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We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .
Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me |
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I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no. |
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To be clear he is not telling me to do it he said he wouldnt mind if I had my own profile as we work shifts . And he knows if been to eurekas on my own while hes been at work , and if messaged him whole there he has said if your horny go have some fun as it was I bumped into someone we knew and instead of playing with him at eurekas I brought him home as hubby likes t8 catch me being naughty, and he loved it . And so did I, most of the time we only meet bi people but this would enable meet to meet who ever and to keep him involved he only wants to know when I'm meeting for safety reasons and to send hima puck or call him whime there , the hole thing is so naughty but it also is so hot , love to know if any couples would like me to join them and make hubby wait to collect me |
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"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."
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"To be clear he is not telling me to do it he said he wouldnt mind if I had my own profile as we work shifts . And he knows if been to eurekas on my own while hes been at work , and if messaged him whole there he has said if your horny go have some fun as it was I bumped into someone we knew and instead of playing with him at eurekas I brought him home as hubby likes t8 catch me being naughty, and he loved it . And so did I, most of the time we only meet bi people but this would enable meet to meet who ever and to keep him involved he only wants to know when I'm meeting for safety reasons and to send hima puck or call him whime there , the hole thing is so naughty but it also is so hot , love to know if any couples would like me to join them and make hubby wait to collect me "
So you want to know if any couples want to meet you after lockdown of course. Not whether you should do it or not? |
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over a year ago
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This was something I didn’t think was for me.
I was pleasantly surprised and we both got a lot out of it.
He arranges everything and safety is always the primary concern as it should be. xx |
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"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."
Good advice |
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"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .
Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "
Your husband would like you to have your own profile and meets.
So he came up with the idea.
Do what you want to do.
If you have to ask a bunch of strangers on Fab then you’re not sure obviously.
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"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .
Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "
Its something we have chatted about and considered with guys we already know possibly....as the reclaim is so exciting ...xx |
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"get a divorce and marry a real man
Ha! Oh the irony is just dripping off this stupid comment  "
Male half writing that's a bot or a stupid comment , to be clear , I am all man when needs to be , but what I am is secure in our relationship and open enough to admit due to work commitments we are like shops in the night , as we have swung and do swing I dont have a problem with my wife having some fun when I'm not available , at parties she loves playing with couples and I leave her to it only difference here is I would drop her off and pick her up afterwards and then reclaim her when we get home same as we do after most play night we have , that fact that I'm open and honest is probably why we are still married after a long time and still going strong it has and always be her decision to play , be it with a guy a couple or at a party, all I have done is say if you fancy a play without ne that's cool too |
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If it is something you both like the idea of and have talked it over then why not.
Life is way to short to look back and wonder what might have been grab the bull by the horns so to speak .......... no pun intended  |
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"get a divorce and marry a real man
Ha! Oh the irony is just dripping off this stupid comment
Male half writing that's a bot or a stupid comment , to be clear , I am all man when needs to be , but what I am is secure in our relationship and open enough to admit due to work commitments we are like shops in the night , as we have swung and do swing I dont have a problem with my wife having some fun when I'm not available , at parties she loves playing with couples and I leave her to it only difference here is I would drop her off and pick her up afterwards and then reclaim her when we get home same as we do after most play night we have , that fact that I'm open and honest is probably why we are still married after a long time and still going strong it has and always be her decision to play , be it with a guy a couple or at a party, all I have done is say if you fancy a play without ne that's cool too "
Totally get it...sounds like you have a great relationship and trust .... |
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I think sometimes things find their natural course.
As long as you feel safe and hubby is happy about your safety then why not explore.
I’ve quite often met a couple for a social first and then it is only the woman that meets afterwards - but hubby has met me so is comfortable and she is reassured by his approval.
Enjoyment is the important thing xx |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no.
I second this. "
Thirded. |
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I used to meet alone before all the Covid stuff but was always with my regular guy. Met him a loads with hubby before but then moved on to having the odd meet alone at his or a hotel while hubby was at home. It’s unreal how horny hubby was when I got home and showed him pics and told him what I got up to. Even went for a night at a club with him as a couple and had good fun but for me not sure I could meet a stranger alone |
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"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."
Agreed |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .
Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "
If suggest the fact that you are very much in love and have a close relationship that you sit down with your husband and discuss it through with him. Discuss all aspects, what excites you about it, what scares or worries you. Hear him out too so you understand his drivers, excitement and worries. If it seems you are coming to common ground discuss ground rules, how things would work in practice etc. Only then can you come to a decision but I'd also second what others on here say... Don't be pushed into anything you don't want. That said, I don't think you would be if you did the above.. Just my thoughts really, hope it helps x |
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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago
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We are also into this we have a couple profile and separate profiles main thing is staying safe meet in large public bars where there is plenty of space for hubby to sit out of the way and the other person doesn't have to know he is there if you both feel comfortable go from there |
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"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no.
Agreed"
Definitely agree. It’s a recipe for disaster. Why ask a bunch of strangers for advice? Surely wifey should know if she wants it or not!? |
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It is a whole different dynamic when the lady meets a guy solo. Hubby at home drives himself wild thinking what is happening and what his wife is doing, that's the thrill for him compared to watching. It's electric, mind blowing, I have done it myself with a previous GF.
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"To be clear he is not telling me to do it he said he wouldnt mind if I had my own profile as we work shifts . And he knows if been to eurekas on my own while hes been at work , and if messaged him whole there he has said if your horny go have some fun as it was I bumped into someone we knew and instead of playing with him at eurekas I brought him home as hubby likes t8 catch me being naughty, and he loved it . And so did I, most of the time we only meet bi people but this would enable meet to meet who ever and to keep him involved he only wants to know when I'm meeting for safety reasons and to send hima puck or call him whime there , the hole thing is so naughty but it also is so hot , love to know if any couples would like me to join them and make hubby wait to collect me
So you want to know if any couples want to meet you after lockdown of course. Not whether you should do it or not? "
ys as a lot of couple look for single women but may not want to play with a married woman who can play on her own |
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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago
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We discussed this for each other, but only after years of swinging to make each other comfortable.
Solo requires trust and security. We would both prefer to meet either husbands or wives from a couple for that reason.
All about your own boundaries |
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This is something that we have only just recently started to do.
We either meet as a couple with another male or couple, male half does not meet alone but female half does.
We will both search and decide upon the individual depending on Ann's mood at that particular time but she has the final say.
I either then drop her off and pick her up from the arranged meet or stay at home until she returns home telling me all the details in full.
Give it a go only if you are comfortable. |
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brave move, if all are ok then go for it, your husband would be climbing the walls as you leave the house to go and have your solo meet, dressed and as sexy as hell, him at home and you in the arms of another guy, |
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i can see everyones point of view her , having a free pass from hubby is a big thing , its just taking that first step into the un known , been thinking about it all night , i do think for my first play on my own it should be with a girl or a single guy altho there is a couple who i chatted to who sound so much fun |
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"i can see everyones point of view her , having a free pass from hubby is a big thing , its just taking that first step into the un known , been thinking about it all night , i do think for my first play on my own it should be with a girl or a single guy altho there is a couple who i chatted to who sound so much fun "
Take your time and find who is right for you.
Maybe a social or two to feel relaxed and move on, don't rush it enjoy the build up and share every detail with your husband
Should be a win win for everyone
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By (user no longer on site)
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J meets up alone with ladies that we know or have played with before but she would never meet a man on his own or an m/f couple.
Obviously everyone has their own perception of risk but not for us thanks. |
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"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .
Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "
Everything you have said was me and my hubby 5 years ago and it was the best thing we ever did for the both of us
He also drops me of and picks me back up after my meets
He says the feeling he has when am on a meet on my own is amazing and gets him very horny for when I get back
So everyone is a winner
Good luck on whatever you decide to do
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We moved to solo meets a couple of years ago now and both of us love the pleasure it brings us. I get sexual fulfilment from awesome lovers and hubby gets awesome sex when I return. Safety is key but once comfortable, 1-1 with a lover is wonderful. You need to be open with each other and have a secure relationship though xx These meets get better the more time you spend with a lover away from the marital home xxx  |
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"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .
Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "
Just chat to the person make sure all partys comfortable and safe and go from there |
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"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .
Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "
Would be nice to send a wife home after a filthy session |
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"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."
Absolutely this. You shouldn't need to ask people on a website. |
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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago
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Well if i was you id have my own profile
But only meet who you was happt to meet after talking a lomg time
As weve noticed a lot of guhs dont even read our profile
Also once you found someone your happy with meet with your hubby till you feel ok..remember its his fantasy not yours... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Happy to help with this, nothing better than a hot wife being dropped off by her husband and left, then being collected later without a word of what's happened |
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