"sounds like you just lack a bit of confidence mate."
It's a fab thing. I when I send messages I dont get replies and if I do it's "sorry your not my type" or some variant so just started to wonder. |
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"sounds like you just lack a bit of confidence mate.
It's a fab thing. I when I send messages I dont get replies and if I do it's "sorry your not my type" or some variant so just started to wonder."
If it's people saying you arent their type... maybe it's the married type? Or the unfortunate reality that alot of women love a 6 foot + giant.
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"sounds like you just lack a bit of confidence mate.
It's a fab thing. I when I send messages I dont get replies and if I do it's "sorry your not my type" or some variant so just started to wonder.
If it's people saying you arent their type... maybe it's the married type? Or the unfortunate reality that alot of women love a 6 foot + giant.
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That's what I was wondering is it a height issue or a looks issue or the fact I'm in an open relationship. |
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over a year ago
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"You are married therefore someone has found you handsome
Or maybe my personality won thru "
Nah has to be some attraction besides personality unless you only fuck doggy style and tell jokes at the same time  |
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"You are married therefore someone has found you handsome
Or maybe my personality won thru
Nah has to be some attraction besides personality unless you only fuck doggy style and tell jokes at the same time "
Maybe you're right. |
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"The fact you’re married would put many off. Though there was a Lady who was specifically looking for a married guy."
dont get that at all as the origins of swinging came from the keys in the fruit bowl. But I guess things have developed over the years
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"The fact you’re married would put many off. Though there was a Lady who was specifically looking for a married guy. dont get that at all as the origins of swinging came from the keys in the fruit bowl. But I guess things have developed over the years"
Yes. As a pair though.
Ps. I think you’ve got a nice face x |
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"The fact you’re married would put many off. Though there was a Lady who was specifically looking for a married guy. dont get that at all as the origins of swinging came from the keys in the fruit bowl. But I guess things have developed over the years
Yes. As a pair though.
Ps. I think you’ve got a nice face x"
Yeah the problem we found was that we could never find couples we both agreed on meeting. Em does fine on her own |
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"You are married therefore someone has found you handsome
Or maybe my personality won thru
Nah has to be some attraction besides personality unless you only fuck doggy style and tell jokes at the same time "
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"The fact you’re married would put many off. Though there was a Lady who was specifically looking for a married guy. dont get that at all as the origins of swinging came from the keys in the fruit bowl. But I guess things have developed over the years
Yes. As a pair though.
Ps. I think you’ve got a nice face x
Yeah the problem we found was that we could never find couples we both agreed on meeting. Em does fine on her own "
I’d meet a married bloke if I knew his mrs knew but there’s many that don’t. Each to their own i suppose xx |
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"The title says it all really. I have been thinking about this for a long while now and as I dont find men attractive I honestly dont know. "
I can’t tell from a pic as it could be an old pic. That’s not me critiquing your profile. I would stay away from you as you are married and I don’t like drama. |
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"The fact you’re married would put many off. Though there was a Lady who was specifically looking for a married guy. dont get that at all as the origins of swinging came from the keys in the fruit bowl. But I guess things have developed over the years
Yes. As a pair though.
Ps. I think you’ve got a nice face x
Yeah the problem we found was that we could never find couples we both agreed on meeting. Em does fine on her own
I’d meet a married bloke if I knew his mrs knew but there’s many that don’t. Each to their own i suppose xx"
I have a couples profile she runs.
Thanks for saying I have a nice face btw. |
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"The title says it all really. I have been thinking about this for a long while now and as I dont find men attractive I honestly dont know.
I can’t tell from a pic as it could be an old pic. That’s not me critiquing your profile. I would stay away from you as you are married and I don’t like drama. "
Yeah I'm a bit camera shy I need to learn the art of a good selfie. But haven't managed yet |
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Of course you're not ugly. There will be so many other factors why you're not getting replies. Fab is tough for single men as there is so much competition.
I totally understand why you meet separately. It's difficult finding couples that you match with x |
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"Of course you're not ugly. There will be so many other factors why you're not getting replies. Fab is tough for single men as there is so much competition.
I totally understand why you meet separately. It's difficult finding couples that you match with x"
Thanks. I guess all married men get labelled as cheaters |
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Then is it because when you joined this site you thought it was going to be instashag & it’s so not so your just putting it down to what you think “it must be because I’m ugly” btw I don’t think you are but another thing with this site to is people live miles from you  |
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"Then is it because when you joined this site you thought it was going to be instashag & it’s so not so your just putting it down to what you think “it must be because I’m ugly” btw I don’t think you are but another thing with this site to is people live miles from you "
Been on the site for 3 years via my couples profile so I know how it works. I am not looking for an Instashag as I prefer to have a conversation first |
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"Then is it because when you joined this site you thought it was going to be instashag & it’s so not so your just putting it down to what you think “it must be because I’m ugly” btw I don’t think you are but another thing with this site to is people live miles from you
Been on the site for 3 years via my couples profile so I know how it works. I am not looking for an Instashag as I prefer to have a conversation first"
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"Yeah I'm a bit camera shy I need to learn the art of a good selfie. But haven't managed yet"
Same here. I just don't photograph very well, to the point where I've had a partner's mother tell me that I'm "significantly better looking in person". Hah. |
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"Yeah I'm a bit camera shy I need to learn the art of a good selfie. But haven't managed yet
Same here. I just don't photograph very well, to the point where I've had a partner's mother tell me that I'm "significantly better looking in person". Hah. "
Yeah I get that |
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"The title says it all really. I have been thinking about this for a long while now and as I dont find men attractive I honestly dont know. "
No ones ugly mate you are who you are |
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"The title says it all really. I have been thinking about this for a long while now and as I dont find men attractive I honestly dont know.
No ones ugly mate you are who you are "
You are who you are yes but you can be unattractive to the opposite sex. |
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"sounds like you just lack a bit of confidence mate.
It's a fab thing. I when I send messages I dont get replies and if I do it's "sorry your not my type" or some variant so just started to wonder."
My face lets me down too bud, so your not the only one |
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If you are swinging as a couple, I assume that you are meeting others that way, so should be able to gauge your attractiveness that way, to balance that with your single male results.
You don't appear to display anything that would be less typically desirable
Otherwise, it's potentially just about getting used to the standard results as a single male profile |
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"Why is the married thing an issue when his wife is cool with it, and on here as well?! "
It’s because even with her being cool with it there can be an element of drama ie if the woman is better looking or sexier than her she may not let him meet the woman. There is always drama with married men in some shape or form! |
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"Why is the married thing an issue when his wife is cool with it, and on here as well?!
It’s because even with her being cool with it there can be an element of drama ie if the woman is better looking or sexier than her she may not let him meet the woman. There is always drama with married men in some shape or form! "
No drama here she is happy with her fwb |
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