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By *udosMan
over a year ago
hull |
"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "
Surely you jest? Its difficult for single males to get a meet or be invited to join a couple!
If you'd like to chat on me......please ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys appear to be 10 a penny around here OP, right up to the moment you say yes to a meet then most of them shit themselves and disappear.
Unattached (and hot, need to be hot! added by Swallow) guys are super rare, but if they are truly unattached they are chasing dreams in the dating world too so they tend to be less attentive. Its an odd quirk. 
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"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "
Mainly because they not single ??
They won’t commit to a meet in a few days time as they wife or girl may need them to clean the garage or paint the longe room
Fab single guy = attached looking for a quick shag ?????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.
I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most |
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Although I fall in the category of attached male, I used to chat to a number of people I met through here and there seems to be a number of genuine single males but alot get lost to the abyss of inboxes. Having a chat to a lady that used to be a member she would have 150 inbox messages from potential men after deleting the ones that didnt interest her. But the stigma around attached men mean alot will not mention it artificially inflating the number of single men. Obviously now in these times of social distancing meets are not going to happen until further notice. I would say keep trying and dont put all your eggs in 1 basket good luck op |
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"As a single woman, also have this issue. X
Me too. I find it hard to get meets off fab so stuck to clubs before lockdown happened x"
I think that’s a good approach to have. And considering doing the same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am happy and available to meet but I guess I am in the older guy category so not that appealing.
I can even host and meet evening and daytime
Any offers ? — ladies or couples x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because too many ideots make it extremely difficult for the few of us that actually meet and offer something to a couple to make an impression in one opening message |
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By *oel2643Man
over a year ago
Shirehampton |
"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets
Mainly because they not single ??
They won’t commit to a meet in a few days time as they wife or girl may need them to clean the garage or paint the longe room
Fab single guy = attached looking for a quick shag ?????????? "
Some of us are genuine single guys, not cheating and not just after a quick shag |
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"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets
Mainly because they not single ??
They won’t commit to a meet in a few days time as they wife or girl may need them to clean the garage or paint the longe room
Fab single guy = attached looking for a quick shag ??????????
Some of us are genuine single guys, not cheating and not just after a quick shag"
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This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I'm straight I am bi-curios. And I have thought about a 3 some. And for me personally I realized I could only be involved in a threesome if I felt as much mental and physical attraction for both the lady and gentlemen. There has to be love. You can't force it. Not being judgemental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.
I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most "
10 ... Has any single guy ever got 10 messages a day ? I was lucky to get 1 a week and hardly ever had a message I sent read.
When your message isn't read and you don't even get a view it's not your self at fault , it's just the sheer number game. |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"There is no way you should be struggling to meet single guys!"
Too true . I don't even get a view never mind a message .
I've been on here as a couple in the past and know how many messages you get. As a couple (she was bi) we found single women where the worst group to contact . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular friend may be harder to find really than a one off...regardless of what the guys will write and say...once theyve had fun a couple of times...they will lose the thrill and tire, and attention will go elsewhere. That new contact that got them fired up as much as you did is now their new focus..im sure not all men are like that but, lets be honest...most |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"I think this thread needs to be titled "We find it hard to meet single males we find attractive"."
Exactly ...and ..dare I say this , but the demands of perfection you get from some couples is driven by an inflated sense of their own attractiveness due to the high number of messages from guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "
maybe you're too fussy, maybe its your location, maybe its the way you message or your profile...... who knows  |
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In general from what I can see, most guys are so quick to say they want to meet and are keen, but back out because they just want the female, not a true couple, and then half the guys profiles seem to think that its a sex site that you simply upload information onto and there are people flocking to meet you, which is not the case, location and age I've found plays a massive role, I find a lot of people that I've tried to message in the past are looking for someone older than me and block my age group, and my local area isn't the busiest to begin with! So maybe broaden search a little, I've given up searching for now anyway, seem to get no where fast! Forums for me haha! |
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Single guys are easy to find
Single guys up to the job , not so easy
You will be surprised how many are condom shy
Have had a tough week at work
Can't hold a conversation
Couples can be tricky , it's hard to find a couple truly on the same wavelength
Single girls , we've been lucky and had them contact us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single guys are easy to find
Single guys up to the job , not so easy
You will be surprised how many are condom shy
Have had a tough week at work
Can't hold a conversation
Couples can be tricky , it's hard to find a couple truly on the same wavelength
Single girls , we've been lucky and had them contact us "
This happens to everyone though. It's not exclusive to couples. Everyone gets messaged by people who are interested only for then to disappear, or can't hold a conversation, or aren't as likeminded as yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.
I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most "
10 a day ! You're doing well. |
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"It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.
I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most
10 ... Has any single guy ever got 10 messages a day ? I was lucky to get 1 a week and hardly ever had a message I sent read.
When your message isn't read and you don't even get a view it's not your self at fault , it's just the sheer number game."
Put a dress on and you'll get that 10 a day easy and that's with male filters turned on....turn them off and you'll get loads more and even lots of unwanted dick pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And all the single males do is moan about not finding couples or women for meets"
You'll find everyone moans
Every so often you'll get couples moaning that they can't find women, or women won't reply to their messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "
I've been asked many a times to join in a threesome in the real world and online. The issue for me is finding people I feel safe with and whom I can be attracted to physically and mentally and I would love to make love to, not just with the lady but with her partner too. Otherwise it just wouldn't work for me. The dimensions for the lady must be the same for the man too. Thus we are all equal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About a year ago was the last time we met a single fella, it's so much like hard work and frustrating on here at times, it's just easier to visit clubs.   |
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"Single guys are easy to find
Single guys up to the job , not so easy
You will be surprised how many are condom shy
Have had a tough week at work
Can't hold a conversation
Couples can be tricky , it's hard to find a couple truly on the same wavelength
Single girls , we've been lucky and had them contact us "
Hello!! Cheeky well you know that I'm up to the job!!
As a genuine single guy it's difficult to get through the inbox and stand out! So mostly clubs socials and parties as you are there already! |
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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
I’m personally not really interested in single guys because they’re too readily available, if that makes sense?
I prefer to meet women and couples because it’s more exciting for me and I have to put in a bit of work |
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"I’m personally not really interested in single guys because they’re too readily available, if that makes sense?
I prefer to meet women and couples because it’s more exciting for me and I have to put in a bit of work "
I am so not available and I'm seriously hard work 
I know what you mean though, it's the build up to things that makes it exciting rather than a quick fancy a fuck question. |
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It sounds like women, couples and single guys all have fundamentally the same issue: The sheer number of single guys, most of whom are pretty shit.
I go to clubs and do okay. I'm distinctive, I'm realistic about what I can offer, and my expectations are reasonable.
On here, though? The odds aren't good. I've pretty much given up sending messages to people. No matter how much thought and effort I put into an introduction, the recipients have all got 400 to 700 other messages to get through first, and are unlikely to even read it. Not a great effort-to-reward ratio, sadly.
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By *hom01Man
over a year ago
Rugby |
"Funnily we changed our profile from one with pics , vids , veris , detailed profile etc
To no pics and a one line profile ,
And still got the same messages
10 messages would be a dream come true !"
You'd definitely get 10 messages from single men a day but you've blocked them. You'll have to rely on meeting in the Bakers Vault !! |
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