s more authentic, think it’s the natural authority... I don’t think age = more experience or better sex, it’s the individual that makes them a good lover! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time"
Erm no!
Won't go under 38 and even then...
In my experience young men don't listen, think that the harder they fuck the better it is and strangely think they know your body better than you do
My perfect seems to be about 5-10 years younger
Saira x |
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time
I disagree with all of this. "
Disagree with this statement too. Age has nothing to go with a man's willingness to please a woman.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time
I disagree with all of this.
Disagree with this statement too. Age has nothing to go with a man's willingness to please a woman.
MsD"
Love your ink x |
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time
I disagree with all of this.
Disagree with this statement too. Age has nothing to go with a man's willingness to please a woman.
MsD
Love your ink x"
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I would say it's more to do with the connection between the two of you as individuals.
I've been with 25 years older than me and 17 years younger, although in each case the sweet spot seems to be 10-15 years difference either way. But it's about the individual, and the reference points you have together, and à desire to experience /try the same things that make it special |
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"I never slept with a man over 41. But I'm seriously thinking maybe this is the way forward. I recently just been fucking men in their 20s.
Pros and cons of the age groups please "
Good Morning Jasmine
I'm 49yo if you'd fancy meeting up with me and having lots of Sexy Fun with an experienced Man...
Andy xx |
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Having seen a bit of life, the big difference I've noticed is the old folks tend to have a clear understanding of how to have more fun.
The early 20s generation are fun and full of beans, but I've not met many folks from that category who fully understand their bodies and the necessary pleasure.
Just a theory, and its fun proving or disproving this hypothesis |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never slept with a man over 41. But I'm seriously thinking maybe this is the way forward. I recently just been fucking men in their 20s.
Pros and cons of the age groups please "
Shame on the distance, I've not been with an older woman yet 
Mr x |
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"Having seen a bit of life, the big difference I've noticed is the old folks tend to have a clear understanding of how to have more fun.
The early 20s generation are fun and full of beans, but I've not met many folks from that category who fully understand their bodies and the necessary pleasure.
Just a theory, and its fun proving or disproving this hypothesis"
It's finding someone older with an open mind and full of beans I struggle with. I'm a very young minded 43 year old. |
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I’ve found younger to be more wham bam and not much more beyond that. The older chaps or those around my age have been more sensual, more about taking their time to please - their conversation is generally better too |
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"I’ve found younger to be more wham bam and not much more beyond that. The older chaps or those around my age have been more sensual, more about taking their time to please - their conversation is generally better too "
You are correct but not all the younger men are the same |
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"I’ve found younger to be more wham bam and not much more beyond that. The older chaps or those around my age have been more sensual, more about taking their time to please - their conversation is generally better too
You are correct but not all the younger men are the same"
I am sure they are not ... I merely commented that I have found this to be the case from my encounters thus far. I’d love to find a younger guy who could tick all those boxes ... just hasn’t happened yet. |
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"As an older guy ,
I'd like to know, What is it that younger women find attractive in a mature guy ?"
All i can say from when i was in my early 20s, older men had more money to treat me to nicer restaurants, when they "made love" they take their time with foreplay and were better at conversations. Men, in their early 20s were more fun wam bam and disappear. Now being older, I find they still abit like that younger men but some are alot maturer than I remember. Older men now for me, most don't have the stamina and too narrow minded etc. I love to meet an more open minded, free spirited and energetic older man. But none so far.  |
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"I think it's something you have to try and see if it's something you enjoy, but be selective "
My friend in his 70s too nervous to join fab thinking noone would want him. Is that true? It's extremely difficult for older men to find a younger woman on fab? |
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I think most young people have learned a lot from from i|nternet porn. Those of us, like me, who came before had to use our imagination. I'd hazard a guess that it ws far more erotic that way as you learnt by experience, not by jerking off watching two-dimensional sex. Sure, we can't compete with young studs, but I have made women come just by talking erotically to them without even touching. I'd like to see some young stud do that! |
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I usually tend to seek out younger guys, just because that is typically what I’m attracted to. But I do sometimes go for older ones. I suppose that there are some generalisations that can be made, but a lot depends on chemistry and the dynamics
My recent fwb is 15 years younger and actually lied about his age at first, I’d have ruled him out otherwise. He only lost his virginity 3 years ago.But his attitude to sex is amazing and he pushed me past some of my limits and raised the bar.
Attitude and willingness to learn about the other person is more important than experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both my previous fwb were about 10 yrs younger than me at the time. Oddly enough I get approached in the real world by younger ladies far more than my own age, some scarily young. |
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Hello
To be fair from my experience it’s the person not the age
I’ve had good and bad younger and good and bad older
So how’s personally couldn’t say which was better and why would you
Variety is the spice of life x |
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"Both my previous fwb were about 10 yrs younger than me at the time. Oddly enough I get approached in the real world by younger ladies far more than my own age, some scarily young."
You need an older woman to teach you a thing or two about climaxing |
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"Hello
To be fair from my experience it’s the person not the age
I’ve had good and bad younger and good and bad older
So how’s personally couldn’t say which was better and why would you
Variety is the spice of life x"
I like to try different ages for sure. |
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time"
So funny |
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time
So funny"
In a way, I kinda agree with him. Younger men can be very malleable |
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Both as a single and a couple I have had experience of ages from 25 to around 60. There are no fixed pros or cons in our experience, every meet was different in some way regardless of age. Some younger have been more virile, sexually attractive, enthusiastic and hungry for new experiences. Yet many older are more relaxed, sensual and liking longer more affectionate meets and lasting naughty friendships. It's more sbout what you are looking for than unreliable age related issues x |
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"Looks like I need to try an older woman or man!"
I want to try an older man but it's finding one I'm attracted to is tricky. Maybe just go for 45-50 problem I have is I love youthful looking men as I'm younger looking for my age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both can be good and both can be bad. It is the chemistry and not the age which makes the sex good."
Minds of a similar maturity get on together, regardless of whether they are of a similar age. |
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"Both can be good and both can be bad. It is the chemistry and not the age which makes the sex good.
Minds of a similar maturity get on together, regardless of whether they are of a similar age."
Minds of similar maturity and physical stamina and techniques are different though. A mature guy can think kinky but don't have the energy to stay kinky for long |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both can be good and both can be bad. It is the chemistry and not the age which makes the sex good.
Minds of a similar maturity get on together, regardless of whether they are of a similar age.
Minds of similar maturity and physical stamina and techniques are different though. A mature guy can think kinky but don't have the energy to stay kinky for long"
Surely that depends on the man? A younger guy can be unfit and an older guy fit as a fiddle? |
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Age is but a number, plenty enough fun fucking woman my own age, not had the fortune to fuck any younger, so can't comment on the experience,, I would how ever like to try a women about 10 years older to see if age does make a difference, my wife has played with guys younger but says she prefers older |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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I just can’t fuck older men... just can’t. Don’t know why.
I love younger men. My last meet before lockdown was a delicious 20-year-old. Amazing.
My FWB is 8 years younger than me. I’ve always got on better with people who are younger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What’s been said on here about it depending on the individuals is all true but generally wife prefers guys younger guys - late twenties to mid thirties. Husband prefers ladies mid thirties to late forties. We are awkward buggers! X |
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time"
Haha haha
Now that's funny |
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"Both can be good and both can be bad. It is the chemistry and not the age which makes the sex good.
Minds of a similar maturity get on together, regardless of whether they are of a similar age.
Minds of similar maturity and physical stamina and techniques are different though. A mature guy can think kinky but don't have the energy to stay kinky for long
Surely that depends on the man? A younger guy can be unfit and an older guy fit as a fiddle? "
Never been with unfit young men or fit old men to know. |
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"What’s been said on here about it depending on the individuals is all true but generally wife prefers guys younger guys - late twenties to mid thirties. Husband prefers ladies mid thirties to late forties. We are awkward buggers! X"
I think people can be as fussy as they like. It's your body at the end of the day. You can choose who makes you feel comfortable and sexy |
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"Looks like I need to try an older woman or man!
I want to try an older man but it's finding one I'm attracted to is tricky. Maybe just go for 45-50 problem I have is I love youthful looking men as I'm younger looking for my age. "
Shame your not into young tvs |
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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago
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"I never slept with a man over 41. But I'm seriously thinking maybe this is the way forward. I recently just been fucking men in their 20s.
Pros and cons of the age groups please "
Wow lucky 20s year olds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like to say As a younger lad we have more energy and stamina and what we lack in experience we make up for in willingness to be open and try new things compared to those who are older who are set in there ways on how to please a women as it worked one time"
Very silly boy |
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"I never slept with a man over 41. But I'm seriously thinking maybe this is the way forward. I recently just been fucking men in their 20s.
Pros and cons of the age groups please "
58 and willing ha ha ha x |
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