"We rarely exchange numbers but when we do we have a fab phone reserved for that purpose
Same here - a second phone is essential for avoiding nutters!"
Lol. It doesn't help avoid them but it does mean you don't see their desperate texts and missed calls until the next time you dust the phone off  |
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Never, once someone has your number they can basically find you on social media. Some people put everything on social media from their children to partners to even where they live and work. I (lily) got stalked a couple of years ago, ended up deleting social media accounts the lot, was actually quite scary and I can’t imagine what would have happened had I had my “where I live” showing. We stick to messaging on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never, once someone has your number they can basically find you on social media. Some people put everything on social media from their children to partners to even where they live and work. I (lily) got stalked a couple of years ago, ended up deleting social media accounts the lot, was actually quite scary and I can’t imagine what would have happened had I had my “where I live” showing. We stick to messaging on here."
Hi Lily,
I thought you can block all that now ! And it’s only Facebook they could find you on if you use your number x |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Never, once someone has your number they can basically find you on social media. Some people put everything on social media from their children to partners to even where they live and work. I (lily) got stalked a couple of years ago, ended up deleting social media accounts the lot, was actually quite scary and I can’t imagine what would have happened had I had my “where I live” showing. We stick to messaging on here."
That's why I don't have my number etc on social media and android block feature works great |
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Hi Lily,
I thought you can block all that now ! And it’s only Facebook they could find you on if you use your number x "
I don’t have Facebook anymore so can’t comment on their new privacy settings. I was quite generic and just used my full name for all social media’s, once they have Facebook it’s easy to search other media sites and find you. They harassed me so much that I never signed up for social media again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All communication with play friends is kept to Fab only, we don't move chats from here or exchange tel numbers.
This way keeps all communication open and non intrusive to our private life.
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We always let the lady’s chat 1st before we meet as it cuts down on all the fakes and guys pretending to be a couple and believe me there is hundreds on here who have a imaginary wife or girl who must be mute or had her tongue removed as they amount who come up with bullshit why they can’t speak beggars belief some days |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Not a chance!
So do
You just take a risk and hope they come and just message on here then ? X "
If I know I want to meet someone I'm happy to chat on here or take it to kik.
I gave someone my no when I first joined, he became a bit stalkerish and abusive when after our social I decided I didn't want to take it any further. 18 months later the texts started, I had to make my own threats to get him off my back. Not something I wish to repeat. |
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I always exchange numbers before a meeting...
If you can’t trust me with your number, how can you trust me with your address?
I’m not sure about if you guys have a block number feature in the UK .... But in the states you can block any number that calls you.... you can block texts also... even if they try to contact you with a new number, you can block that number also.... |
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