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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object? |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?"
Welcome to the 1970s!
Would you like it OP?
If I rated you, would you be pleased or would you think I was a bit of a dick?
I think you'll find the only women who say they like it are the ones who think they're amazing (which is great for them, I'm all for body confidence and empowering women) |
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Women are rated all the time...
Too mouthy
Too mousy
Too fat
Too skinny
Too frigid
Too slutty
Too wrinkly
Too made-up
Too opinionated
Too passive
Too ball-breaking
Too compliant
Neckline too low
Neckline too high
Too much cosmetic surgery
Too old-looking
Too many children
Not enough children
Too career focused
Too family focussed
Too frumpy
Too dolled-up
Nipples too big
Breasts too small
Labia too big
Vagina too loose
Too much body hair
Not enough body hair
Humourless
Too brash
Too slow to get fit after pregnancy
Too fast to get fit after pregnancy
Not assertive enough
Too pushy
Too talkative
Too afraid to give an opinion
And on and on and on...
So I’d say that we’re already well aware how objectified we are, and how we’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t.
So no thanks OP. I don’t fancy eroticising my own oppression this morning.
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over a year ago
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I stopped rating people whilst I was still in school, shortly after my balls dropped and it stopped being funny to say “out of 10, I’d give her one”.
I suspect what you are trying to ask is, is it nice to know that someone finds you physically attractive? However is seems to come across as a bit crass, sexist and misogynistic. |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?
Welcome to the 1970s!
Would you like it OP?
If I rated you, would you be pleased or would you think I was a bit of a dick?
I think you'll find the only women who say they like it are the ones who think they're amazing (which is great for them, I'm all for body confidence and empowering women) "
I repeat, I only asked the question, I didn't say that I condoned it. You may not like it but others might, someone's taboo maybe another's turn on.... |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?
Welcome to the 1970s!
Would you like it OP?
If I rated you, would you be pleased or would you think I was a bit of a dick?
I think you'll find the only women who say they like it are the ones who think they're amazing (which is great for them, I'm all for body confidence and empowering women)
I repeat, I only asked the question, I didn't say that I condoned it. You may not like it but others might, someone's taboo maybe another's turn on...."
I too only asked a question.
Would you like it? Or would you think I was a dick?
Which you haven't answered. |
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"Personally I like being seen and rated, it’s quite a turn on but obviously everyone is different.
It should be done nicely though, it’s not nice to hurt someone’s feelings
J xx"
Could'nt agree more! Some people are offended if they haven't been offended.  |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?
Welcome to the 1970s!
Would you like it OP?
If I rated you, would you be pleased or would you think I was a bit of a dick?
I think you'll find the only women who say they like it are the ones who think they're amazing (which is great for them, I'm all for body confidence and empowering women)
I repeat, I only asked the question, I didn't say that I condoned it. You may not like it but others might, someone's taboo maybe another's turn on....
I too only asked a question.
Would you like it? Or would you think I was a dick?
Which you haven't answered."
Personally no, but I don't speak for the whole of man/womankind.... |
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Ah, I hadn’t realised you were just starting a discussion. I like a discussion. Usually guys start “Do women like...?” threads with their cock in one hand.
“Do women like being rated?”
“Do women like fisting?”
“Do women like rough sex?”
So given that it’s a discussion OP, I wonder what you think about the endemic, institutionalised and widespread evaluation of women in all aspects of their lives and how that impacts on their erotic experiences of “being rated”? |
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"Personally I like being seen and rated, it’s quite a turn on but obviously everyone is different.
It should be done nicely though, it’s not nice to hurt someone’s feelings
J xx Could'nt agree more! Some people are offended if they haven't been offended. "
You’re the only one using the word “offended”. Some people really are prone to seeIng offence where there isn’t any. You, for example. |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Ah, I hadn’t realised you were just starting a discussion. I like a discussion. Usually guys start “Do women like...?” threads with their cock in one hand.
“Do women like being rated?”
“Do women like fisting?”
“Do women like rough sex?”
So given that it’s a discussion OP, I wonder what you think about the endemic, institutionalised and widespread evaluation of women in all aspects of their lives and how that impacts on their erotic experiences of “being rated”? "
Christ, someone's on their "high horse" this morning.... |
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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago
East Anglia |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?
Welcome to the 1970s!
Would you like it OP?
If I rated you, would you be pleased or would you think I was a bit of a dick?
I think you'll find the only women who say they like it are the ones who think they're amazing (which is great for them, I'm all for body confidence and empowering women)
I repeat, I only asked the question, I didn't say that I condoned it. You may not like it but others might, someone's taboo maybe another's turn on....
I too only asked a question.
Would you like it? Or would you think I was a dick?
Which you haven't answered."
I would rate you 10/10 along with Mrs Trellis. Xxxx |
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"Personally I like being seen and rated, it’s quite a turn on but obviously everyone is different.
It should be done nicely though, it’s not nice to hurt someone’s feelings
J xx Could'nt agree more! Some people are offended if they haven't been offended.
You’re the only one using the word “offended”. Some people really are prone to seeIng offence where there isn’t any. You, for example. "
 Thank you for your kind words and a pleasant day to you to. |
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"Surely by even posting a pic on fab is leaving yourself open to ratings.
Do ratings = compliments?"
I find timing of posting a photo affects "ratings" so I wouldn't judge my photos on how many fabs it got. To me it great to accept a genuine compliment. I prefer a rating from a woman than a man where there's no real hidden gender |
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"Ah, I hadn’t realised you were just starting a discussion. I like a discussion. Usually guys start “Do women like...?” threads with their cock in one hand.
“Do women like being rated?”
“Do women like fisting?”
“Do women like rough sex?”
So given that it’s a discussion OP, I wonder what you think about the endemic, institutionalised and widespread evaluation of women in all aspects of their lives and how that impacts on their erotic experiences of “being rated”?
Christ, someone's on their "high horse" this morning...."
You just said you wanted to start a discussion. So let’s discuss it. I’m disagreeing with you but I’m not being rude or antagonistic. I’m not on a high horse. I’m giving an opinion on the matter that you raised.
You twice said you didn’t endorse rating women and assured everyone it was the starting point of a discussion. So I’m joining in the discussion.
Or maybe now I’m one of those women who is:
Too opinionated
Too uptight
Too assertive
Too persistent
OP - you started this thread hoping women would present themselves for rating. Some women said they didn’t like the concept. You backtracked and pretended it was a discussion thread. I made counter-points in the manner of a discussion. You told me I was on a high horse.
I’ll leave you to finish your wank in peace OP.
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Ah, I hadn’t realised you were just starting a discussion. I like a discussion. Usually guys start “Do women like...?” threads with their cock in one hand.
“Do women like being rated?”
“Do women like fisting?”
“Do women like rough sex?”
So given that it’s a discussion OP, I wonder what you think about the endemic, institutionalised and widespread evaluation of women in all aspects of their lives and how that impacts on their erotic experiences of “being rated”?
Christ, someone's on their "high horse" this morning....
You just said you wanted to start a discussion. So let’s discuss it. I’m disagreeing with you but I’m not being rude or antagonistic. I’m not on a high horse. I’m giving an opinion on the matter that you raised.
You twice said you didn’t endorse rating women and assured everyone it was the starting point of a discussion. So I’m joining in the discussion.
Or maybe now I’m one of those women who is:
Too opinionated
Too uptight
Too assertive
Too persistent
OP - you started this thread hoping women would present themselves for rating. Some women said they didn’t like the concept. You backtracked and pretended it was a discussion thread. I made counter-points in the manner of a discussion. You told me I was on a high horse.
I’ll leave you to finish your wank in peace OP.
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"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?"
Are you joking ? Have you seen the amount of " fab my pics if you would fuck it" shit going on on here  . We woman love to be rated but to many with big egos want to be rated bigger and better . A simple " you look good" is rating enough for me x i dont need a perfect 10 to stimulate my ego |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?
Are you joking ? Have you seen the amount of " fab my pics if you would fuck it" shit going on on here . We woman love to be rated but to many with big egos want to be rated bigger and better . A simple " you look good" is rating enough for me x i dont need a perfect 10 to stimulate my ego"
Sssshhhhh!! Keep ya voice down, the "rating police" are about... |
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"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?
Are you joking ? Have you seen the amount of " fab my pics if you would fuck it" shit going on on here . We woman love to be rated but to many with big egos want to be rated bigger and better . A simple " you look good" is rating enough for me x i dont need a perfect 10 to stimulate my ego
Sssshhhhh!! Keep ya voice down, the "rating police" are about..."
Sorry i do have a tendancy to speak my mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are rated all the time...
Too mouthy
Too mousy
Too fat
Too skinny
Too frigid
Too slutty
Too wrinkly
Too made-up
Too opinionated
Too passive
Too ball-breaking
Too compliant
Neckline too low
Neckline too high
Too much cosmetic surgery
Too old-looking
Too many children
Not enough children
Too career focused
Too family focussed
Too frumpy
Too dolled-up
Nipples too big
Breasts too small
Labia too big
Vagina too loose
Too much body hair
Not enough body hair
Humourless
Too brash
Too slow to get fit after pregnancy
Too fast to get fit after pregnancy
Not assertive enough
Too pushy
Too talkative
Too afraid to give an opinion
And on and on and on...
So I’d say that we’re already well aware how objectified we are, and how we’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t.
So no thanks OP. I don’t fancy eroticising my own oppression this morning.
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This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?"
I'd only like it if I specifically asked someone to "rate me", which I'd probably only do as a joke with friends or my husband anyway.
Otherwise, no. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Personally I like being seen and rated, it’s quite a turn on but obviously everyone is different.
It should be done nicely though, it’s not nice to hurt someone’s feelings
J xx Could'nt agree more! Some people are offended if they haven't been offended.
You’re the only one using the word “offended”. Some people really are prone to seeIng offence where there isn’t any. You, for example. "
But women seem offended at what he has asked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't a 'Fab' on a picture a rating?
I always thought was , most woman like there pics fabbed is that not a rating ? I think the ops question is being looked into a tad to deep. X"
I think the fab thing is more a way of getting an ego boost or some validation. It's not the same as some setting out to potentially make someone else feel bad
I also think that lots of people take time and make effort to take good pics. Why shouldn't they be appreciated |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Isn't a 'Fab' on a picture a rating?
I always thought was , most woman like there pics fabbed is that not a rating ? I think the ops question is being looked into a tad to deep. X"
This and thank you lol... |
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"Ah, I hadn’t realised you were just starting a discussion. I like a discussion. Usually guys start “Do women like...?” threads with their cock in one hand.
“Do women like being rated?”
“Do women like fisting?”
“Do women like rough sex?”
So given that it’s a discussion OP, I wonder what you think about the endemic, institutionalised and widespread evaluation of women in all aspects of their lives and how that impacts on their erotic experiences of “being rated”?
Christ, someone's on their "high horse" this morning....
You just said you wanted to start a discussion. So let’s discuss it. I’m disagreeing with you but I’m not being rude or antagonistic. I’m not on a high horse. I’m giving an opinion on the matter that you raised.
You twice said you didn’t endorse rating women and assured everyone it was the starting point of a discussion. So I’m joining in the discussion.
Or maybe now I’m one of those women who is:
Too opinionated
Too uptight
Too assertive
Too persistent
OP - you started this thread hoping women would present themselves for rating. Some women said they didn’t like the concept. You backtracked and pretended it was a discussion thread. I made counter-points in the manner of a discussion. You told me I was on a high horse.
I’ll leave you to finish your wank in peace OP.
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Well ill rate that comment 10/10 |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"OK back to the OP
OP, as you can see , some do, some don't.
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Well, looks like Pandora has just kicked over a "can of worms."
Every FAB I give is a rating, every compliment I give is a rating, the whole picture thing is geared up for ratings.
Why bother posting pics.....? |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I'm curious as to why the OP specifically aimed his post at women as opposed to site m_mbers in general.
But, in answer to the question, no, being rated does very little for me because I don't find my own self worth in the opinions of others. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I think once anyone has put half naked / full naked pics onto a website to show case yourself in a sexual way then you are inviting people to look at you half naked/ naked in a sexual way. Most people men and women are not doing it in the hope that others say your pics are shit so they are being rated by the people looking anyway.
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?"
OP..who do you think should do the rating? Men? Other women? T Girls? Couples? Someone who has had sex with the woman in question? Someone who wants to?
And how do you define 'pretty'? The notion of beauty or 'hotness' is subjective, so one person's 10 might be another person's 4.
And would it then only be fair to rate men, couples & T Girls by the same method?
It begs the question 'why rate someone?' Is it needed? Is it a valid representation of a person?
I think not. |
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"OK back to the OP
OP, as you can see , some do, some don't.
Well, looks like Pandora has just kicked over a "can of worms."
Every FAB I give is a rating, every compliment I give is a rating, the whole picture thing is geared up for ratings.
Why bother posting pics.....?"
Double edge sword . I post pics because im happy with the way o look and to promote my profile , i dont post pics because i have a goal in life to become page 1 on most fabbed . Do i like a rating ? Maybe not , do i like a compiment ? Yea i love one . So whats the differance ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely by even posting a pic on fab is leaving yourself open to ratings.
Do ratings = compliments?
People would like to hear sugar coated lies rather than honest truths"
posting pics is a choice as to whether people can fab them or not. It not an offer to be scored points out of 10 . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely by even posting a pic on fab is leaving yourself open to ratings.
Do ratings = compliments?
People would like to hear sugar coated lies rather than honest truths posting pics is a choice as to whether people can fab them or not. It not an offer to be scored points out of 10 . "
but then again if they dont like being rated then dont join the rating forum I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are rated all the time...
Too mouthy
Too mousy
Too fat
Too skinny
Too frigid
Too slutty
Too wrinkly
Too made-up
Too opinionated
Too passive
Too ball-breaking
Too compliant
Neckline too low
Neckline too high
Too much cosmetic surgery
Too old-looking
Too many children
Not enough children
Too career focused
Too family focussed
Too frumpy
Too dolled-up
Nipples too big
Breasts too small
Labia too big
Vagina too loose
Too much body hair
Not enough body hair
Humourless
Too brash
Too slow to get fit after pregnancy
Too fast to get fit after pregnancy
Not assertive enough
Too pushy
Too talkative
Too afraid to give an opinion
And on and on and on...
So I’d say that we’re already well aware how objectified we are, and how we’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t.
So no thanks OP. I don’t fancy eroticising my own oppression this morning.
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This
No I don't think the lady in question has got out of the bed on the wrong side . She is correct.
Yes men on here rate the women on here . Especially if 'us' women dont do what they want us to do
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?"
I really couldn’t give a damn. |
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"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?"
Jesus Christ!!! Some of the replies here! You've clearly hit a nerve.
I think people haven't actually read the thread properly though.
I don't think it's to do with honesty or being rated as a sex object.
If you think about it, everyone is going to like positive feedback and nobody is going to like negative feedback.
If someone woman was to randomly come up to me and say "Hey you're a 9/10!"... I'd be thrilled! Now, if some woman come up to me and said "Hey, you're a solid 2/10!", I'd be thinking to myself... "What a dick!".
So yes, I love being rated as long as my rating is good. If the rating isn't good, no, I'm not particularly keen. Hahahaha! |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Like, 0 - 10, or hot, not so hot, etc etc?
I s'pose it's nice to know what people think but does the truth hurt sometimes? Or do you get off on honesty or maybe on a purely base level as being rated as a sex object?
I really couldn’t give a damn. "
Thanks for that lol... |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
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What made me think of this subject was another thread entitled "Rate a milf wife" many wwomen there seemed to enjoy the whole process....
I was just wondering, not rating or judging just wondering. |
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"Personally I like being seen and rated, it’s quite a turn on but obviously everyone is different.
It should be done nicely though, it’s not nice to hurt someone’s feelings
J xx Could'nt agree more! Some people are offended if they haven't been offended. "
Has anyone been offended? All I see are people responding to the OP and the OP responding back, or are you offended on behalf of the OP?!  |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I'm in no way offended.
OP you specifically asked if women wanted to be rated 0-10 not if they wanted photos fabbing.
There is a world of difference between someone you have a connection with telling you that you look gorgeous and a random stranger thinking you give a shit about their opinion and telling you you're x/10.
And I don't see fabbing a photo as a rating, it's an appreciation of the photograph. You can only get positive feedback.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely by even posting a pic on fab is leaving yourself open to ratings.
Do ratings = compliments?"
The thing is, on here guys say the same things to most women, it's clear in verifications etc so any 'compliment' is diluted and taken with a pinch of salt... By me anyway. |
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"Surely by even posting a pic on fab is leaving yourself open to ratings.
Do ratings = compliments?
The thing is, on here guys say the same things to most women, it's clear in verifications etc so any 'compliment' is diluted and taken with a pinch of salt... By me anyway. "
You mean when you're "sexy/gorgeous /to die for", until you say you're not interested, and then you're a fat ugly pig? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely by even posting a pic on fab is leaving yourself open to ratings.
Do ratings = compliments?
The thing is, on here guys say the same things to most women, it's clear in verifications etc so any 'compliment' is diluted and taken with a pinch of salt... By me anyway.
You mean when you're "sexy/gorgeous /to die for", until you say you're not interested, and then you're a fat ugly pig? "
That's the one lolol |
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"What made me think of this subject was another thread entitled "Rate a milf wife" many wwomen there seemed to enjoy the whole process....
I was just wondering, not rating or judging just wondering."
Lots of women actually seek it out one way and another. |
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