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Ladies:
Do you like a gentleman who sends his initial message where he polite and respectful or prefer outright dirty talk about what he wants to do to you?
Men: Do you think women on fab love it when you send initial message full explicit dirty talk?
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over a year ago
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"Ladies:
Do you like a gentleman who sends his initial message where he polite and respectful or prefer outright dirty talk about what he wants to do to you?
Men: Do you think women on fab love it when you send initial message full explicit dirty talk?
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I don’t think it works as well to stick out from the crowd, like maybe a line of flirting to get the ball rolling but we’ve got to catch their imagination and give something to actually reply to x |
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Unless a scenario has been arranged before hand? But otherwise courtesy and respect to begin are a must! But then the filth begins and I love guys to treat me rough and abuse me, talk to me like I'm a worthless slut to be used and abused! They can make love to me and treat me tenderly and everthing inbetween once we know each other.  xx |
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"Ladies:
Do you like a gentleman who sends his initial message where he polite and respectful or prefer outright dirty talk about what he wants to do to you?
Men: Do you think women on fab love it when you send initial message full explicit dirty talk?
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I take my que from whats written in someone profile and write back in same vein. |
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over a year ago
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Think it's always best to be polite get to know each other first and be respectful ladies and couple already get bombard with messages so best to be polite. |
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I always start with a polite introduction as a first message. I feel you can usually tell after a couple of messages which way the conversation is going and take it from there. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Polite and respectful are far more likely to get a response, especially if there is some humour in there as well.
Introduce yourself with a filthy message and you are likely to just get blocked. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I had a guy send me the creepiest, sexual, gross scenario yesterday. Then said ‘women prefer that over a nice message’
No we don’t hun"
So many guys are under that impression  there may be a few women on here who prefer that approach but I'm pretty sure they are the minority |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies:
Do you like a gentleman who sends his initial message where he polite and respectful or prefer outright dirty talk about what he wants to do to you?
Men: Do you think women on fab love it when you send initial message full explicit dirty talk?
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I used to be nice, send a nice message, even used to be nice in the forums. But a few years down the line and it's got me nowhere.
Now I just dont message women (they never reply) and I just tell people how it is on the forums.
No matter what you do on this site, you just can win either way... |
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"I had a guy send me the creepiest, sexual, gross scenario yesterday. Then said ‘women prefer that over a nice message’
No we don’t hun"
The is always one who takes it too far on here feel your pain it's the grotesquely detailed ones that creep me out the most 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies:
Do you like a gentleman who sends his initial message where he polite and respectful or prefer outright dirty talk about what he wants to do to you?
Men: Do you think women on fab love it when you send initial message full explicit dirty talk?
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Wording of the message is irrelevant surely, just attach a shit load of cock pics.... ladies don't read the messages right? |
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"I had a guy send me the creepiest, sexual, gross scenario yesterday. Then said ‘women prefer that over a nice message’
No we don’t hun"
Think I had the same guy message me today, they are from the ‘it’s a sex site ffs brigade’. Erm nope and block. |
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"Ladies:
Do you like a gentleman who sends his initial message where he polite and respectful or prefer outright dirty talk about what he wants to do to you?
Men: Do you think women on fab love it when you send initial message full explicit dirty talk?
Wording of the message is irrelevant surely, just attach a shit load of cock pics.... ladies don't read the messages right? "
No i pay more attention to words but dick pic is equally helpful but I want both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gentlemen. Always.
Untill the meet. Then he can be utter filth and whisper all sorts to me.
Messages do nothing for me and just put me off. I dont read them if I'm honest.
Sweet miss xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely more polite but with a compliment gets my attention.
Dirty messages normally get deleted unless they have a good profile..
A joke always good too... |
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We like the 1 liner txt spk... "u wanna watch me fuck ur missus" type message with plenty of spelling mistakes Really gets our attention!!
Seriously though, some effort would be good for a start in relation to our interests. Humour with an aim to show you can type and hold a conversation as we're not the ones for quick one offs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not at all sure of the right approach, but I don't think I know how to be impolite or crude right off the bat. I wouldn't have thought the latter works very well? |
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