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our journey to cuckolding
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a lot of my messages are oh your poor husband or how can you do this to him and lots of other comments … so I thought id tell you our story so hopefully some can try and understand …..
Just a short insight
For 20++ years from the time we met we have both always been very sexually adventurous started swinging within 6 months of meeting … both being bi we did everything we met bi men women couples did clubs dogging (more the old days) had group fun gangbang hotels naughty sexy trucker meets and we also met on our own str8 and bi meets all done never any drama or jealousy we just encouraged each other to be sexually fulfilled whiles at the same time having a blissful and very satisfying marriage…
Mr had always had health problems that got worse as we went on many times blue lights to hospital and very complex heath with many problems not one so building up to 2 carrier bags of meds every 28 days so problems started in the erection department so him being him refused to give in and we did mainly hotwife meets where he would watch and maybe join in with no pressure it was then that he realised he was getting more turned on by me with another than actually joining in.. I seen him a few times looking at cuckolding online and could see this was turning him on.
Then the knockout punch mr had to take a few pills to make his heart work that makes the Viagra no longer work …. He was determine that this was not the end of sex for him so as we normally do sitting down and talking we got on to the subject of cuckolding and humiliation and sex …I have to be honest I was very unsure (with the humiliation ) but went with it baby steps and now we have and still have a great sex life I never knew the powers of sexual humiliation could turn a man on so much we are blissfully happy .
So please people before you judge or send horrible unthoughtful messages please think some cuckold relationships were just a natural path that feels right and both people in these relationships are very happy not everything is porn script some things are just real ….
Ps every cuckold couple are different…
And I always get ask if no sex would have I left him the answer is simple we have so much more than sex and yes 100% I would have given up swinging and sex to be with him no question asked.
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We are a cuckolding couple, we both totally love it and it takes nothing from our relationship. My hubby loves to be humilated and I love to humiliate him, for us its finding the right man to join us in our fun that's the difficult part.
The reclaiming of each other is just the best.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are a cuckolding couple, we both totally love it and it takes nothing from our relationship. My hubby loves to be humilated and I love to humiliate him, for us its finding the right man to join us in our fun that's the difficult part.
The reclaiming of each other is just the best. "
yes totally agree its so hard to find guys who understand we have been lucky and know a few who totally get it but agree it was very hard work ... |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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It's great to hear it works for you both. For me I never question why a certain element of cuckolding pleases someone. I love seeing the people I play with enjoy it. I am meeting a couple similar to yourselves and he is sub, cd and bi. Loves the humiliation aspect. I wouldn't dare question why he enjoys it, instead I ensure he gets enough of it and am always trying to think of new ways to surprise him. |
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"It's great to hear it works for you both. For me I never question why a certain element of cuckolding pleases someone. I love seeing the people I play with enjoy it. I am meeting a couple similar to yourselves and he is sub, cd and bi. Loves the humiliation aspect. I wouldn't dare question why he enjoys it, instead I ensure he gets enough of it and am always trying to think of new ways to surprise him. "
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We wish there was an alternative word for cuckold as there is always the inferance of inadequacy. We both enjoy the sight of the other at play and are quite happy to sit and watch the others action.
We do not see the guest as in any way dominant,but purely an someone we have invited into our sexual adventures.
Has anyone got a "kinder" phrase to describe the situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs N and I are fairly cucky, though it is a sliding spectrum and not all meets we've done are cuckold. I just say we do cuckold things. Sadly at the moment she is in terrible pain with her Knee so sex even with me is off the menu. It's really debilitating and it's awful to see the love of your life going through such a bad patch. I desperately want to help her but there really isn't much I can do.
It's harder for a cuckold like me because you feel so desperately sad that she is not enjoying sex with other men at the moment, it's just not possible as she is in terrible pain after. Just have to say strong I guess.
Yes been to the doctors and all that. Only relief they are giving is strong pain Killers and that is worrying in itself. Life is tough at the moment. Gotta stay strong, even though I am a weak cuckold. |
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"We wish there was an alternative word for cuckold as there is always the inferance of inadequacy. "
I totally agree with this, those that love cuckolding are completely happy, but the stigma infers that the male shouldn't be. |
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"We wish there was an alternative word for cuckold as there is always the inferance of inadequacy.
I totally agree with this, those that love cuckolding are completely happy, but the stigma infers that the male shouldn't be."
oh I get it all the time oh poor you leave him as you cant be happy or what a bitch you are to your man lol hes happier now than we have ever been so am I ...others attack or judge because they don't understand or are jealous ... our relationship is fantastic we talk we share we do if only other couples (some) did the same
the stigma some use is so wrong so its there problem not the cuckolding couples who are blissfully happy |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"We wish there was an alternative word for cuckold as there is always the inferance of inadequacy.
I totally agree with this, those that love cuckolding are completely happy, but the stigma infers that the male shouldn't be.
oh I get it all the time oh poor you leave him as you cant be happy or what a bitch you are to your man lol hes happier now than we have ever been so am I ...others attack or judge because they don't understand or are jealous ... our relationship is fantastic we talk we share we do if only other couples (some) did the same
the stigma some use is so wrong so its there problem not the cuckolding couples who are blissfully happy "
Exactly this. |
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I can relate so much. I’m in a cuckold relationship and am so happy. My husband makes me laugh and we have incredible fun. I love him more than the earth but Cock size and body size are problems sexually and he knows that and that’s ok and so I need other men and we have done this for years.
We don’t have sex but This kink is our sex I humiliate him and feminise Him and I get absolute stallion stunning specimens of men also to fuck me and he is our maid and cleans me up and takes care of me and spoils me the next day when I’m hungover or dresses me up slutty for dates. All chores are done by him all money is taken care of by him. This has worked for both of us for years and is bliss for both of us x
"We wish there was an alternative word for cuckold as there is always the inferance of inadequacy.
I totally agree with this, those that love cuckolding are completely happy, but the stigma infers that the male shouldn't be.
oh I get it all the time oh poor you leave him as you cant be happy or what a bitch you are to your man lol hes happier now than we have ever been so am I ...others attack or judge because they don't understand or are jealous ... our relationship is fantastic we talk we share we do if only other couples (some) did the same
the stigma some use is so wrong so its there problem not the cuckolding couples who are blissfully happy "
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"So a lot of my messages are oh your poor husband or how can you do this to him and lots of other comments … so I thought id tell you our story so hopefully some can try and understand …..
Just a short insight
For 20++ years from the time we met we have both always been very sexually adventurous started swinging within 6 months of meeting … both being bi we did everything we met bi men women couples did clubs dogging (more the old days) had group fun gangbang hotels naughty sexy trucker meets and we also met on our own str8 and bi meets all done never any drama or jealousy we just encouraged each other to be sexually fulfilled whiles at the same time having a blissful and very satisfying marriage…
Mr had always had health problems that got worse as we went on many times blue lights to hospital and very complex heath with many problems not one so building up to 2 carrier bags of meds every 28 days so problems started in the erection department so him being him refused to give in and we did mainly hotwife meets where he would watch and maybe join in with no pressure it was then that he realised he was getting more turned on by me with another than actually joining in.. I seen him a few times looking at cuckolding online and could see this was turning him on.
Then the knockout punch mr had to take a few pills to make his heart work that makes the Viagra no longer work …. He was determine that this was not the end of sex for him so as we normally do sitting down and talking we got on to the subject of cuckolding and humiliation and sex …I have to be honest I was very unsure (with the humiliation ) but went with it baby steps and now we have and still have a great sex life I never knew the powers of sexual humiliation could turn a man on so much we are blissfully happy .
So please people before you judge or send horrible unthoughtful messages please think some cuckold relationships were just a natural path that feels right and both people in these relationships are very happy not everything is porn script some things are just real ….
Ps every cuckold couple are different…
And I always get ask if no sex would have I left him the answer is simple we have so much more than sex and yes 100% I would have given up swinging and sex to be with him no question asked.
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agree..every cuck couple are all different .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can relate so much. I’m in a cuckold relationship and am so happy. My husband makes me laugh and we have incredible fun. I love him more than the earth but Cock size and body size are problems sexually and he knows that and that’s ok and so I need other men and we have done this for years.
We don’t have sex but This kink is our sex I humiliate him and feminise Him and I get absolute stallion stunning specimens of men also to fuck me and he is our maid and cleans me up and takes care of me and spoils me the next day when I’m hungover or dresses me up slutty for dates. All chores are done by him all money is taken care of by him. This has worked for both of us for years and is bliss for both of us x
We wish there was an alternative word for cuckold as there is always the inferance of inadequacy.
I totally agree with this, those that love cuckolding are completely happy, but the stigma infers that the male shouldn't be.
oh I get it all the time oh poor you leave him as you cant be happy or what a bitch you are to your man lol hes happier now than we have ever been so am I ...others attack or judge because they don't understand or are jealous ... our relationship is fantastic we talk we share we do if only other couples (some) did the same
the stigma some use is so wrong so its there problem not the cuckolding couples who are blissfully happy "
Sounds like fun for you both. So young too so many many happy years ahead. You have discovered the secret of a good marriage very very early on  . I'm afraid I had to have a practice run at it which lasted 20 years. now nearly 20 blissful years with Mrs N. Not married but no regrets as to what we've done. |
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