Can be off putting to go by yourself first time and some clubs have their own little social circle which are hard to break in to.
See if there is anybody who is looking to try a visit and go together, strength in numbers so to speak.
Most are very welcoming, I'm sure you will have a great time!
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
I've been accompanied each time I've been. Having experienced it I'd never have the guts to go alone. You'd have to be quite outgoing and be comfortable standing there awkwardly on occasion. You might have to sidle up to other single males to avoid looking like Billy no mates. If you go somewhere that has a pool or hot tub that will be a different experience I reckon. You'd be able to talk and providing you're prepared to literally just jump into a crowd, you'll have a ready made circle to mingle with. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Worth checking the individual club rules as you may be under the minimum age limit. Most have pretty good websites that have info on the club rules and etiquette.
Don't go with the expectation of sex, just look at it as a social opportunity, be friendly and chatty but definitely not pushy. If you explain to staff it's your first visit they will keep you right. |
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over a year ago
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"I was thinking about going to a club once everythings back to normal, but i have no clue about them.
Could i get some help on what they’re all about and advise for a single male?"
they are amazing you walk in strip off and sex is on tap so when cockdown finishes on xmas eve you'll be knee deep  |
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As a single guy you might want to check out nights that are aimed specifically for single guys
Not only will there be lots of ladies / couples looking to meet you but you might make some swinger mates there too
Cougars and cubs and Hotwives nights are good |
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Best advice I can give is go to a social near to the club you choose first. Get known at the social then go to the club. That way you will see people you already know there. You may not want to play with them (or vice versa) but it's all about networking. |
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"As a single guy you might want to check out nights that are aimed specifically for single guys
Not only will there be lots of ladies / couples looking to meet you but you might make some swinger mates there too
Cougars and cubs and Hotwives nights are good "
Totally agree with this response. Best from them all. Choose the correct night to go many clubs have a hotwives night and a greedy girls night which are aimed to have more guys there be it alone or with friends.
I am still to attend cougars and cubs but one day in the future I shall be there. |
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"Don’t use the words can I touch, or get over excited and be a pain, communicating properly with people as you would in a bar. "
Er, provided you’ve already said hello to someone, I wouldn’t think saying “Can I touch” would be that bad  |
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"As a single guy you might want to check out nights that are aimed specifically for single guys "
This is the best piece of advice anyone should give you about the club scene. Being a single guy in a club full of nobody interested in single guys is not a pleasant place to be  |
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"Not sure what club you go as you say sex is on tap as there is more often a lot more men in the clubs than female I always go to clubs for the social side and if anything happens is a bonus "
His post was, of course, satire! |
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"Don’t use the words can I touch, or get over excited and be a pain, communicating properly with people as you would in a bar.
Er, provided you’ve already said hello to someone, I wouldn’t think saying “Can I touch” would be that bad "
Only if they don't say hello back, and you immediately follow it up with "can I touch"! |
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