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To kiss or not to kiss...
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This question is often asked.
It usually goes the same way. The majority of people say (with varying politeness) that they love kissing and couldn't have sex without it and one or two of us say we enjoy really erotic and sensual sexual activity without it.
One thing is usually the same though, the none kissers rarely talk about the kissers in derogatory terms. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"This question is often asked.
It usually goes the same way. The majority of people say (with varying politeness) that they love kissing and couldn't have sex without it and one or two of us say we enjoy really erotic and sensual sexual activity without it.
One thing is usually the same though, the none kissers rarely talk about the kissers in derogatory terms."
Exactly.
As a woman I love kissing other women, and I'm happy to see my partner kiss women too, but personally I don't want to kiss other men - to me it is just too romantic, and I'm after great sex not romance. None of the people we have played with have ever complained and most come back for more, so perhaps the claim that kissing is essential isn't as prevalent as these threads suggest. |
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"This question is often asked.
It usually goes the same way. The majority of people say (with varying politeness) that they love kissing and couldn't have sex without it and one or two of us say we enjoy really erotic and sensual sexual activity without it.
One thing is usually the same though, the none kissers rarely talk about the kissers in derogatory terms.
Exactly.
As a woman I love kissing other women, and I'm happy to see my partner kiss women too, but personally I don't want to kiss other men - to me it is just too romantic, and I'm after great sex not romance. None of the people we have played with have ever complained and most come back for more, so perhaps the claim that kissing is essential isn't as prevalent as these threads suggest."
I think it's essential to some people. I just don't know why it's so difficult to accept that some of us don't want to do it. I also don't know why there's always at least one reference to feeling like a prostitute in every kissing thread, I'm pretty sure there's much more to it than not kissing  |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.
I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself. |
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"It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.
I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself."
That's why we mention it on our profile. We wouldn't want anyone to feel they couldn't be themselves. The same goes for us though, we don't want to feel pressured into doing something we don't want to do. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.
I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself.
That's why we mention it on our profile. We wouldn't want anyone to feel they couldn't be themselves. The same goes for us though, we don't want to feel pressured into doing something we don't want to do. "
Great point, everyone needs to feel comfortable and not pressured. Also, everyone has a choice. |
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I absolutely love kissing. It also shows how the rest of the sex is likely to be; if the kissing is amazing, usually the sex is. If the kissing is meh, then the sex ain't gonna be all that! And it's not that I'm amazing and they're rubbish, it's the compatibility, the chemistry that matters. |
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"It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.
I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself.
That's why we mention it on our profile. We wouldn't want anyone to feel they couldn't be themselves. The same goes for us though, we don't want to feel pressured into doing something we don't want to do.
Great point, everyone needs to feel comfortable and not pressured. Also, everyone has a choice."
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"100% a must for me, kissing is an essential part of play with a lover; before, during and importantly after as we catch our breath recounting the passion we have just had.  "
I’m with you all the way here
I’ve only had one meet where the female didn’t kiss, and it was the only one I’ll ever do  |
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We met a fantastic couple and I really really fancied the lady and all 4 of us had a great time unfortunately I struggled to get hard and was very embarrassed the lady said I was a great kisser and so was she and that made me feel so much better so yes we love kissing |
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I agree kissing is always a must a massive turn on & sexual depending on the others person. Using tongues to Mmmm. Just have 2 b careful that kissing & oral can have other effects which I'm sure we are all aware of. |
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By *isser36Man
over a year ago
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Definitely couldn't meet without kisses! It's number one top of my list of what must definitely happen on a meet! But we've usually had a snog before the meet proper to set the sexual tension and leave ourselves wanting more! It's certainly the case you can tell alot about how the sex will be from those first snoggs... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"urgh I would feel like a prostitute if we didn't kiss.. and kissing is important to me, and gets the juices flowing..."
I agree, it would feel very "transactional" if I wasn't allowed to kiss. And it is very important to me - gets the blood pumping in the right direction |
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"urgh I would feel like a prostitute if we didn't kiss.. and kissing is important to me, and gets the juices flowing...
I agree, it would feel very "transactional" if I wasn't allowed to kiss. And it is very important to me - gets the blood pumping in the right direction"
How would it feel transactional? No transaction woudl be taking place. |
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