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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met some incredible women over the years - one in particular I had such a soft spot for, but situation around prevented it.
All about finding your sidekick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Met some incredible women over the years - one in particular I had such a soft spot for, but situation around prevented it.
All about finding your sidekick "
Turns to Chewie, pats her matted hairy thigh and smiles... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a conventional relationship but have been with my fwb, that I now live with, for coming up 4 years... I only messaged him to tell him he had great thighs  |
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If, like me, you're a bit of a self confessed proud deviant...love that word! Its very difficult to look anywhere else but a swingers club or site like this. As a pansexual guy un willing to compromise my sexual journey, the person in question has to be open minded, not overly insecure (we all have moments) and imaginative. Youre not going to find that on vanilla sites. It doesnt surprise me that long lasting relationships have been formed on sites like this, its actually reassuring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy via another swinging site, neither of us were looking for a relationship but very soon we became a couple, i knew on the very first meet that he was special but never thought he would feel the same.
That was about 14 years ago, we soon moved in together and have now been married for many years. We swing together and apart. We have a great life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With this and previous profile...yes a few times. But i tend to be a bit of a commitment phobe for anything too long term.
Had couple profiles with two of them for a while.
Met my best friend on here many years ago....still have occasional fun though she is no longer on here for a number of years.
Moved in with a fellow fabber a couple of years back....though we keep our fab lives totally seperate from each other (we are not a couple btw....had fun previously....just good mates now). My best "friend" and housemate know each other.
I guess there are lots of relationships of various kinds that started on here. |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
Yep I had a relationship from here, 6 years in total 3 of which we lived together and played together....loads of fun...
Sadly no longer together...but I live in hope that I will find the same again one day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some times I think it would be nice to meet some one and it develop into something more and if it ever happend it would be great but I do tend to date out side of fab but not always on the same page sexually with none fab women |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Yes but from a different Swinging site. Was doomed from the start really. But she looked like a porn model so I stuck at it. Similar story with previous ex from another hook up site. So, if you resemble a porn star, jog on as I ain't interested these days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has any one ever ended up in a relationship from a fab meet or club meet ? "
We met on fabs three years ago and the first date was at the old Kestrels with play in a private room - been together ever since and now live together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. The greatest thing is you already have much in common and swinging is a lifestyle that can be hard to explain in a traditional relationship. I'm looking for a new friend now if anyone is interested lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve only been on here for 6 months and came across 2 couples that are both in solid relationships after meeting on here so I guess it happens often
Mr C |
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This is so interesting. I met a couple on here and had a poly relationship for a year or so. It's so tricky to find someone on dating sites who it turns out is into this lifestyle. Luckily I did, first date we realised we were into the same type of clubs. Still, that worked for 18 months til he broke my heart and here I am again. If I could meet someone on here for both... That'd be perfect. Lol
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Would b nice to meet someone for a full relationship on here
Just hard to find a nice honest fella n not a liar or cheat or 2timin shit on here
But i just get sarcastic comments saying this is not a dating site its a sex site so go n try pof n tinder.
But i have said people do meet their partners on here if they start meeting up regularly
There must b some spark there for them to
Do much so i spoke to an ild flame the other week
We never met just flirted
But he met someone on here
Now engaged n they now have just had their first child together 4 weeks ago so there are some happy endings on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes... absolute disaster. Worse experience of my life. But I fear I might now be unlovable... this level of kink and trust take years to build up and getting the mix of debauchery and normal relationships is difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i should imagine its the same odds as anywhere else theres no law or ideology as to where we find love .. off fab i know many that have met via swinging clubs and parties that gave it a go and just like in vanilla life some stayed together but most did not .....like anything if you want it and work at it then theres a chance but it has to be based on more than just swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to have endless optimism that I’ll find what I’m looking for haha I may still be here at 99 searching for all those men that say they will meet "
Good ones are well worth the wait and refuse to settle for something you don’t really want x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes... absolute disaster. Worse experience of my life. But I fear I might now be unlovable... this level of kink and trust take years to build up and getting the mix of debauchery and normal relationships is difficult. "
I completely agree but anything worth getting is worth working for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and more than 4 years later we are still together, sharing a home and our lives in total bliss and deeply in love.... yes you may reach for the sick bucket 
Her x |
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It’s nice to read everyone’s stories and know it is possible to find that someone with the potential to grow into something forever 
Coo wee over here (hand in air waving) lol
If only it was that easy!! Haha
One day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is amazing when you read messages like this on forums that people have actually gone into relationships from being on Fab when there are some people like me get a sex session lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s nice to read everyone’s stories and know it is possible to find that someone with the potential to grow into something forever
Coo wee over here (hand in air waving) lol
If only it was that easy!! Haha
One day "
You have to know what you want
And get it. You can have anyone you want if you try xx |
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"It’s nice to read everyone’s stories and know it is possible to find that someone with the potential to grow into something forever
Coo wee over here (hand in air waving) lol
If only it was that easy!! Haha
One day "
Waving back at you from just down the road xx |
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I did yes.
Wasn't looking but we just clicked and were together almost 2 years. Completely in love and anyone who ever saw us together commented how perfecr we were together and how they could feel the love oozing out of us.
Well... thanks to lockdown I learned that his wife didn't seem to think they were separated and took her vows just as seriously as the day she made them. Yeah, awesome eh. I could have very easily destroyed this womans life and torn a family apart all because he was too selfish to admit the truth to me and to himself.
The bit that made me actually vomit was the discovery that "our anniversary" was the same fucking date as their wedding anniversary. Sick. Truly sick.
Hence my mojo had left the building and I'm not sure I'll ever trust again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did yes.
Wasn't looking but we just clicked and were together almost 2 years. Completely in love and anyone who ever saw us together commented how perfecr we were together and how they could feel the love oozing out of us.
Well... thanks to lockdown I learned that his wife didn't seem to think they were separated and took her vows just as seriously as the day she made them. Yeah, awesome eh. I could have very easily destroyed this womans life and torn a family apart all because he was too selfish to admit the truth to me and to himself.
The bit that made me actually vomit was the discovery that "our anniversary" was the same fucking date as their wedding anniversary. Sick. Truly sick.
Hence my mojo had left the building and I'm not sure I'll ever trust again.
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I know it’s been said to death Peaches. But only time will tell. And I time he will be insignificant to the experiences you have without him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not from FAB but another site.
Started as a FWB now Married for 10years with 3 kids. She doesn't play any more but happy for me too!
She is awesome! I have ALMOST everything that I need! The only things i don't, is where you wonderful people come in!! |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
London St Helier Trier |
I have met a Two Ladies on Fab in London who have left Fab (and my veries) as they found their partner here. Both seem to be going well years later.
It is possible.
My BFF is a singer and when we discovered that the other was a singer our friendship got better (not swinging together).
Have fun all and stay safe. |
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"I did yes.
Wasn't looking but we just clicked and were together almost 2 years. Completely in love and anyone who ever saw us together commented how perfecr we were together and how they could feel the love oozing out of us.
Well... thanks to lockdown I learned that his wife didn't seem to think they were separated and took her vows just as seriously as the day she made them. Yeah, awesome eh. I could have very easily destroyed this womans life and torn a family apart all because he was too selfish to admit the truth to me and to himself.
The bit that made me actually vomit was the discovery that "our anniversary" was the same fucking date as their wedding anniversary. Sick. Truly sick.
Hence my mojo had left the building and I'm not sure I'll ever trust again.
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Similar story here too.
Turned out after a year he is married living with a wife and a son.
Same as you I could have destroyed his life to telling the whole truth about his swinging lifestyle for 15 years long..but I didn't..
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"I did yes.
Wasn't looking but we just clicked and were together almost 2 years. Completely in love and anyone who ever saw us together commented how perfecr we were together and how they could feel the love oozing out of us.
Well... thanks to lockdown I learned that his wife didn't seem to think they were separated and took her vows just as seriously as the day she made them. Yeah, awesome eh. I could have very easily destroyed this womans life and torn a family apart all because he was too selfish to admit the truth to me and to himself.
The bit that made me actually vomit was the discovery that "our anniversary" was the same fucking date as their wedding anniversary. Sick. Truly sick.
Hence my mojo had left the building and I'm not sure I'll ever trust again.
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Omg, your story mirrors mine entirely, minus the lock down, he had proposed and I accepted, then the truth emerged 15 months later, this was 18 months ago. Believe me, you will get your mojo back, I just there now thanks to support from family and friends.It was the worst experience of adult life and will probably always haunt me but I am better off now than I have ever been, professionally and personally, most of which would never have happened if he hadn't have ghosted me. Take care of yourself.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, we met on Fab.
Didn't realise he would be so hot until I opened the front door (he takes a terrible selfie!).
Love at first sight. Helps that he's sexy as hell too.
C (her)"
Lucky people. Am back still searching  |
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