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My gf has done stuff with my best mate before getting together
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lastnight we were talking, and she addmited that just before we got together a few years ago, she had been at a house party and bumped into my best mate there. Later that night she said she ended up giving him head in the bathroom upstairs, not evan sex but a bj, seems evan worse. She addmited he had a nig 1 too i wish i never asked,I thought i noticed tenstion in the air when ever its just the 3 of us and now i dont know how to feel about it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lastnight we were talking, and she addmited that just before we got together a few years ago, she had been at a house party and bumped into my best mate there. Later that night she said she ended up giving him head in the bathroom upstairs, not evan sex but a bj, seems evan worse. She addmited he had a nig 1 too i wish i never asked,I thought i noticed tenstion in the air when ever its just the 3 of us and now i dont know how to feel about it,"
You do realise that she will have had sexual partners before you? It was before you met, not seeing the issue myself. Seems a bit weird to have asked about your mates cock though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history
This seems a bit cruel. "
Assuming this is true, why is it cruel or harsh to point out a fact. Perhaps it's unrealted, but it's not cruel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was before you met then don’t see the problem, if you like your gf then you need to accept it and move on or it will end up destroying your relationship, don’t be so insecure she’s with you not your mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history
This seems a bit cruel.
Assuming this is true, why is it cruel or harsh to point out a fact. Perhaps it's unrealted, but it's not cruel."
Just trying to weigh up what is worse. A girl giving your best mate head or you cheating on your girl by having gay sex with other males, wig or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history
This seems a bit cruel.
Assuming this is true, why is it cruel or harsh to point out a fact. Perhaps it's unrealted, but it's not cruel.
Just trying to weigh up what is worse. A girl giving your best mate head or you cheating on your girl by having gay sex with other males, wig or not."
You assume it is cheating? For all we know his partner consents so not sure why the digs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One more thing it does seem a bit hypocritical that you have an issue with your gf as she gave your mate a bj before you met yet your cheating on her, "
EXACTLY  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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There was probably alcohol involved. Your only 25 and you’ve been together a few years, I’m presuming then she was in her early 20’s when this happened. She chose to be with you not him.
I’m sure you’ve done things at parties as well and your on Fab. Talk to her about it and how you feel. I think there’s a trust issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe if this sort of thing bothers you, then maybe this isn’t the place for you, you kind of have to be pretty open with each other for this to work, does she know about your sexual past? I don’t think it’s really fair to be off with her to be honest, she’s not cheated it’s before you, just my thoughts sx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was before you got together then forget about it and move on
Unless your friend is trying it was n again in which case remind him that it's in the past and to knock it off
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"Maybe if this sort of thing bothers you, then maybe this isn’t the place for you, you kind of have to be pretty open with each other for this to work, does she know about your sexual past? I don’t think it’s really fair to be off with her to be honest, she’s not cheated it’s before you, just my thoughts sx "
we've all got history op,the past is just that,forget just move on x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were her id get out now. I've experienced a man like this, took exception to my having dated a friend of his... Over a year before we met!
It was the tip of the iceberg.
A complete narc and so controlling oh and he also was cheating on me.... Go figure  |
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