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over a year ago
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Curious as to how MF couples and single ladies perceive single guys on Fab?
I'm sure (and I'm told) there are too many idiots (led by their dangly bits) who are either too pushy, too aggressive or just downright rude and who spoil it for the genuine, respectful guys ...but how should a single guy go about striking up a rapport with a single lady or couple, where they don't run a mile or (as happens to me all the time) simply ignore the guy?
The obvious points that spring to mind are: always read the profile, don't send dick-pics and respect the 'looking for' criteria.
Aside from those no-no's, how can single guys get a fair chance of being noticed? Are single women and couples just so jaded/tired of single guys approaching them that they switch off? What's the best way to strike up a convo that might actually lead to a meet/fun/friendship?
What are the turn ons & turn offs for ladies and couples whose profiles say they're open to meeting guys?
Any insight or tips would be appreciated!  |
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"Curious as to how MF couples and single ladies perceive single guys on Fab?
I'm sure (and I'm told) there are too many idiots (led by their dangly bits) who are either too pushy, too aggressive or just downright rude and who spoil it for the genuine, respectful guys ...but how should a single guy go about striking up a rapport with a single lady or couple, where they don't run a mile or (as happens to me all the time) simply ignore the guy?
The obvious points that spring to mind are: always read the profile, don't send dick-pics and respect the 'looking for' criteria.
Aside from those no-no's, how can single guys get a fair chance of being noticed? Are single women and couples just so jaded/tired of single guys approaching them that they switch off? What's the best way to strike up a convo that might actually lead to a meet/fun/friendship?
What are the turn ons & turn offs for ladies and couples whose profiles say they're open to meeting guys?
Any insight or tips would be appreciated! "
Totally agree there. I'm not like all the guys, I'm very patient for one. Not pushy, aggressive, abusive. Care about the person if we have managed to get past the first few messages, but again, no one bothers with me so it's very hard just to connect with someone |
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over a year ago
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I guess that as MMF seems to be a common combination couples need to find an extra M from somewhere — so we do have a role to play
Just a lot of Ms to choose from |
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For me a decent informative profile and meaningful initial chat in the DMs. Just saying "hi".. "lets fuck" from a stranger with no or afew photos and no bio doesn't get me intrigued. Why should it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most couples appear to want to play with women rather than men . And I do wonder if the ladies do like pussy themselves or been bullied into it by the men . And if the ladies would like more cock but being discouraged or afraid to tell hubbies. |
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over a year ago
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We are tired of getting a normal first message with a decent introduction followed up with “I want to lick your pussy” after we’ve replied! Nowhere on our profile does it say Minnie is the only one chatting and we quite clearly state that we come as a couple and ask for a bit of respect  |
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To avoid an inbox constantly full of pointless messages, we have our message filters set so that single men are blocked. If we see a profile that interests or intrigues us we add it to our hotlist & then when we are looking for someone to join us we can approach them.
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We have and do meet single guy's (not our main preference) but we have intentionally put on our profile that we are not on Fabs to look for single guy's. The reason is because as a swinging site fabs is full of flaky people and single guys, who are not swinger's, will never get it, they are only looking for a shag and some probably don't expect to get one, they're just getting off on perving pictures and trying to engage with benign messages like 'hows you' etc. Similarly they only address the female in a message.
It is a shame for the genuine guys out there but we use another site if we want to find a single guy as it's a paying site and we find this discourages the chancers and flakey people. Those experienced swingers will probably know and understand this. |
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