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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"
Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."
. L I’ll yeah us too. We arranged a meet with a couple. Waited in the pub we all agreed on and when they walked in it was omfg no way are they the couple we’ve came to meet. They seen us and came over. ...thank god we just arranged a drink ... they messaged us asking for a play meet. Not a fucking chance in hell. Maybes when Santa orders a toboggan and uses it to slide to chip shop and gets served by elvis ...amazed some people actually verified them too. Lol.
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.. L I’ll yeah us too. We arranged a meet with a couple. Waited in the pub we all agreed on and when they walked in it was omfg no way are they the couple we’ve came to meet. They seen us and came over. ...thank god we just arranged a drink ... they messaged us asking for a play meet. Not a fucking chance in hell. Maybes when Santa orders a toboggan and uses it to slide to chip shop and gets served by elvis ...amazed some people actually verified them too. Lol. "
That bad eh?! Hahaha made me laugh  |
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I don't tend to contact women I feel wouldn't be interested me in the first place, sane as I wouldn't chat to one in a bar for the same reason.
With the best will in the world a 9 or 10 woman isn't going to be interested in a 6 or 7 man, either here or in real life
As for connections, my approach must be wrong because I can't seem to get any going  |
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Remember a funny comment that Allen Made from the US comedy series Two & Half Men . Allen noticing Walden’s new girl friend & Allen said “ I couldn’t pull a girl like that even if my sperm cured cancer “ |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."
Mine are not filtered but i do need to crop as the dog is usually by my side. Always wondered what i would like if my phone allowed me to change myself a bit. |
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We both look at the Top 10 and feel they’re out of our league or they don’t float our boat. We do feel there needs to be a physical attraction for us to want to play as a couple but we have to be realistic with the people that would be interested in us also...   |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."
You can vouch for that. Why, are you really ugly in real life? (Joke... Only kidding x)  |
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Deffo sent a few messages to people out my league!
From the few that have replied, they never meet my expectations lol.
Hot bod but ugly face or hot bod and poor personality.
If you cant string a sentence together and handle my humour, I probably wont find you hot anymore. |
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It's a bugger being the best looking person wherever I go. People are so intimidated by my good looks they don't have the confidence to approach me.
C on the other hand has no problems pulling  |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"
I thought J was taking the piss for the first 6 weeks of us chatting. I was waiting for the punch line. But sometimes you can trick them into fancying you. Just as long as it doesn’t wear off |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."
Bingo! That is why I don't go by pics. Many other things come before that and pics are actually the last thing if revealed/visible. Most of the time won't even get as far as that. Some people know how to seriously use all levels of technology.
Having said that I don't have interest in hot pics generally or doing the whole 'fab'd' I get can be fun, but just not appealed to me.
There have been times when I have come across profiles/pics and think hidden gems should be all over hot pics, most liked/fab'd, but my understanding is those that enjoy getting on page 1... like really want/need to, find ways to make it happen... figured out methods/ways to increase exposure... so other Fabbers never make it. |
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We got a lot of people messaging us saying they were unsure we'd be interested but hope we don't mind them messaging.
We'd rather people just sent us a decent, confident message as it comes across as awkward otherwise.
We're not here to have our egos stroked and wouldn't do it to others. Just be normal! |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.. L I’ll yeah us too. We arranged a meet with a couple. Waited in the pub we all agreed on and when they walked in it was omfg no way are they the couple we’ve came to meet. They seen us and came over. ...thank god we just arranged a drink ... they messaged us asking for a play meet. Not a fucking chance in hell. Maybes when Santa orders a toboggan and uses it to slide to chip shop and gets served by elvis ...amazed some people actually verified them too. Lol. "
Video call is compulsory surely? Before meeting anyone. |
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That is a defeatist attitude.
Never think like that.
Most women don't from our experience.
Similar interests, good communication, a spark.
These things matter. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Deffo sent a few messages to people out my league!
From the few that have replied, they never meet my expectations lol.
Hot bod but ugly face or hot bod and poor personality.
If you cant string a sentence together and handle my humour, I probably wont find you hot anymore. "
I'd have no chance with someone like you, so I'd never put myself in that position. |
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over a year ago
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Fab "leagues" are completely unaligned with reality though, let's be honest about that.
I mean I'm no Brad Pitt but sometimes I wonder if I'm the elephant man on here..... |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."
Never really thought about they might be filtered, until now, nieve side strikes again  |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"
Give it a go you just never know, don't live with the regret of not knowing whether you stood a chance or not, let the other person decide that not you.
I never approached a girl I thought was out of my league, she died and her best friend told me she always liked me but thought I wasn't interested.
Never made that mistake again. |
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I think thats a load of bollocks . I look like Bob Hoskins and I'm literally swimming in clunge on here. You lads need to up your game a bit to be frank...  |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol
Give it a go you just never know, don't live with the regret of not knowing whether you stood a chance or not, let the other person decide that not you.
I never approached a girl I thought was out of my league, she died and her best friend told me she always liked me but thought I wasn't interested.
Never made that mistake again."
Did you shag her mate instead? |
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I don't like to think in terms of leagues, I just look at photos and see if they appeal. The same with a profile - does it indicate humour and high intelligence amongst other things.
Re myself, I keep getting demoted to lower leagues, by myself. I think as I'm getting older I feel I appeal less. |
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"I don't like to think in terms of leagues, I just look at photos and see if they appeal. The same with a profile - does it indicate humour and high intelligence amongst other things.
Re myself, I keep getting demoted to lower leagues, by myself. I think as I'm getting older I feel I appeal less. "
You've got a more select group of admirers. That's the way to see it... |
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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago
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Keeping the football analogy going....you just need to keep putting yourself forward for a trial
Just about everyone who wants to play will eventually get a game, albeit it might be Sunday league rather than Premier league
"A man's got to know his limitations" (famous US actor  ) |
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"Keeping the football analogy going....you just need to keep putting yourself forward for a trial
Just about everyone who wants to play will eventually get a game, albeit it might be Sunday league rather than Premier league
"A man's got to know his limitations" (famous US actor )"
So the people you contact are Sunday league? |
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"I don't like to think in terms of leagues, I just look at photos and see if they appeal. The same with a profile - does it indicate humour and high intelligence amongst other things.
Re myself, I keep getting demoted to lower leagues, by myself. I think as I'm getting older I feel I appeal less. "
I don't see why - you've got a lovely smile and can string a sentence together, which puts you head and shoulders above a lot on here
Although the face mask pic was a bit of a surprise |
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"Keeping the football analogy going....you just need to keep putting yourself forward for a trial
Just about everyone who wants to play will eventually get a game, albeit it might be Sunday league rather than Premier league
"A man's got to know his limitations" (famous US actor )
So the people you contact are Sunday league? "
I wasn't referring to my activity |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.
Mine are not filtered but i do need to crop as the dog is usually by my side. Always wondered what i would like if my phone allowed me to change myself a bit."
Believe me, yours don't need changing!! You look amazing!! |
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"It's all about connection....you have some stuck up couples on here.. Think they're better than you but they're here for the same reasons that we're both here for one reason....
Titch xx"
But this thread is about people thinking others are better than them. |
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I still think every woman or couple is out of my league. My face is a huge impact as is the rest of my body. So if it's a nice face and/or attraction, then I ain't going to be getting a trial anytime soon |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"
Don’t ever think that as confidence (without being too cocky) is a quality women look for. If i thought like that I wouldn’t be married to such a stunner. Don’t let her see this haha  |
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Remember when viewing the Top 10, some repeated lovely ladies and gents are there with a main purpose of taking hot photos. We try to reply to as many messages as we can and we are nothing special, so the likelihood is that people on the Top 10 must have hundreds and thousands of messages a day and can’t possibly reply to them all... |
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"People say it’s all about connection but they never give people a proper chance on here lol messaging is nothing like the real person behind them "
It's all about looks for most people, there wouldn't be threads about leagues if not. |
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As a recent regular on "page 1" I think it's fair to say a lot of my pics have been edited slightly, but they're still me. I just blur out the background mostly so you can't identify my home or belongings - I'm paranoid! However, you should definitely always check a person's videos as these can't be changed. I only ever "pose" in flattering angles for photos, whereas in videos it's harder to hide any wobbles lol. Everyone has wobbles and imperfections! |
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As a recent regular on "page 1" I think it's fair to say a lot of my pics have been edited slightly, but they're still me. I just blur out the background mostly so you can't identify my home or belongings - I'm paranoid! However, you should definitely always check a person's videos as these can't be changed. I only ever "pose" in flattering angles for photos, whereas in videos it's harder to hide any wobbles lol. Everyone has wobbles and imperfections
With the technology today videos can be changed if you have the right software and know how, but I think that would be over kill for a 30 sec fan video haha |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"
Yeah I think to myself I wouldn't stand a chance and I'm always right lol |
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"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol
Yeah I think to myself I wouldn't stand a chance and I'm always right lol"
I know that feeling all too well |
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I think its sad to see this or hear this!
What makes you think you don't stand a chance!!
Believe it or not yes you get very attractive women that could have any man they wanted! A very high majority of the women that (know they can have any man) play on this and become very stuck up and think they deserve the world and no one is good enough! ( aimed at nobody) just my personelle opinion!
Having said that,
Trust me there are women out there that could have anyone they wanted and are stunning and most men wouldn't dream of engaging Convo, but are interested in a man for them not what they have! So looks don't matter as such!
I'm not the best looking guy in the world but if iv learnt anything over the years its that, there is not a women that would make me think that I wasn't good enough for her or I'm out of her league! |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"It's all about connection....you have some stuck up couples on here.. Think they're better than you but they're here for the same reasons that we're both here for one reason....
Titch xx
But this thread is about people thinking others are better than them. "
I don’t think they’re better than me - they just hold all the cards on here. I used to get rattled by it, now I just don’t try any more. |
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