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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " wheres sherlock when you need him  | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " . If a guy is happy enough to use BBC or other names that give that interpretation his username which some do then then why is a white lady been racist by using the same term. | |||
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"I don't think it's racist though I wouldn't refer to myself as a BBC coz I'm not defined by the size of my dick. I think porn has played a huge role in making the term popular just like MILF,BBW,HOTWIFE etc." This Gentleman sums it up perfectly. | |||
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"I don't see how when something positive is said about someone, it can be racist. " Agreed, this is definitely a post just to trigger people | |||
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"If you wanted to technically word it you could request for a VWE male and for visual effects of a contrasting appearance. But if we are being PC about it can people advertise seeking VWE..isnt this discrimination against less well endowed men...are age filters being discrimination against older or younger people...is BBW, VWE, Caucasian BBC etc going to far ? If any of the terms are used to imply superiority or derogatory definitions of a person or group of people then yes its wrong. But where do we draw the line between being reasonable and practical or going to far ? What is acceptable and what is not..on FAB bbc is by the majority not seen in anyway to be derogatory or as discrimination. " Exactly this. It can only be changed by the people using the term. If no one uses or responds to the term then it will disappear | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " How can a preference for black men be called racist. | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss How can a preference for black men be called racist. " In exactly the same way the a profile stating Caucasian people only would be deemed racist surely? | |||
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"Of course it’s a triggering post. That’s the point. It’s supposed to be an uncomfortable question. Interesting is the view that black men use it so therefore it’s not inherently racist. I don’t think that carries any weight at all. I’m just curious about people who will only have sex with people of a particular race. It’s fine to sit back and watch the replies..." i only have sex with people I'm attracted to  | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too. "Personally, I abhor the term BBC to describe myself or other Black men, but you are correct, many guys use it here. You are also correct about the “other” word which I hate even more and can find no excuse for Black people to use. Ultimately I have to agree with you, if we use these terms to describe ourselves, what is the argument when others use those terms? The word you missed in your statement is “some”. Some Black people use this terminology, and then try to justify it to someone like me, who will be offended regardless who uses it. White vocabulary matters as much as any other, but my view is that anyone with a modicum of intelligence will refrain from using negative terminology to describe any other human irrespective of whether that group uses it themselves. Perpetuating ignorance because others are is not a defence in my opinion. | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Personally, I abhor the term BBC to describe myself or other Black men, but you are correct, many guys use it here. You are also correct about the “other” word which I hate even more and can find no excuse for Black people to use. Ultimately I have to agree with you, if we use these terms to describe ourselves, what is the argument when others use those terms?
The word you missed in your statement is “some”. Some Black people use this terminology, and then try to justify it to someone like me, who will be offended regardless who uses it.
White vocabulary matters as much as any other, but my view is that anyone with a modicum of intelligence will refrain from using negative terminology to describe any other human irrespective of whether that group uses it themselves.
Perpetuating ignorance because others are is not a defence in my opinion.
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Personally, I abhor the term BBC to describe myself or other Black men, but you are correct, many guys use it here. You are also correct about the “other” word which I hate even more and can find no excuse for Black people to use. Ultimately I have to agree with you, if we use these terms to describe ourselves, what is the argument when others use those terms?
The word you missed in your statement is “some”. Some Black people use this terminology, and then try to justify it to someone like me, who will be offended regardless who uses it.
White vocabulary matters as much as any other, but my view is that anyone with a modicum of intelligence will refrain from using negative terminology to describe any other human irrespective of whether that group uses it themselves.
Perpetuating ignorance because others are is not a defence in my opinion.
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"Whats the bet the OP has nothing further to say. Its a deliberate trigger post "Absolutely spot on! At any time this subject is sure to raise tensions so what better to literally create trouble and division by mentioning this topic and following it with discuss... Nothing other than an attempt to cause trouble. | |||
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"The historical context of choosing black men because on their virility or strength is plain to see. " It’s plain? So white men aren’t those things? | |||
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"Whats the bet the OP has nothing further to say. Its a deliberate trigger post
Absolutely spot on! At any time this subject is sure to raise tensions so what better to literally create trouble and division by mentioning this topic and following it with discuss...
Nothing other than an attempt to cause trouble. "Not at all. How is creating tension and trouble? Are you incapable of having a robust discussion without the victim card being played? | |||
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"I don't think it's racist though I wouldn't refer to myself as a BBC coz I'm not defined by the size of my dick. I think porn has played a huge role in making the term popular just like MILF,BBW,HOTWIFE etc. This Gentleman sums it up perfectly." My personal preference is white women. Bbc or black cock etc everyone knows who is being referred to. Steve | |||
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"Whats the bet the OP has nothing further to say. Its a deliberate trigger post
Absolutely spot on! At any time this subject is sure to raise tensions so what better to literally create trouble and division by mentioning this topic and following it with discuss...
Nothing other than an attempt to cause trouble. "I can see your point in this. Hence peaceful protests becoming riots | |||
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"Interesting how I’ve been blocked by “BBC” lovers despite me never engaging with them in the first place! These are the kinds of people we need to worry about .... "Try it on somewhere else pal. You’ve failed to stir up the trouble you wanted. Personally, (judging by a lot of comments we’ve recently read on here) lots of people are upset and fed up with the lockdown and the seemingly never ending stream of bad news every day so your attempts to cause trouble (Light touch paper...Discuss) are simply out of order. There have been huge gatherings this weekend where this subject could have been discussed at length. I assume you did! Anyway, you partially succeeded here by getting us to bite so with this in mind this is the last we will comment on this! | |||
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"Interesting how I’ve been blocked by “BBC” lovers despite me never engaging with them in the first place! These are the kinds of people we need to worry about .... "They don’t know whether you intend to engage with them or not, so they block you in advance just in case you decide to engage. They may have blocked you because you are not what they are looking for in terms of their preference. There is nothing wrong with them blocking you on that basis. You seem upset about that, so you start a thread to cause trouble. | |||
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"Basically, well endowed and average black men like the term as it enforces a positive stereotype. But for some shorter guys they don’t appreciate it as it can be underwhelming when their partner is disappointed when they dont see a monster cock. Now there are some bigger guys who follow and repeat what black feminists say, that is the term “BBC” fetishises them which is bollox really" Thank you....... | |||
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"I don't think it's racist though I wouldn't refer to myself as a BBC coz I'm not defined by the size of my dick. I think porn has played a huge role in making the term popular just like MILF,BBW,HOTWIFE etc." Agreed, porn among other things | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too. "Not all of us 'advertise' as such | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Not all of us 'advertise' as such "I don’t use it either, so that’s that theory out of the window. What other word do WE use that you can’t use? OP is definitely trying to trigger people and comments like the one I’m quoting are something else. | |||
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"Lol What a privileged white male thread to post Hes not trying to stir up chat on race hes really only angry that his cock is not getting as much action ... because he is white I picked you up right OP? " Off beam, Dan... perhaps you could focus on securing your first meet than shoot wayward shots at me  | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Not all of us 'advertise' as such
I don’t use it either, so that’s that theory out of the window.
What other word do WE use that you can’t use?
OP is definitely trying to trigger people and comments like the one I’m quoting are something else."Slightly concerns me that I’m seeing a few posts saying my post is “triggering”. Triggering what, exactly? If this post makes you angry what does that say about you? | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " Is that a white woman you are fucking in your picture. Is she racist and did you tell her that before you fucked her? | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss Is that a white woman you are fucking in your picture. Is she racist and did you tell her that before you fucked her? " I have no idea what you’re getting at here  | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Not all of us 'advertise' as such
I don’t use it either, so that’s that theory out of the window.
What other word do WE use that you can’t use?
OP is definitely trying to trigger people and comments like the one I’m quoting are something else.
Slightly concerns me that I’m seeing a few posts saying my post is “triggering”. Triggering what, exactly? If this post makes you angry what does that say about you? "It doesn’t say anything about me because I’m not angry, this thread has come up so many times and the reason why I said it’s triggering is because you’ve said the term and any white woman fetishing over black men is a racist. I don’t find it racist at all, I’d say it’s ignorant if black men (The ones who you made a thread about such as myself) are seen for their dick sizes only and if we are defined by just our cocks only. | |||
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"Lol What a privileged white male thread to post Hes not trying to stir up chat on race hes really only angry that his cock is not getting as much action ... because he is white I picked you up right OP? Off beam, Dan... perhaps you could focus on securing your first meet than shoot wayward shots at me "Lol  | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss Is that a white woman you are fucking in your picture. Is she racist and did you tell her that before you fucked her? I have no idea what you’re getting at here "That first picture is of a white pussy and black cock. Is thst yours? | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss Is that a white woman you are fucking in your picture. Is she racist and did you tell her that before you fucked her? I have no idea what you’re getting at here
That first picture is of a white pussy and black cock. Is thst yours?"That’s my cock, and I’m not black. | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss Is that a white woman you are fucking in your picture. Is she racist and did you tell her that before you fucked her? I have no idea what you’re getting at here
That first picture is of a white pussy and black cock. Is thst yours?
That’s my cock, and I’m not black."Spray tan looks good then  | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss Is that a white woman you are fucking in your picture. Is she racist and did you tell her that before you fucked her? I have no idea what you’re getting at here
That first picture is of a white pussy and black cock. Is thst yours?
That’s my cock, and I’m not black.
Spray tan looks good then "I’m dark skinned as I’m Mediterranean but yes my dick is much darker than the rest of my body  | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss Is that a white woman you are fucking in your picture. Is she racist and did you tell her that before you fucked her? I have no idea what you’re getting at here
That first picture is of a white pussy and black cock. Is thst yours?
That’s my cock, and I’m not black.
Spray tan looks good then
I’m dark skinned as I’m Mediterranean but yes my dick is much darker than the rest of my body "So anyone clicks on that pic and sees a black cock....will assume it is attached to a black man. You may wanna rething your pics or you will be being pursed by racist white women. But I'm sure you know that. | |||
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"I've been called racist for not being attracted to black men.. how is that racist? I've nothing against them..just can't help who I find attractive." This is what boogles my mind about some people... If someone doesn’t like something, who are they to tell you you’re wrong..... | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " Utter nonsense the amount of black guys over the years (been on here before for several years)That have contacted us with the message usually starting with Do you like big black cock? Which luckily I do and have had plenty. This is just another case of someone virtue signaling again and how holier than thou they are. xx | |||
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"Why do guys put it on profile bbc why not well endowed coloured guy same meaning" That's a bit of a mouthful | |||
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"Why do guys put it on profile bbc why not well endowed coloured guy same meaning" Maybe because we are not coloured!!! I find that racist | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss How can a preference for black men be called racist. In exactly the same way the a profile stating Caucasian people only would be deemed racist surely?" | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too. "Embarrassing | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Embarrassing " | |||
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"Lol What a privileged white male thread to post Hes not trying to stir up chat on race hes really only angry that his cock is not getting as much action ... because he is white I picked you up right OP? " Absolutely spot on and summed up perfectly | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Embarrassing
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Not all of us 'advertise' as such
I don’t use it either, so that’s that theory out of the window.
What other word do WE use that you can’t use?
OP is definitely trying to trigger people and comments like the one I’m quoting are something else."And failed woefully | |||
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"Why do guys put it on profile bbc why not well endowed coloured guy same meaning" Why not BBC?Because its just an abbreviation and their choice. Unfortunately u have no control over that like u wish u did.lol  | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice " If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag | |||
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"Why do guys put it on profile bbc why not well endowed coloured guy same meaning Maybe because we are not coloured!!! I find that racist"
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag "exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss wheres sherlock when you need him "Hanging out with Dr Watson! | |||
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"Bbc meant to mean big black cock only thing it’s not always true I don’t think it’s racist if it’s a true statement Like bbw big body women I" The second 'b' means beautiful, usually! | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are"Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are
Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size "thats very true if your 3ft 2 that should still let you in | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are
Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size
thats very true if your 3ft 2 that should still let you in "are you mocking little people? | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are
Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size
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"I dont get why years ago, it was not pc to say black it was coloured, now its not pc to say coloured its black , now i see online a petition to stop making “black bins” the worlds gone fecking mad" It has been black coloured and now black again.... Round and round | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are
Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size
thats very true if your 3ft 2 that should still let you in are you mocking little people?"i would never mock little people as i own a little person myself, so no i wouldn't mock small people no | |||
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"I dont get why years ago, it was not pc to say black it was coloured, now its not pc to say coloured its black , now i see online a petition to stop making “black bins” the worlds gone fecking mad" the world has gone cray cray but the one thing that is 100% is that skni colour doesnt matter all live matter simple as | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are
Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size
thats very true if your 3ft 2 that should still let you in are you mocking little people?
i would never mock little people as i own a little person myself, so no i wouldn't mock small people no"sorry, the mission was look for offence and it's everywhere lol | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are
Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size
thats very true if your 3ft 2 that should still let you in are you mocking little people?
i would never mock little people as i own a little person myself, so no i wouldn't mock small people no sorry, the mission was look for offence and it's everywhere lol "the world has gone fucking mad, the OP has woken up one day and gone " :O i fancy pissing people off.... i know ill jump on fab my one way of getting ladies ill write a post that has fuck all to do with me, and everyone will agree with me" no op you good sir are what is known as an ARSEHOLE who is basically looking to stir the pot and cause trouble and issues plain and fucking simple your a twat, the fact is colour, gender, secual orientation, religion doesnt matter what does matter however is the kind of person you are, skin colour does no matter its what you do that defines you (Thanks Batman.........Batman Begins slighty modified by me ) | |||
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"I'm sorry but is someone refers to themselves as a BBC that is there choice just like with ladies I've seen a few refer to themselves as milfs or cougar as well as BBW (big beautiful women) what someone calls themselves is completely and utterly down to them for example i call my cock....... "Boris Donald Pecker" not because he has bad hair but because he and boris n donald have something in common.... there all cocks with an asshole for a friend but thats my choice to call my willy that its not racist to name my willy after them so if someone refers to themselves as a BBC, BWC, BBW, MILF, COUGAR, thats there choice If colour doesn't matter at a job interview why does it matter on a sex site, rainbow flag
exactly my point colour should never matter, what does matter is the kind of person you are
Policemen once had to be over 6ft tall, but it was discriminating against some races, so the height restriction was lifted, you shouldn't be discriminated against on size
thats very true if your 3ft 2 that should still let you in are you mocking little people?
i would never mock little people as i own a little person myself, so no i wouldn't mock small people no sorry, the mission was look for offence and it's everywhere lol "Oh, owning a little person is slavery lol and that subject is not for joking about, ok people,no joking, alright, don't even think about smiling | |||
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"I dont get why years ago, it was not pc to say black it was coloured, now its not pc to say coloured its black , now i see online a petition to stop making “black bins” the worlds gone fecking mad" Without 'coming for you' so to speak, now would be the time to maybe educate yourself on what would be considered correct or acceptable terminology to use now rather than state publicly you don't understand something and expect others to do that labour for you. You have the wealth of the internet at your fingertips with countless resources available if you really did wanted to understand this issue thoroughly. P.s the only petition I can see in relation to black bins is the lack thereof due to government/council cut backs in various places across the country. I cannot find one where people appear to be unhappy about the nomenclature but that isn't to say one doesn't exist because I couldn't find it. | |||
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"I dont get why this is still a topic. Why are other groups of people so concerned with it. If you want to say bbc just say it. Whats gonna happen if you say it? Nothing! This is a tired topic." Because we all need to be vigilant, and not become used to terms that may or may not be acceptable in an ever changing world, one where black is acceptable for a decade then it isn't and the a few decades later it is, are you feeling me... | |||
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"Some black guys like it. I knew a black American man who liked to roleplay with white women. He liked it when they told him to fuck them good or they would send him back to the cotton fields. He loved it "So u are going to ignorantly use an example of one black man to generalise.How pathetic | |||
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"Some black guys like it. I knew a black American man who liked to roleplay with white women. He liked it when they told him to fuck them good or they would send him back to the cotton fields. He loved it
So u are going to ignorantly use an example of one black man to generalise.How pathetic "Its called race play. We’re not on Facebook. Its fab. People have their fetishes and kinks here. Its minor. You dont like it just move on. | |||
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"Some black guys like it. I knew a black American man who liked to roleplay with white women. He liked it when they told him to fuck them good or they would send him back to the cotton fields. He loved it
So u are going to ignorantly use an example of one black man to generalise.How pathetic
Its called race play. We’re not on Facebook. Its fab. People have their fetishes and kinks here. Its minor. You dont like it just move on."Mind your business kiddo | |||
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"I don't think it's racist though I wouldn't refer to myself as a BBC coz I'm not defined by the size of my dick. I think porn has played a huge role in making the term popular just like MILF,BBW,HOTWIFE etc." Bingo! Finally, I don't need to add anything else in a thread because that sums it up perfectly. Well said. Don't you just like it when on rare occasions that "bingo" moment happens. And that is exactly how some of my friends think. Thanks | |||
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"Racist : adjective showing or feeling discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or believing that a particular race is superior to another. How does "BBC" fit the above description of a racist? Where is the prejudice? Where is the superiority?" No one advertises small black cock, suggesting big black is thought of as superior, but colour should never be used in a positive or negative way, as you say, it should always be neutral and keep a balance in the world, ban the rainbow for being to bright | |||
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"Why do guys put it on profile bbc why not well endowed coloured guy same meaning That's a bit of a mouthful "lol!! | |||
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"Why cant we just all be human, why does it have to be black, white, asian , pakistani, chinese etc, why cant all humans just get on! Lifes too short to have race wars and all this nonsense , everyone wants to be equal, so no matter how you identify we are all human , problem solved worlds a happy place lets stop the violence, looting etc as after all it just raises our taxes and nobody wants that haha "This is the ideal, and I truly hope I live to see it but I doubt I will. To paraphrase Bob Marley, I pray that is not a fleeting illusion to be pursued, but never attained. | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss How can a preference for black men be called racist. " Beautifully said and true x | |||
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"Racist : adjective showing or feeling discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or believing that a particular race is superior to another. How does "BBC" fit the above description of a racist? Where is the prejudice? Where is the superiority? No one advertises small black cock, suggesting big black is thought of as superior, but colour should never be used in a positive or negative way, as you say, it should always be neutral and keep a balance in the world, ban the rainbow for being to bright "It should be like job interviews, no mention of colour or photos, it's about being qualified for the job of sex! Not just picking a colour you like! | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " We have been. Its not racist to prefer a black man to a white. | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss We have been. Its not racist to prefer a black man to a white. " Yes it is, preference is illegal ! Picking someone on colour is outrageous, it's not a zoo! | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too.
Personally, I abhor the term BBC to describe myself or other Black men, but you are correct, many guys use it here. You are also correct about the “other” word which I hate even more and can find no excuse for Black people to use. Ultimately I have to agree with you, if we use these terms to describe ourselves, what is the argument when others use those terms?
The word you missed in your statement is “some”. Some Black people use this terminology, and then try to justify it to someone like me, who will be offended regardless who uses it.
White vocabulary matters as much as any other, but my view is that anyone with a modicum of intelligence will refrain from using negative terminology to describe any other human irrespective of whether that group uses it themselves.
Perpetuating ignorance because others are is not a defence in my opinion.
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up. "Lighten up! As in get whiter! Outrageous! It's that sort of prejudice I'm against | |||
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up.
Lighten up! As in get whiter!
Outrageous! It's that sort of prejudice I'm against "Hahaha haha hahahaha good one | |||
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"Black men advertise their selves as BBC for white people not to be able to use the same words is not equallity. I can think of another word that they use but we aren't supposed to. White vocabulary matters too. "Very true | |||
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up.
Lighten up! As in get whiter!
Outrageous! It's that sort of prejudice I'm against :-
Hahaha haha hahahaha good one "It's not a laughing matter, we should never joke about colour, in case it become an epidemic and we all end up in a melting pot | |||
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up. "Is it indeed. Well thats nice but i kind of like a brain with my big black one. Oh and please dnt lighten up | |||
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up.
Is it indeed. Well thats nice but i kind of like a brain with my big black one.
Oh and please dnt lighten up "What's wrong with black and white stripes as a statement of equal ness? Why do you have to shun and prejudice a whole section of society? Jeez what is wrong with some people! | |||
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up.
Is it indeed. Well thats nice but i kind of like a brain with my big black one.
Oh and please dnt lighten up
What's wrong with black and white stripes as a statement of equal ness? Why do you have to shun and prejudice a whole section of society? Jeez what is wrong with some people! "Oh dear. My life. My choice. My preference. I choose who i fuck not you or anybody else. I have been married to a white man and dated white men. I now choose Black and peoud of my choices if you dnt like it leave the thread | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss We have been. Its not racist to prefer a black man to a white. Yes it is, preference is illegal ! Picking someone on colour is outrageous, it's not a zoo! "Are you for real ? | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss We have been. Its not racist to prefer a black man to a white. Yes it is, preference is illegal ! Picking someone on colour is outrageous, it's not a zoo!
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"I dont get why this is still a topic. Why are other groups of people so concerned with it. If you want to say bbc just say it. Whats gonna happen if you say it? Nothing! This is a tired topic." Bump AND Bump again, again again etc | |||
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up. "There we go settled! Thank you mate | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " What is this madness...??? I have a BBC and i am happy to have that pointed out and appreciated... It isn't the be all and end all.... But i love to give it and women seem to love to take it!!! There husband/boyfriends also seem to love watching it with there other half All good i say... | |||
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"I don't think it's racist though I wouldn't refer to myself as a BBC coz I'm not defined by the size of my dick. I think porn has played a huge role in making the term popular just like MILF,BBW,HOTWIFE etc." Nail, head you’ve hit it kidda. Well said that man. Why is it derogatory. It’s an abbreviation, isn’t it? I’d rather type Bbc than Big black cock Or Bbw than Big beautiful woman Or in our case OI WOMAN SHUT UP OR YOU’LL DO THIS IRONING YOURSELF So I call her wifey lol. Point is, our sex site is our escape let’s just enjoy. It’s ALL our own private little place. No racism, No hatred just us being naughty with ppl we like and want to be naughty with. If that makes sense. Keep laughing, keep being naughty and stay safe ppl | |||
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"fab is a place where you can come and explore your wildest fantasy's . one of which for alot of couples and women is to explore interracial play . be that the female wanting to try it or the male wanting to see it , now their reasons are there own . unfortunately in the evolution of said races and there are always exceptions black guys seem to be better equipped than other races , now some women will not just be interested in size but will want the contrast , now im not talking about falling in love im talking about sex and the inner most desires . if black guys want to describe themselves as BBC to emphasise this then surely that's up to them . it also makes it easier to sort out a prospective play partner , maybe fab could change options to vwe or vvwe and then you can use other filters to choose a black or mixed or who ever you are looking for and we could then eliminate the use of BBC. personally i do think that PC behaviour is gonna go to far to the point you wont be able to say anything for being in fear of upsetting someone .thats just my thoughts " I actually find its more white that use the term BBC a lot of black guys dnt like it. It labels them and god knows they have enough labels to deal with in this day and age. I find the term offensive. My partner is black id never and neither would he refer himself as a BBC. If i ever get a message with that i simply say i dnt watch BBC i prefer ITV. Normally kills the conversation | |||
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"I give zero shits... Mine is big and black. Lighten up.
Is it indeed. Well thats nice but i kind of like a brain with my big black one.
Oh and please dnt lighten up
What's wrong with black and white stripes as a statement of equal ness? Why do you have to shun and prejudice a whole section of society? Jeez what is wrong with some people!
Oh dear. My life. My choice. My preference. I choose who i fuck not you or anybody else. I have been married to a white man and dated white men. I now choose Black and peoud of my choices if you dnt like it leave the thread"Racism is racism, it's not your choice, colour neutral will be the new slogan soon, you can not pick lovers by skin colour! How can that be right? The police use to only pick white people to! | |||
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"I don't think it's racist though I wouldn't refer to myself as a BBC coz I'm not defined by the size of my dick. I think porn has played a huge role in making the term popular just like MILF,BBW,HOTWIFE etc. Nail, head you’ve hit it kidda. Well said that man. Why is it derogatory. It’s an abbreviation, isn’t it? I’d rather type Bbc than Big black cock Or Bbw than Big beautiful woman Or in our case OI WOMAN SHUT UP OR YOU’LL DO THIS IRONING YOURSELF So I call her wifey lol. Point is, our sex site is our escape let’s just enjoy. It’s ALL our own private little place. No racism, No hatred just us being naughty with ppl we like and want to be naughty with. If that makes sense. Keep laughing, keep being naughty and stay safe ppl " Bbc, big black cock, bbl, big black lips, that is where it leads, naming body parts, like dumb blonde..... It's wrong obviously! | |||
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"I don't think it's racist though I wouldn't refer to myself as a BBC coz I'm not defined by the size of my dick. I think porn has played a huge role in making the term popular just like MILF,BBW,HOTWIFE etc. Nail, head you’ve hit it kidda. Well said that man. Why is it derogatory. It’s an abbreviation, isn’t it? I’d rather type Bbc than Big black cock Or Bbw than Big beautiful woman Or in our case OI WOMAN SHUT UP OR YOU’LL DO THIS IRONING YOURSELF So I call her wifey lol. Point is, our sex site is our escape let’s just enjoy. It’s ALL our own private little place. No racism, No hatred just us being naughty with ppl we like and want to be naughty with. If that makes sense. Keep laughing, keep being naughty and stay safe ppl Bbc, big black cock, bbl, big black lips, that is where it leads, naming body parts, like dumb blonde..... It's wrong obviously!" Aaaaaah here he is again. | |||
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"Anyone who is offended by the words Big black cock, White House, black board, Snow White, black mail, white Christmas, big white cock etc etc etc. They are the biggest part of the problem. Because 99.9% of us here in the UK not have a problem or see racist undertones in discribing an object by using its colour as part of its discription. " Well said | |||
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"Anyone who is offended by the words Big black cock, White House, black board, Snow White, black mail, white Christmas, big white cock etc etc etc. They are the biggest part of the problem. Because 99.9% of us here in the UK not have a problem or see racist undertones in discribing an object by using its colour as part of its discription. Well said "No its our duty to be offended over fuck all, having heard the shit people are offended over I've been missing out for years, just accepting stuff when in reality I've been groomed, ra?ed, robbed..... it's a long list I've just been calling life.... example, my friend joined navy and had a toilet eat put over his head, which had physical trait written on and was made to walk along harbour.. we saw it as larking, turns out he was abused....OMG my eyes have been opened! The world is institutionally bad! | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss " If you think it's racist maybe you should leave this site and go on to a more conventional dating website because fetishes are a part of swinging and there's nothing racist about the term BBC. | |||
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"... and the whole fetishising of black men by white women is racist... ... discuss If you think it's racist maybe you should leave this site and go on to a more conventional dating website because fetishes are a part of swinging and there's nothing racist about the term BBC. " Yes there is, and are swingers victims of a modern corrupt world, people who have come to accept depravity as normal.... praise the lord ! | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK "Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins "If it’s not important (to you) why do you find yourself commenting on it all the time? | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins "Oh god its you again. Shush and go away. Im not the one going on about colour John the baptist. Go wash away your sins | |||
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"Some black guys like it. I knew a black American man who liked to roleplay with white women. He liked it when they told him to fuck them good or they would send him back to the cotton fields. KMRCT!!!@ He loved it
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"Can someone who is white and who only meets black men tell me why that is so please? I’m genuinely curious!" The first time I met a black man was because I had fallen out with my ex. He's 47 and white. I chose a 25 year old black man to make me feel better, knowing it would not do much for my ex's self confidence. The stereotype of BBC and a young fit ripped man. The ultimate fucking machine. Was what attracted me to black men at first. Getting it right up him as I was getting it right up me. | |||
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"Can someone who is white and who only meets black men tell me why that is so please? I’m genuinely curious! The first time I met a black man was because I had fallen out with my ex. He's 47 and white. I chose a 25 year old black man to make me feel better, knowing it would not do much for my ex's self confidence. The stereotype of BBC and a young fit ripped man. The ultimate fucking machine. Was what attracted me to black men at first. Getting it right up him as I was getting it right up me. " | |||
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"Can someone who is white and who only meets black men tell me why that is so please? I’m genuinely curious! The first time I met a black man was because I had fallen out with my ex. He's 47 and white. I chose a 25 year old black man to make me feel better, knowing it would not do much for my ex's self confidence. The stereotype of BBC and a young fit ripped man. The ultimate fucking machine. Was what attracted me to black men at first. Getting it right up him as I was getting it right up me. "And here’s me thinking black men werent fetishised or used only for their skin colour / penis, now they’re used as political pawns in a relationship setting | |||
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"Can someone who is white and who only meets black men tell me why that is so please? I’m genuinely curious! The first time I met a black man was because I had fallen out with my ex. He's 47 and white. I chose a 25 year old black man to make me feel better, knowing it would not do much for my ex's self confidence. The stereotype of BBC and a young fit ripped man. The ultimate fucking machine. Was what attracted me to black men at first. Getting it right up him as I was getting it right up me.
And here’s me thinking black men werent fetishised or used only for their skin colour / penis, now they’re used as political pawns in a relationship setting "This is fab , to me it's a meat market, you only pick the freshed cut of the choice available. We are all judged on the way we look and present ourselves. What attracts someone to me will be something that someone else doesn't like. That's just the way it is. | |||
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"Can someone who is white and who only meets black men tell me why that is so please? I’m genuinely curious! The first time I met a black man was because I had fallen out with my ex. He's 47 and white. I chose a 25 year old black man to make me feel better, knowing it would not do much for my ex's self confidence. The stereotype of BBC and a young fit ripped man. The ultimate fucking machine. Was what attracted me to black men at first. Getting it right up him as I was getting it right up me.
And here’s me thinking black men werent fetishised or used only for their skin colour / penis, now they’re used as political pawns in a relationship setting
This is fab , to me it's a meat market, you only pick the freshed cut of the choice available. We are all judged on the way we look and present ourselves. What attracts someone to me will be something that someone else doesn't like. That's just the way it is. "All's fair in love and war. We are all being used by the people we meet. When you are happy to use each other, that's okay. | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins
If it’s not important (to you) why do you find yourself commenting on it all the time? "I don't find colour important I find the glaring double standards and eroding of societies values important, baa baa black sheep is offensive but big black cock isn't, blackboard shouldn't be used but dumb blonde is ok, Obama had four years to sort the police out but it's all trumps fault ...... That sort of nonsense, the statues will be next, Churchill stopped the nazis but his racist, well nelson Mandela is great but he was also a wife beater lol so he needs to come down lol and when I've mentioned Obama was the most powerful man on earth for four years and I'm sure the problems are compex and that's why he never nailed it, yet people ignore that fact and blame white guys! But like I've said before, people are just banging a drum and shouting a slogan. | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins
If it’s not important (to you) why do you find yourself commenting on it all the time?
I don't find colour important I find the glaring double standards and eroding of societies values important, baa baa black sheep is offensive but big black cock isn't, blackboard shouldn't be used but dumb blonde is ok, Obama had four years to sort the police out but it's all trumps fault ...... That sort of nonsense, the statues will be next, Churchill stopped the nazis but his racist, well nelson Mandela is great but he was also a wife beater lol so he needs to come down lol and when I've mentioned Obama was the most powerful man on earth for four years and I'm sure the problems are compex and that's why he never nailed it, yet people ignore that fact and blame white guys!
But like I've said before, people are just banging a drum and shouting a slogan."Someone didnt get his cornflakes this morning. Oh dear. Trump supporter | |||
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"The historical context of choosing black men because on their virility or strength is plain to see. It’s plain? So white men aren’t those things?" No one said they arent i personally dnt look for either of those things. A bit shallow but i do have a type. If an exceptional white guy contacted me i might be tempted lol | |||
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"This thread is unbelievable. The amount of racist and ignorant comments on here that people don’t even realise they are making I think people really need to educate themselves and read a lot of books to get some historical context on why certain things they think they are entitled to say carry negative connotations to it. Why is it that white people always jump to the label PC because they are for the first time in their lives being told something they think it’s OK to say is actually not OK to say? No, it’s not PC to be asked to stop using offensive words that other people do not like. It isn’t not freedom of speech or choice to make speeches or choices that affect or demeans other people in the world, is it? If simply respecting and treating others as you’d like to be treated is hard for you, then what does that say about you? Secondly, what is the obsession with some white people about saying the n-word? What is it about the word that makes you want to say it so bad!? I have never had the compunction to call any other pweson a derogatory word cos of the colour of their skin cos I empathise and understand that I wouldn’t like that plus I respect them. Why is it so hard to do that? There is no reason to include that in your vocabulary anyhow, so why make a comment that you aren’t allowed to use it just to make a stupid point? Thirdly, the reason we run into a lot of negative fetishisation of the black man is due to a long history of this same terminology being used to lynch people in the US, deny us jobs, adequate healthcare, resources that we also pay taxes for. All you have to do is read up on these things. Emmett Till died because a white woman said a teenager looked at her the wrong way! Looked at her is all it took. There really is no need to expose yourself on here with ignorant statements and comments. If you have a personal relationship with a black man and he likes the term BBC, then you can use it in your interactions with that person. But if your interaction with that person makes you think you should extrapolate that to all black men, that where there is an issue. It is offensive to approach someone you don’t know with BBC as it is offensive for me to approach a woman I don’t know on here saying BBW or fat. It’s disrespectful unless you already know that person and you know they are OK with it. But you already know that! Black people are not a monolith, nor are we a separate race. We are more diverse than the white population, so let’s not forget that. Lastly, the black men who choose to refer to themselves as an appendage instead of a person, really look inside and ask yourselves whether you think that’s the best way to portray yourselves. Are you so devoid of self-confidence that your cock being big is the only thing to crow about? You are no longer teenagers, so what’s the obsession with your cock size? You are inadvertently buying into a nasty trope that white people use to make us other-worldly, and you think that’s fine. In this day and age, when we are saying enough is enough with the bullshit and fighting for equality, this post is a reminder that there’s is stil a lot of work to do. OP - this post was needed to bring out the uncomfortable conversations that white peoole need to be having more of. So thank you. For those that think it’s shit-stirring, its not! The whole idea of pretending black people aren’t treated badly and we shouldn’t talk about it is preposterous and what got us here in the first place. We aren’t doing that anymore. We need to air out the problems by having these difficult conversations. And those of you who wish to block me afterwards, please feel free to." I honestly can’t thank you enough for this post. | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins
If it’s not important (to you) why do you find yourself commenting on it all the time?
I don't find colour important I find the glaring double standards and eroding of societies values important, baa baa black sheep is offensive but big black cock isn't, blackboard shouldn't be used but dumb blonde is ok, Obama had four years to sort the police out but it's all trumps fault ...... That sort of nonsense, the statues will be next, Churchill stopped the nazis but his racist, well nelson Mandela is great but he was also a wife beater lol so he needs to come down lol and when I've mentioned Obama was the most powerful man on earth for four years and I'm sure the problems are compex and that's why he never nailed it, yet people ignore that fact and blame white guys!
But like I've said before, people are just banging a drum and shouting a slogan." | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins
If it’s not important (to you) why do you find yourself commenting on it all the time?
I don't find colour important I find the glaring double standards and eroding of societies values important, baa baa black sheep is offensive but big black cock isn't, blackboard shouldn't be used but dumb blonde is ok, Obama had four years to sort the police out but it's all trumps fault ...... That sort of nonsense, the statues will be next, Churchill stopped the nazis but his racist, well nelson Mandela is great but he was also a wife beater lol so he needs to come down lol and when I've mentioned Obama was the most powerful man on earth for four years and I'm sure the problems are compex and that's why he never nailed it, yet people ignore that fact and blame white guys!
But like I've said before, people are just banging a drum and shouting a slogan.
Someone didnt get his cornflakes this morning. Oh dear. Trump supporter "Eggs and bacon, and I don't support trump or not support him but if I did most of America agrees | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins
If it’s not important (to you) why do you find yourself commenting on it all the time?
I don't find colour important I find the glaring double standards and eroding of societies values important, baa baa black sheep is offensive but big black cock isn't, blackboard shouldn't be used but dumb blonde is ok, Obama had four years to sort the police out but it's all trumps fault ...... That sort of nonsense, the statues will be next, Churchill stopped the nazis but his racist, well nelson Mandela is great but he was also a wife beater lol so he needs to come down lol and when I've mentioned Obama was the most powerful man on earth for four years and I'm sure the problems are compex and that's why he never nailed it, yet people ignore that fact and blame white guys!
But like I've said before, people are just banging a drum and shouting a slogan."Nobody is banging a drum and shouting a slogan. We are serious about what we are saying cos it’s us who are dying from the system that is set up for us to fail. Colour shouldn’t be important, so you are right there, but unfortunately it is something that people decided to use to treat others like they were subhuman so it is here, whether we like it or not. And yes, Churchill was racist and there’s no denying that. People are complex, you can be racist and still do good for other people. You can hate Indian and Africans while fighting to save your country, it is not mutually exclusive. Nelson Mandela is not a saint and I am sure he did some bad things in his life but at least he didn’t do anything so bad that it affected a whole people. This whataboutery is absurd! So 43 white guys were President before Obama and now we expect the only black guy to fix all the shit that was created before him in 8years? Very convenient. Also, having one black president suddenly erases centuries of abuse, neglect and ill treatment? We are not as stupid enough to believe that would suddently mean everything is OK, now is it? I wish people would sometimes just have a rink about what they are saying before they actually say it. | |||
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"Can’t believe some swingers clubs get away with racial stereotype wording when promoting a club night!! " BMFC I assume you mean. Its a club for ladies who enjoy Black guys. Whats wrong with that. There is BI NIGHTS. FETISH NIGHTS. GAY NIGHTS. No harm in any of them. | |||
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"HOW ABOUT WE JUST LEAVE BLACK COCK. ALONE. RACIST ALONE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS WE ARE ALL GETTING CLOSER TO MEETING. I FOR ONE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MAN AGAIN ALL 6FT 4 I. AND BLACK
Why mention colour, you've been maniplated by the world to think it's important when it isn't, step into the river and wash away your sins
If it’s not important (to you) why do you find yourself commenting on it all the time?
I don't find colour important I find the glaring double standards and eroding of societies values important, baa baa black sheep is offensive but big black cock isn't, blackboard shouldn't be used but dumb blonde is ok, Obama had four years to sort the police out but it's all trumps fault ...... That sort of nonsense, the statues will be next, Churchill stopped the nazis but his racist, well nelson Mandela is great but he was also a wife beater lol so he needs to come down lol and when I've mentioned Obama was the most powerful man on earth for four years and I'm sure the problems are compex and that's why he never nailed it, yet people ignore that fact and blame white guys!
But like I've said before, people are just banging a drum and shouting a slogan.
Nobody is banging a drum and shouting a slogan. We are serious about what we are saying cos it’s us who are dying from the system that is set up for us to fail.
Colour shouldn’t be important, so you are right there, but unfortunately it is something that people decided to use to treat others like they were subhuman so it is here, whether we like it or not.
And yes, Churchill was racist and there’s no denying that. People are complex, you can be racist and still do good for other people. You can hate Indian and Africans while fighting to save your country, it is not mutually exclusive.
Nelson Mandela is not a saint and I am sure he did some bad things in his life but at least he didn’t do anything so bad that it affected a whole people. This whataboutery is absurd!
So 43 white guys were President before Obama and now we expect the only black guy to fix all the shit that was created before him in 8years? Very convenient. Also, having one black president suddenly erases centuries of abuse, neglect and ill treatment? We are not as stupid enough to believe that would suddently mean everything is OK, now is it?
I wish people would sometimes just have a rink about what they are saying before they actually say it.
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"This thread is unbelievable. The amount of racist and ignorant comments on here that people don’t even realise they are making I think people really need to educate themselves and read a lot of books to get some historical context on why certain things they think they are entitled to say carry negative connotations to it. Why is it that white people always jump to the label PC because they are for the first time in their lives being told something they think it’s OK to say is actually not OK to say? No, it’s not PC to be asked to stop using offensive words that other people do not like. It isn’t not freedom of speech or choice to make speeches or choices that affect or demeans other people in the world, is it? If simply respecting and treating others as you’d like to be treated is hard for you, then what does that say about you? Secondly, what is the obsession with some white people about saying the n-word? What is it about the word that makes you want to say it so bad!? I have never had the compunction to call any other pweson a derogatory word cos of the colour of their skin cos I empathise and understand that I wouldn’t like that plus I respect them. Why is it so hard to do that? There is no reason to include that in your vocabulary anyhow, so why make a comment that you aren’t allowed to use it just to make a stupid point? Thirdly, the reason we run into a lot of negative fetishisation of the black man is due to a long history of this same terminology being used to lynch people in the US, deny us jobs, adequate healthcare, resources that we also pay taxes for. All you have to do is read up on these things. Emmett Till died because a white woman said a teenager looked at her the wrong way! Looked at her is all it took. There really is no need to expose yourself on here with ignorant statements and comments. If you have a personal relationship with a black man and he likes the term BBC, then you can use it in your interactions with that person. But if your interaction with that person makes you think you should extrapolate that to all black men, that where there is an issue. It is offensive to approach someone you don’t know with BBC as it is offensive for me to approach a woman I don’t know on here saying BBW or fat. It’s disrespectful unless you already know that person and you know they are OK with it. But you already know that! Black people are not a monolith, nor are we a separate race. We are more diverse than the white population, so let’s not forget that. Lastly, the black men who choose to refer to themselves as an appendage instead of a person, really look inside and ask yourselves whether you think that’s the best way to portray yourselves. Are you so devoid of self-confidence that your cock being big is the only thing to crow about? You are no longer teenagers, so what’s the obsession with your cock size? You are inadvertently buying into a nasty trope that white people use to make us other-worldly, and you think that’s fine. In this day and age, when we are saying enough is enough with the bullshit and fighting for equality, this post is a reminder that there’s is stil a lot of work to do. OP - this post was needed to bring out the uncomfortable conversations that white peoole need to be having more of. So thank you. For those that think it’s shit-stirring, its not! The whole idea of pretending black people aren’t treated badly and we shouldn’t talk about it is preposterous and what got us here in the first place. We aren’t doing that anymore. We need to air out the problems by having these difficult conversations. And those of you who wish to block me afterwards, please feel free to."
It’s crazy man!! This is it!
Especially the n word point, I hate that word so I don’t use it.
It annoys me when non black people get offended when they can’t say the n word and the response is: “Why can black people say it but I can’t?” 
Some of these comments are appalling especially coming from the same people who are being so open about it and getting away with it.
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"Can’t believe some swingers clubs get away with racial stereotype wording when promoting a club night!! " What sort of wording have you seen? The only I have seen being used close to anything of the sort is black men, which to me is fine as we are black and there’s no denying that. | |||
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"This thread is unbelievable. The amount of racist and ignorant comments on here that people don’t even realise they are making I think people really need to educate themselves and read a lot of books to get some historical context on why certain things they think they are entitled to say carry negative connotations to it. Why is it that white people always jump to the label PC because they are for the first time in their lives being told something they think it’s OK to say is actually not OK to say? No, it’s not PC to be asked to stop using offensive words that other people do not like. It isn’t not freedom of speech or choice to make speeches or choices that affect or demeans other people in the world, is it? If simply respecting and treating others as you’d like to be treated is hard for you, then what does that say about you? Secondly, what is the obsession with some white people about saying the n-word? What is it about the word that makes you want to say it so bad!? I have never had the compunction to call any other pweson a derogatory word cos of the colour of their skin cos I empathise and understand that I wouldn’t like that plus I respect them. Why is it so hard to do that? There is no reason to include that in your vocabulary anyhow, so why make a comment that you aren’t allowed to use it just to make a stupid point? Thirdly, the reason we run into a lot of negative fetishisation of the black man is due to a long history of this same terminology being used to lynch people in the US, deny us jobs, adequate healthcare, resources that we also pay taxes for. All you have to do is read up on these things. Emmett Till because a white woman said a teenager looked at her the wrong way! Looked at her is all it took. There really is no need to expose yourself on here with ignorant statements and comments. If you have a personal relationship with a black man and he likes the term BBC, then you can use it in your interactions with that person. But if your interaction with that person makes you think you should extrapolate that to all black men, that where there is an issue. It is offensive to approach someone you don’t know with BBC as it is offensive for me to approach a woman I don’t know on here saying BBW or fat. It’s disrespectful unless you already know that person and you know they are OK with it. But you already know that! Black people are not a monolith, nor are we a separate race. We are more diverse than the white population, so let’s not forget that. Lastly, the black men who choose to refer to themselves as an appendage instead of a person, really look inside and ask yourselves whether you think that’s the best way to portray yourselves. Are you so devoid of self-confidence that your cock being big is the only thing to crow about? You are no longer teenagers, so what’s the obsession with your cock size? You are inadvertently buying into a nasty trope that white people use to make us other-worldly, and you think that’s fine. In this day and age, when we are saying enough is enough with the bullshit and fighting for equality, this post is a reminder that there’s is stil a lot of work to do. OP - this post was needed to bring out the uncomfortable conversations that white peoole need to be having more of. So thank you. For those that think it’s shit-stirring, its not! The whole idea of pretending black people aren’t treated badly and we shouldn’t talk about it is preposterous and what got us here in the first place. We aren’t doing that anymore. We need to air out the problems by having these difficult conversations. And those of you who wish to block me afterwards, please feel free to. I honestly can’t thank you enough for this post. " The n word we are not to say. We hear it on TV all the time, in the music we listen to. You repeat words you hear, we all do but we have got to be careful that it doesn't come out of our mouths. If I can't say it then nobody should be allowed to say it. I would never call anyone a BBC or a BBW . But if that's what people call themselves on their profiles and that's what you are looking for. Why can't we use it. Everything needs words to describe exactly what you want. The only black men I find don't like the term BBC are the ones who haven't got one. Men with them are quite proud to announce it to the world. Why shouldn't we praise something they are proud of? Because it will offend the people that aren't so proud? Emmett Till, was that in the UK? I think not, so don't lash out at the British for another counties crimes. That's like protesting and kicking off in Britain because a white woman was killed in Africa. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amy_Biehl So yes , enough with the bullshit and double standards . | |||
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"Can’t believe some swingers clubs get away with racial stereotype wording when promoting a club night!! What sort of wording have you seen? The only I have seen being used close to anything of the sort is black men, which to me is fine as we are black and there’s no denying that. " BBW night is okay but BMFC isn't? Why are we not to like each other? What's the problem? | |||
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