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Ever gone completely unprotected?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So with your significant other and having kids with your partner clearly doesn't count.
Have you ever had sex without a condom or birth control with a playmate, casual partner, stranger, or short term BF/GF? Did you/she take the morning after pill or just risk it?
We never have (only with each other), just curious if anyone has done, or does go, fully unprotected or if it's happened by accident in the heat of the moment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have with a regular FB, she got really turned on by me cumming inside her as her ex didn't like doing it so hadn't experienced it.... Needless to say, I made sure to fill her up at every opportunity! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once or twice in my youth and was was lucky not to get caught out as I probably never asked if they were on the pill. Since then only with a long term partners or my ex wives, and never with any swinging meet I’ve had.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only ever with long term partners. Never on a meet. I worry about Oral without protection too."
I would never give a blowie while guy using condom , would rather not do it at all |
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
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I've done unprotected with a few married housewives... They knew I'd had the snip..and one also had the lady version... naughty but they all wanted to be filled...all had one thing in common...kids at school, hubby at work, bored and needed the day filling in |
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I'm a single male now, following the loss of my FB a couple of years ago. I've kept the profile going, so that i can keep in touch with the friends we made. However, my profile does say Im now a single guy |
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On a handful of occasions, yes...
Only once with the full knowledge beforehand that the wife I was playing with was completely unprotected...
....but a few other times with different wives, when comments were made during and after which let the cat out of the bag...
....like the husband stammering "but, but, you're not on the pill!" to his wife as she urged me to cum inside her - to which she casually replied that she'd get the 'morning after' pill...
....which was what another wife said to me, when she told me "not to bother" when I reached for a condom - her husband wasn't there to object (or not)... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.
It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!  |
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I met a lovely couple a few years back near Leeds. They invited me over for an evening of entertainment and play!
I mentioned in passing to the hubby that I prefer to play safe, but I'm case. He told me to keep that to myself as he wife loved the pregnancy risk thrill!
I had a very long and sweaty evening... and kept my quiet! |
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"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.
It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!! "
How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ? |
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Only with the two women in in committed relationships with. My personal view is that its too risky otherwise. If someone is willing to have unprotected sec with me a a casual fuck, who else are they also doing so with?
I consider that in protecting the two partners I do have unprotected sex with, plus everyone else they have sex with and so on. |
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"On a handful of occasions, yes...
Only once with the full knowledge beforehand that the wife I was playing with was completely unprotected...
....but a few other times with different wives, when comments were made during and after which let the cat out of the bag...
....like the husband stammering "but, but, you're not on the pill!" to his wife as she urged me to cum inside her - to which she casually replied that she'd get the 'morning after' pill...
....which was what another wife said to me, when she told me "not to bother" when I reached for a condom - her husband wasn't there to object (or not)..."
An update on my previous (above) post...
....arrangements are currently being discussed for at least one meet - possibly two, maybe even three - with a couple where the wife will potentially be in an unprotected fertile state...  |
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I did in my youth, thankfully never caught anything.
I will now but it's a regular person exclusive deal & I expect the same in return (sorry guys someone's got that privilege)
As for pregnancy protection well I solved that one permanently over 9 years ago!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did, well Mrs did with a fb she had. Was seeing each other for months Started safe an we all agreed to get ourselves tested and then went from there. Just over a year we were in a poly relationship.
Altho meets are always safe sex. |
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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago
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"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.
It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!
How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ?"
Now that's a good question  |
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I think it's unlikely that you will get honest responses here..
The truth is probably quite a few people have had unprotected sex with others outside a relationship, but likely to get slated and blocked if they admit it on here. |
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By *reakfastCouple
over a year ago
Great Dunmow |
"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.
It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!
How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ?"
Glad you asked, I was going to ask the same question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.
It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!
How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ?"
She said she hadn't slept with him since February. We started seeing each other in the May & that incident happened August. That said though she'd been lying to him as she cheated with me so I guess nothing she said could be trusted. But if she had any suspicions it was his I'd have thought she'd have wanted to keep it. Who knows though. |
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"I had a long ongoing relationship with a married woman who’s hubby had the snip , she was on the pill because she wanted to feel my cum in her "
So i have two wives... The one not recognised by the state also has a live in husband. He's had the snip, and I don't use condoms with our wife. But she is using other birth control so there's almost no risk of pregnancy. If she did become pregnant or would almost certainly be mine. And it's a situation we've all discussed in our poly family.
Years ago when I was in a triad I was fucking our girlfriend while my wife was holding her hand beside her ave the condom broke. Nobody realised until I came. She was Alston birth control and took advice from her GP the following day.
Bareback is lovely but none of us wants children or finds the risks exciting. But it's up to every person/couple/polycule what decisions they make. |
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