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Couples profiles without photos of the male
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We'd love to see more couple's profiles which have photos of the male half as well as the beautiful ladies. There don't seem to be so many profiles with adequate photos of both partners for us to make an initial decision. On a site like this, the initial attraction has to be visual - it's just the nature of meeting people online.
Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?
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over a year ago
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If there are no pictures of the male I just pass them by. Regardless of whether the male plays or not - it's a couple's profile so he's involved in some way. So I still want to see both. |
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over a year ago
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"We'd love to see more couple's profiles which have photos of the male half as well as the beautiful ladies. There don't seem to be so many profiles with adequate photos of both partners for us to make an initial decision. On a site like this, the initial attraction has to be visual - it's just the nature of meeting people online.
Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?
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We agree too. If it's a couple we need to see you both. |
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We have few but after lockdown end in some way,we would like to find photographer who will do pocture of us both in some better format than phone allow.
Of course we have more poc of Mr and Mrs in private pictures for friends |
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"We'd love to see more couple's profiles which have photos of the male half as well as the beautiful ladies. There don't seem to be so many profiles with adequate photos of both partners for us to make an initial decision. On a site like this, the initial attraction has to be visual - it's just the nature of meeting people online.
Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?
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It's also one of Anita's pet peeves, I'm personally not too fussed because I like looking at sexy women... but I understand her point.
I think that it's hard for men though, women learn from quite a young age how to make the best of themselves, how to dress to impress and do their makeup to accentuate their beauty. Where as men grow up learning how to get dressed in the dark and get on with what we're born with... so we're not confident in how we look and often we feel like nobody really wants photos of us.
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We'd prefer to see at least one Male body shot. But too many Male pics is off putting, as the Female form is generally more attractive to look at. Also when we swing, the focus is more on the Ladies.  |
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over a year ago
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Like to think we have a good balance of each as we like a four way play so other couples can see the goods so to speak . I dare say if the female of a couple only plays & seeking singles then obviously more pictures of her will be displayed
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over a year ago
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We have a more or less fair split on ours. We come as a couple so wouldn’t have it any other way. Also, I love T’s body and get a kick out of him showing it off
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over a year ago
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You mean you want to see his cock, chest, bum ?
All profile says " don't send cock pics"
Have you ever seen a profile which says " don't send pussy and ass pics ?"
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"There are a few of him on ours.
We always find it strange when male photos are omitted from a couples profile. "
You're one of the first couple profile that have a good number of sexy male photos to illustrate you're equal in statue where I feel usually it's the woman dominates the profile   
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We believe that Couples who are looking for couples need to see pictures of both the male and female.
It’s not blind date or a lucky dip.
We presume some couples only put the female on as sort of click bate but if both halves are going to play surely you need to see what both look like. |
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over a year ago
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Never really thought about it weve got a mix on ours because tattoos and piercings are not everyone's thing. She likes looking at the males and I enjoy the ladies |
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"If there are no pictures of the male I just pass them by. Regardless of whether the male plays or not - it's a couple's profile so he's involved in some way. So I still want to see both."
Agree with this. When we’re looking for a couple to play with, we would expect to see pictures of both the lady and man. Not just a cock pic or a finger from the male, amidst full body shots of the lady from any angle.
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over a year ago
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"We have sone of mr going to put more on this week if I can get him to do them x"
One pic is enough to get the idea .
Don't feel pressurised , you don't get meets because of your public pictures.
Most are club goers and they can see your Mr there anyway . This is another moan thread |
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We have commented on a thread like this before, our pictures are mainly of Mrs but i have some on here as well, when we look at couples Mrs will say well you’ll be ok but what about me, we think it’s better to show both as it gives an idea if your going to fancy each other, although we don’t show face pics due to our profession and never ask for them either as we prefer a bit of mystery, Mr |
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over a year ago
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We have a few but we’ve 2 issues:
1/. Misha’s photography skills are non existent
2/. I’m covered in easily recognisable tattoos which expose us both to anybody who might spot them
Always happy to provide when asked though x |
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over a year ago
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"We have commented on a thread like this before, our pictures are mainly of Mrs but i have some on here as well, when we look at couples Mrs will say well you’ll be ok but what about me, we think it’s better to show both as it gives an idea if your going to fancy each other, although we don’t show face pics due to our profession and never ask for them either as we prefer a bit of mystery, Mr "
Not sharing face pics will only get you so far- we don’t have them on our profile but swap if we’re interested as neither of us have any interest in blind dates, what’s the point? We’re also professionals but surely most of us are? Just saying |
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We have a mixture of both, I find it’s a bit trickier to get decent male shot for various reasons but if both intend to play, we think there should be a fair representation of all involved, which could be done with one or two pics
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We just don't contact those profiles. If it's only the woman who wants to be involved we aren't compatible. We used to meet couples who sent (reluctantly we realise now) photos of the guy after we asked to see them but it always turned out that he only wanted to watch his partner. Unless there are clear photos of both on a profile or in a first message we know its not going to work for us or them. I'm not saying it's wrong to have no photos of the man, that's their choice. |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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We would also like to see more pic of the male half of a couple. We do have a mix of photos on our profile but are guilty of not having many of Jim because we do not want to scare the ladies away.  |
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over a year ago
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"If there are no pictures of the male I just pass them by. Regardless of whether the male plays or not - it's a couple's profile so he's involved in some way. So I still want to see both."
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MrD has alot of tattoo's and it is his choice not to show as many public pics as a result for fear of being recognised. I do show mt tatts but thats my choice.
We have plenty of him in private and we are very quick to share once we start chatting with a anyone.
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"We'd love to see more couple's profiles which have photos of the male half as well as the beautiful ladies. There don't seem to be so many profiles with adequate photos of both partners for us to make an initial decision. On a site like this, the initial attraction has to be visual - it's just the nature of meeting people online.
Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?
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One possible reason is that the f is more, shall we say, photogenic. |
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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago
sutton Coldfield |
We should have a few more of me , I admit, but at least there’s one. We like to see at least one of the M half, if we want to play as a couple, we want to see the couple to decide if there may be an attraction. It’s nothing to do with female pics getting more fabs, and it doesn’t matter if photo skills aren’t great, just needs a body shot to show whether he’s the right physical type |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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This comes up weekly, and every week I give the same answer:
It's the couples profile and they can post whatever pictures they want, not what other people want. If the balance of photos don't suit you then it's your problem not theirs. Just move on to another profile which does suit you. |
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Think we have plenty of picture of us both. People can get a very good idea of what we both look like from our photos. I find it very frustrating when I can’t see what the guy looks like . I do most of the browsing so if there’s no pics of the man I click on the next profile. |
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"We have commented on a thread like this before, our pictures are mainly of Mrs but i have some on here as well, when we look at couples Mrs will say well you’ll be ok but what about me, we think it’s better to show both as it gives an idea if your going to fancy each other, although we don’t show face pics due to our profession and never ask for them either as we prefer a bit of mystery, Mr
Not sharing face pics will only get you so far- we don’t have them on our profile but swap if we’re interested as neither of us have any interest in blind dates, what’s the point? We’re also professionals but surely most of us are? Just saying "
We don’t show our faces as our workplace involves coming face to face with hundreds of people on a daily basis, public and colleagues, it’s not for everyone but we do make it clear and our verifications may help put some at ease, like I said previous we don’t ask for face pics either so it’s not double standards
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Each to their own, we will continue to post photos of us both, as M’Lady loves taking photos and as we play together with other couples and/or lovely ladies, it’s only right that others get to see us both to then decide if there is an attraction  |
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We ideally like to see photos of both, but we will message people even if there are only photos of the lady.
We have photos of both of us, but there are more of me. That is purely down to me having more time to faff around with the camera. |
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We're really guilty of this...
There are a few of the Mr, and more in our friends pics, but I post more pics (because I'm a bloody tart). It's a shame though, because he's hot as fuck. I'll have to get on the case.
C (her) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to get a balance but it's easier getting new fresh pics of Mrs because she has a great range of lingerie.. us chaps only have a limited 'fab pic' wardrobe to choose from
Hope you like them anyway
S & D xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to take some of him where we can but we try not to include face pics unless we're on good talking terms etc.
He doesn't particularly like his photo taken either which makes it more awkward |
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This is one of my pet peeves when there are no pics of the guy. All well and good if the couple are looking for single guys to join them etc. Just frustrating as often these profiles lacking in male pics contact us first and you end up having to ask for them. Now we use it as more of a filter |
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over a year ago
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"We agree with you both which is why there's quite a few of me on our profile. There's also quite a few other guys too though  "
Wow! You’ve got some smokin’ hot pics there. |
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over a year ago
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We have a few of Mr A on ours.
Although for some reason he thinks no-one is interested in looking at his pics.
Does he need to put some more on?
Opinions would be welcome ladies... |
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