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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So irritating when people promise to turn-up and then don't, you make the effort to meet safely in a public place, they can't be arsed, so impolite, given that swinging is an intensely personal activity. Happened to me last week, black T-shirt,jeans, reading a copy of "The Times" as described, meet in a County Hotel lounge where everyone else is Miss Marple. Could not have made myself more obvious, I stood out like a dog's bollocks.
So sad when people agree to meets and then lack the courage to turn-up and say: "not for us". At least, if you go to a club, you know that pretty much everyone is genuine. They have their kit off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So irritating when people promise to turn-up and then don't, you make the effort to meet safely in a public place, they can't be arsed, so impolite, given that swinging is an intensely personal activity. Happened to me last week, black T-shirt,jeans, reading a copy of "The Times" as described, meet in a County Hotel lounge where everyone else is Miss Marple. Could not have made myself more obvious, I stood out like a dog's bollocks.
So sad when people agree to meets and then lack the courage to turn-up and say: "not for us". At least, if you go to a club, you know that pretty much everyone is genuine. They have their kit off! "
Did you not speak to them/her/him first to suss them out on phone ? did you not exchange mobile numbers ? because they are musts in my book - try it next time but dont give up not all are like that |
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Report them as no-shows and move on.
At least it was a coffee meet so you had't paid out for a hotel room. This is why all my first meets are for coffee, that way its been a half hour off my time and nothing else. |
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By *eaboMan
over a year ago
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So sad when people agree to meets and then lack the courage to turn-up and say: "not for us". At least, if you go to a club, you know that pretty much everyone is genuine. They have their kit off! "
difficult to be genuine in a country hotel then.  |
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I've had a few people mess me about but so far no no-shows but not had that many meets yet. I've had endless ping pong mails that dry up the moment I suggest a meet and also a few arrangements made but canceled at the last minute. Either that or I cant get hold of them as I am about to set off. Starting to recognize the signs now so don't very often get caught up in it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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This was the first time (in many) I'd arranged an agreed meet and the other party didn't show, or, so far, failed to apologise for a no-show. Pretty piss-poor in my book. Any weak excuse would have been fine as an apology, silence. Sooo irritating. |
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