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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
I love women of all types, ages, shapes, colour, nationality... the more variety the better. Therefore always wishing and hoping for more and greater representation in the swinging/kink communities. |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
London St Helier Trier |
I have had the pleasure of 3 dates with a lovely young Lady from Mauritius. Great eye opener for both of us in many ways.
More because of her personality than ethnicity. I think that has a bigger impact on the amount of fun for the date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't been to any clubs before, but if there were black women fan clubs like there are BMFC I would definitely attend them.
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We are the same as we have not as yet had the pleasure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks!
I wish there was an event for black women, is there?!  could just have everyone in the thread vs you lol "
I would love to attend black women are delicious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to have a BWFC. So many gorgeous black women on this site and the opportunity to meet them would be great. "
Scuse the ignorance but what is a BWFC? |
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"Majority of black sisters are too prudish regarding swinging life-style.puritan by proxy lol"
That's a damn shame. Ethnicity is irrelevant to us, we just like fun with like minded people but gotta be honest, in the 20 + years we,ve been on and off the scene, we had often wondered why its predominantly white women on the scene (at least where we live). Met plenty of guys of different ethnicity's but not women. Never knew why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Majority of black sisters are too prudish regarding swinging life-style.puritan by proxy lol"
Yer because they are yet to full accepted by society as sophisticated elegant women, woman of black skin are often loosely asked to if Thier child are all of the same father, whilst being smiled at politely in the western world, inplying loose they are not of marriage/long term relationship standards nor is it to be expected ... along with the fact our generation is still fighting against sexual oppression thought-out the rest of the world, not to forget that beautiful black woman have been looked down apon as not good enough, not pretty enough, not light skinned enough by black men, not all I may add, this was the case for a fair few decades right up.untill the recent years. Not many non black ppl acknowledged to have sexy , fierce, attractive black woman, n full black woman at that, actually are for many years up untill recently.
so it will take some time for them to culturally and morally reach where we are in our sexual behaviour. so yer there really isn't a alot of sexual libration with amongst the beautiful black woman, however the progress is coming just coming empowering the one you cross paths with xx
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"Majority of black sisters are too prudish regarding swinging life-style.puritan by proxy lol
Not on the club nights we’ve been too!
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Exactly - had some great nights at clubs with a beautiful black lady - definitely not prudish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Majority of black sisters are too prudish regarding swinging life-style.puritan by proxy lol
Not on the club nights we’ve been too!
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Haha I dont think I'm a prude either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the comments on here are really sweet and respectful. Others are so cringeworthy!
Im not prudish, i just dont like being fetishised or degraded. I just like to be seen as a normal person regardless of my colour |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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As someone who is kink orientated I really don't care what race or what (legally) hits your switches. But don't be an ass about it.
Here some things that regularly depress me with these threads.
Comparisons with BMFC on the assumption that it only has white women and black men. BMFC and other parties have black men, white men, black women, Asian men and women.
With many of the posts you feel it is a white men v black man competition.
The ethos should be anyone can appreciate another race without it being a competition particularly if it appears to exclude black men. I have lived with a women who was black and had long term relationships with women who were black. Black men love the Nubian Queens too, but some folk seem bent and twisted about about black women.
As for black women being prudish someone should do a statistical analysis of how many white women swing against the percentage of white women in the country and compare.
To leave on a happy note there is in London on the site that can't be mentioned a munch thst has the following description.
" Description
Come one, come all to the ... the UKs only munch for Black women and white men to have a chat, drink and a laugh."
So as I always say, if you want it start it or look for it.
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This thread is an odd one for me to get my mind round, for me I find it odd that guys seem to want a black woman just because she is black ? surely their needs to more than that, some sort of attraction / connection. For me its much the same as the women who want only black guys is that because they are black or does there have to be more to it than skin colour?
I am not in anyway saying black women are not sexy, some I find very bloody hot (some I don't) but there are women of all races and colours I find hot and some I don't, but its about more than skin colour, or am I missing something here ? |
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"I think the problem is people are fetishizing races which IMO is completely wrong. Im sure black women are welcome just as much as anyone at all events.
It’s quite uncomfortable to read. "
Isn't it just!! |
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"Some of the comments on here are really sweet and respectful. Others are so cringeworthy!
Im not prudish, i just dont like being fetishised or degraded. I just like to be seen as a normal person regardless of my colour "
I agree with this on every level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the comments on here are really sweet and respectful. Others are so cringeworthy!
Im not prudish, i just dont like being fetishised or degraded. I just like to be seen as a normal person regardless of my colour "
So it's not OK to say you like redheads with pale skin or brunettes or blue eyes etc ..
People are so easily offended 
I don't think anyone has been degraded in this thread. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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In short the characteristic of skin colour is not the same as hair colour or breast size.
You do not have redheads and brunettes being killed by the police, nor have they been lynched, or discriminated against, nor do they have a history of being enslaved and or colonised. There are no statues of people who have amassed fortunes selling redheads or brunettes.
Under Apartheid in South Africa the country was not divided into whites, blacks, coloureds, redheads, big tits and brunettes, with redheads, big tits and brunettes suffering social and econonic deprivation.Nor when my parents came to this country were there signs saying "No blacks, Irish, dogs, redheads or brunettes."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the comments on here are really sweet and respectful. Others are so cringeworthy!
Im not prudish, i just dont like being fetishised or degraded. I just like to be seen as a normal person regardless of my colour
So it's not OK to say you like redheads with pale skin or brunettes or blue eyes etc ..
People are so easily offended
I don't think anyone has been degraded in this thread."
I didnt say anyone on the thread had been degraded and please do not try to dismiss someones opinion/feelings or experiences just because you find something acceptable. (People are so easily offended?!)
It is very much OK to express that you like someone the site is partly based on physical attraction. I did say some of the comments on here are respectful and sweet others are cringeworthy. I would say thats a balanced observance.
If being hailed for having protected characteristics works for you then fill your boots but try to remember not everyone will feel the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t get it, people have kinks and fetishes, raceplay is a thing just like so many other kinks looked down on by “normal” society. At one time swinging or anal was illegal in most places. Long story short we are on a sex site. Some of us have never been with someone of a different race and there is nothing wrong with voicing that you would like to. Nothing negative was said the whole thread about anyone so excuse the pun try not getting so butthurt and let people enjoy themselves. The OP sure is!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the comments on here are really sweet and respectful. Others are so cringeworthy!
Im not prudish, i just dont like being fetishised or degraded. I just like to be seen as a normal person regardless of my colour
So it's not OK to say you like redheads with pale skin or brunettes or blue eyes etc ..
People are so easily offended
I don't think anyone has been degraded in this thread."
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get it, people have kinks and fetishes, raceplay is a thing just like so many other kinks looked down on by “normal” society. At one time swinging or anal was illegal in most places. Long story short we are on a sex site. Some of us have never been with someone of a different race and there is nothing wrong with voicing that you would like to. Nothing negative was said the whole thread about anyone so excuse the pun try not getting so butthurt and let people enjoy themselves. The OP sure is! "
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"Some of the comments on here are really sweet and respectful. Others are so cringeworthy!
Im not prudish, i just dont like being fetishised or degraded. I just like to be seen as a normal person regardless of my colour "
^^^ this!!
I'd like to know where some of the assumptions on this thread have come from! |
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"This thread is an odd one for me to get my mind round, for me I find it odd that guys seem to want a black woman just because she is black ? surely their needs to more than that, some sort of attraction / connection. For me its much the same as the women who want only black guys is that because they are black or does there have to be more to it than skin colour?
I am not in anyway saying black women are not sexy, some I find very bloody hot (some I don't) but there are women of all races and colours I find hot and some I don't, but its about more than skin colour, or am I missing something here ? "
I agree.
Personally I have a preference for white guys, but I wouldn't just sleep with any white guy, there need to be other levels of attraction there too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a black man that's never dated a black girl, never interested in me so I date white girls and then get called a bounty haha"
Really? Head to the islands and your luck will change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My K knows I have a thing for black girls. I just think they have a glow about them and that contrast between the black and white skin playing together is just awesome. Unfortunately not many black girls around these parts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, big up and shout out to the damn fine black ladies from me too.
Really would be nice to hear from any who wish to chat and be naughty with me.
???????? |
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"Some of the comments on here are really sweet and respectful. Others are so cringeworthy!
Im not prudish, i just dont like being fetishised or degraded. I just like to be seen as a normal person regardless of my colour
^^^ this!!
I'd like to know where some of the assumptions on this thread have come from!"
I was thinking the same thing? We're not all prudes! |
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"Majority of black sisters are too prudish regarding swinging life-style.puritan by proxy lol
Yer because they are yet to full accepted by society as sophisticated elegant women, woman of black skin are often loosely asked to if Thier child are all of the same father, whilst being smiled at politely in the western world, inplying loose they are not of marriage/long term relationship standards nor is it to be expected ... along with the fact our generation is still fighting against sexual oppression thought-out the rest of the world, not to forget that beautiful black woman have been looked down apon as not good enough, not pretty enough, not light skinned enough by black men, not all I may add, this was the case for a fair few decades right up.untill the recent years. Not many non black ppl acknowledged to have sexy , fierce, attractive black woman, n full black woman at that, actually are for many years up untill recently.
so it will take some time for them to culturally and morally reach where we are in our sexual behaviour. so yer there really isn't a alot of sexual libration with amongst the beautiful black woman, however the progress is coming just coming empowering the one you cross paths with xx
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Absolutely agree. I believe it is more the fear of judgement than prudishness stopping black women from exploring their sexuality in full. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Black women are among some of most stunningly beautiful and sexy women I've ever personally seen or known and all women should be admired and respected no mater what colour, creed, race, or religion in my honest opinion but that's just me. |
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My first experience with a black girl was at Uni many years ago, and she was the most beautiful sexy girl I have ever met...
I was in my thirties - a mature student - and she was 21, but until she met me had never had oral sex; to this day, I have never encountered such a delightfully wet pussy.
On our final meeting, we enjoyed sex in the open at Victoria Falls, and anal sex at her cousins house in Harare.
So sad really - I wanted to marry her, but her parents refused to consent to her marrying a white man.....we were both in tears waiting for my flight home at Harare airport. Sex and love personified.. |
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