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over a year ago
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Each to there own everyone has there reasons and we must not judge as I’m sure the child will be loved and cared for and wouldn’t need to know that detail also in my mind regardless of biological father or not the one that’s there from birth and cares and nurtured you is your father as that’s where the bond is
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I haven’t a clue just thought it a very insensitive post as what if they really wanted to start a family but couldn’t for whatever reason couldn’t get ivf or any help had underlying health issues or have tried and failed and this has worked why shun someone for wanting to have a family and doing it this way I think people shouldn’t judge at all and just let others live there life’s how they want all that matters is that the child is looked after kept safe and is loved by there parents biological or not |
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The girl i knew hadnt planned it, the father was a fab meet she had met a few times, she wanted to keep the baby, but left the scene.
She has given the baby a loving home and hes now 8yo.
To non fab she said it was a one night stand which it kind of was. |
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Due to a few mails I have had about what I have said in this thread I want to make it clear that I am not saying someone should actively seek to fall pregnant with another guy while swinging just for a sexual kick.
If it is the only chance a couple have of having a child then fair enough as long as the participating male is made aware and agrees.
If the occasion ends up being a lot of fun too then thats just a bonus. |
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"Each to there own everyone has there reasons and we must not judge as I’m sure the child will be loved and cared for and wouldn’t need to know that detail also in my mind regardless of biological father or not the one that’s there from birth and cares and nurtured you is your father as that’s where the bond is
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You've judged them to be loving parents.
If they have a rare blood group or inherit a medical condition they will need to know. When they answer the "is there any history of heart disease in your family" question at the doctors they'll need to know. |
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