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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
from Home Counties to Middle Earth |
It's a rare occurrence for me to meet up with anyone new.
I always tell someone who I'm meeting, where, send location and check in with them. I then message when I leave, so they know I'm safe.
I won't agree to meet someone if I have even a vague hint of not feeling safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would only consider that if we had met the person before and hubby has the best character judgement.
We always use life360 to track location, regular messaging while on the meet etc. |
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"We don't. We don't feel it's safe at all. We know lots of other folks meet apart. What steps do you take to avoid mishaps?"
Spend time getting to know somebody before a meet.
Both have a social meet with anybody you are thinking of meeting alone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started this through practical reasons to start with, But it turned into more over time.
Also allowed us to explore different things we both like the idea of separately.
Always make sure Stefe is safe by meeting up with her to start with until we are both happy and relaxed about her meeting alone, not so much of a problem from Marty's side just normally a quick text to say i am fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I asked a married woman I used to meet and she said if she never took risks she wouldn't meet anyone and if attacked she would say nothing as hubby would find out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you do realise that even meeting together is a risk right? Swinging has risks, full stop. We meet singly on occasion, but only with people who have excellent verifications from various sources, people we have met previously for a social, and/or are longstanding partners. Neither of us would ever not do a social first and just show up. You never know what sort of a mess you are going to get into that way - and that goes for meeting as a couple or as a single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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GB here. Jessica gives me the address of where she is going, and texts me when there, when settled, and at various points while there. She'll also only meet well verified users at their location. Otherwise she'll meet in public socially first or they'll have to come here. |
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Is it any different to anyone meeting someone from a vanilla online dating site for the first time? Fortunately most people are not psychopathic serial killers. Nothing in life is 100% risk free. I think you just have to take precautions at the level you are comfortable with. |
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"Is it any different to anyone meeting someone from a vanilla online dating site for the first time? Fortunately most people are not psychopathic serial killers. Nothing in life is 100% risk free. I think you just have to take precautions at the level you are comfortable with. "
Exactly this. I’ve had weird safety issues from other ‘dating’ sites including a stalker once! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
What kind of mishaps are you worried about ?
We tend to not to be concerned, never had any issues, I guess it’s all in the pre meet. If unsure don’t meet them, or take a friend , or meet in a safe place for a social and get to know them , or just keep chatting. Use common sense and instincts, it’s doesn't have to be risky unless you make it. |
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