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Hints and tips for anal
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"You don’t need an enema if you have a good diet !!! Slowoooow, literally super slow motion , otherwise if/when it starts to hurt it will be too late" Good diet? I have a rubbish diet lol | |||
"Lube. Plenty of it. And try stay relaxed Sweetmiss xxx" Thankyou | |||
Seriously though... lots of lube, and try and relax..toys help too | |||
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"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? "Never had an enema in my life. Some people douche. Generally advisable to at least make sure that you have been to the toilet before and make sure everything is nice & clean. Try to relax as much as possible, use plenty lube and take it slow. Lots of foreplay to get you relaxed and in the mood. Maybe experiment a bit on your own first. | |||
"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? "Lube it up and bite the pillow | |||
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"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? "Piece of leather to bite on ! | |||
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"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? As someone who isn’t also well versed on the joys of anal, lube and relax. Be aroused first and enjoy it’s actually quiet nice " | |||
"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? Take it Slow lots of lube and a thin cock Steer clear of girthy monsters good luck " | |||
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"I have a shower enema (it's tricky if you have a power shower lol). If you use that, do it after taking a good shit. Before hand have a high fiber diet. Make sure your partner isnt squirmish! If he freaks over a bit of shit on his dick...he isnt worth it! Theres lost of blogs on when to tell you're clean if you enema or douche. I'd say stick a finger up there to know or use a toy. I have a tiny butt plug that helps me relax before anal. He/she needs to foreplay that ass-lick and toy. I love the sensation of warm oil over my ass and hole. I heard people say laying on your side and knees to your chest help your first time. Laying on your back or doggy are fun for me. I know people say use lube liberally but too much can cause jelly poo babies lol. Be vocal and tell him even if it hurts an inch! I use liquid silk lube-you can add water or saliva to get it runny when it gets a bit tacky. " Jelly poo babies pmsfl...! Ha ha | |||
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"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? "To be fair, I always douche before sex (I know it isn’t the best thing as you got to plan a little) but I am so paranoid about being unclean that I’d rather I’m all clean than taking a chance .. Also, I’d recommend lots of lube as well, maybe before throwing urself in the deep, try with a toy first to see how it feels, and ask ur partner to go real slow first. My suggestion is also to do it when ur very aroused so lots of foreplay is recommended Last but not least, have fun | |||
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"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? "All you need is a douche. They can be bought for a tenner. Once spotlessly clean all you then need is lube. Apply plenty, then some more. Once you think you have applied too much apply some more. After which, lie back and relax. Ask your lucky partner to be gentle. Just open you up gently with a finger at first. Once you get to penetration don't go all in at once, let the top of his penis's go in then hold it there for a moment until you become used to it. If you feel pain get him to withdraw, take a moment then go again..2nd time in is normally far easier but again only with the top of his penis. Once you are comfortable he should then be able to gently enter you fully, nice and slowly. Within minutes you'll then be fucking like rabbits hope this helps and hope you enjoy! | |||
"I'd suggest starting small. Get some anal desensitizing gel lube and a small anal dildo and get used to penetration before going for it with a partner." Desensitising gel is the worst thing ever for anal. Pain is your bodies way of saying this isn't right. Anal might be uncomfortable at first but it shouldn't be painful. My advice is to get a few small plugs and work at being able to get them in and be used to having something up there. Then start to include anal play with other sex activities so maybe some rimming or sliding a finger up there whilst being given oral etc. You don't have to use an enema or douche but I prefer it as it ensures I'm squeeky clean up there. Then when you are finally ready take your time and don't rush things. I find anal easier if I've cum already to relax my body. Then lots of fingerinh adding lube to your ass hole and to gently stretch you. When you are ready let him slowly push against your hole, at this point push out like your trying to poop, at this point he should pop inside. Take a minute to get used to the feeling before he slowly starts to fuck you then relax and enjoy it. | |||
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"I love anal and always douche, have a special attachment on the shower for it. Have a rubbish digestive system so it's a must! I think generally anal sex is something you have to prepare for and be totally relaxed otherwise forget it, it will hurt I'm seeing someone who hasn't done anal before has a poop phobia so I'm in the opposite situation in trying to convince him it's fine, as I wouldn't do it unless I knew it's shiny clean. I've never had to use lube, just a nice moist tongue to help first! " Exactly, it’s always best to be douched even if your diet is good, as sometimes you can never know if ur truly clean | |||
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"Preferably pick a man that is experienced. Don't rush. Don't use desensitising lube ~ you need to know if it's hurting. Make sure you are totally aroused. If he enjoys rimming let him do that. When he starts to push in, relax, when he has a bit of his dick in hold it there to get used to the feeling, a bit more, stop again etc. It might sting. I sometimes hold a vibrator on my clit to take my mind off that bit! Once all the way in and after a few strokes you will be loving it "Great advice. I would add if you’re relying so much on lube, as a guy your doing it wrong , relaxing, being properly aroused and going really slow is much more important that adding tons of lube. | |||
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"Preferably pick a man that is experienced. Don't rush. Don't use desensitising lube ~ you need to know if it's hurting. Make sure you are totally aroused. If he enjoys rimming let him do that. When he starts to push in, relax, when he has a bit of his dick in hold it there to get used to the feeling, a bit more, stop again etc. It might sting. I sometimes hold a vibrator on my clit to take my mind off that bit! Once all the way in and after a few strokes you will be loving it
Great advice.
I would add if you’re relying so much on lube, as a guy your doing it wrong , relaxing, being properly aroused and going really slow is much more important that adding tons of lube. "Agree about lube, I've only ever used a little bit to ease entrance shall we say! The muscles soon relax hey?? | |||
Personally i like a lot of foreplay beforehand, touching teasing, toys, building up to it. Relax! Go super slow, until you're comfortable and it's feeling good, then go for it
I 'prepare' in the shower, as others have commented.. But that's just for my own piece of mind.
Honestly go for it OP, when you're ready and comfortable. So much fun to be had!
Px | |||
"Persil Advance" Best... reply....ever | |||
"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? "Make sure you’re relaxed, lubed, slow start and play there beforehand | |||
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"Ok, so as someone considering anal for the first time do any of you more experienced bunch have any tips for how I prepare for it. I've seen someone say they always have an enema - never had one in my life! Is it necessary, and are there any other tips you could give me? "Just dont bother, its not pleasant at all. If a guy ask me for it i casually ask him can i stick and 8 inch vibrator up his ass first . Though must be carefull with that cus some guys have been known to say please . Seriously though i find it painful un pleasent and un hygenic . | |||
