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Why leave Fab then come back?
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We're genuinely interested to know why some people leave only to return a month or two later? (Sometimes much younger!). Did you decide to give up swinging then have a change of mind? Suppose we all change our minds at times.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is a big (sometimes) giant step into unchartered waters. Not for the faint hearted - the first whiff of an all-in group sex, cpls party can be rather FULL ON |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And fab can get overwhelming at times. The number of mesaages, the content of some the messages , the relentless cock pics etc.
I learned my lesson the first time, now I hide my profile. |
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"We're genuinely interested to know why some people leave only to return a month or two later? (Sometimes much younger!). Did you decide to give up swinging then have a change of mind? Suppose we all change our minds at times. "
Time travel could explain the age difference, just need a delorean, a flux capacitor, 88 mph and 1.21 gigawatts of power and I'll be back in a month aged 30
Don't forget to say hi |
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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago
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"We're genuinely interested to know why some people leave only to return a month or two later? (Sometimes much younger!). Did you decide to give up swinging then have a change of mind? Suppose we all change our minds at times.
Time travel could explain the age difference, just need a delorean, a flux capacitor, 88 mph and 1.21 gigawatts of power and I'll be back in a month aged 30
Don't forget to say hi "
Just remember you could go forward in time too.
So you can see yourself in the future saying hi to yourself when you’ve returned again. But then if you’ve gone forward in time are you older than when you first left or are you still the same age then you can go back in time and be 3ven younger 5han before you were there for the first time you weren’t here. |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
I left and came back...schoolboy error of the highest order...it is very difficult and a lot of hard work to get started on here...guess my pics helped. Left because it was consuming all my time. Now I'm back...it is again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think it's much better than leaving a dormant profile and then return to it with verifications from 5 years ago.
Sometimes a fresh start is the best way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People do it to take a break. Also people find a fuckbuddy or several and are happy to come off for a while as they don't need any more playmates. Also, restarting with a new username and fresh pics has an advantage as a single guy. I delete my profile when I go abroad for work and start a new one when I come back to the UK. I've met with ladies that declined or ignored me on a previous profile 6 months ago. Obviously there are disingenuous reasons for doing so like bypassing age preferences or stalking someone who previously blocked them. But, on the whole, I think most people do it for genuine reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined initially found it overwhelming, left and then return with a better understanding. When it gets too much now i hide my profile or just dont log on. Shant leave again its nice and comfy here |
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"I left and came back...schoolboy error of the highest order...it is very difficult and a lot of hard work to get started on here...guess my pics helped. Left because it was consuming all my time. Now I'm back...it is again "
Yep, can relate to this, we made the same schoolboy error and going through all of the 'can you verify us?', putting up photos again, writing the profile text was a complete pain.
I think we would just hide the profile if we needed some timeout this time.
Our reason for leaving was that swinging was causing us relationship problems, it gives you something else to argue about and because of the nature of swinging, the arguments weren't easy to resolve (it's not like arguing about whose turn it is to put the rubbish out!) But after a couple of years out, we got the urge to try it again, but this time with better communication, and so far, it's been good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since March year we have left fab twice because we just couldn’t handle it but this time the way we approach fab is working so much better for us and luckily we are in no hurry so can just take our time and enjoy the adventure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed some local women in Midlands seem to rejoin every week - and then add the same pictures to the new profile before scrubbing and starting again. And again .
Bizarre |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on and off for years , life circumstances changed and we felt fab wasn’t our main priority so deleted our profile and lost all our veri and pictures but it’s good to come back to start a fresh still used the same name and we just hide our profile if we need time out  |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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A local guy to me removes his count every couple of months then comes back with a different age  I have met him so know its him but always feel like hes hiding something with the age differing 10ish years!
Other guys use fab as a stop gap between relationships.
Iv only had the 1 profile, always active, even on the odd occasion iv entered a relationship and I always make it clear of my fab life. |
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"I wanted a fresh start and to hide from a person who "found" me and I didnt want to be found by them.."
Isn’t there a chance they may find you again as you have a picture of your face as your profile pic?  |
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"I’ve noticed some local women in Midlands seem to rejoin every week - and then add the same pictures to the new profile before scrubbing and starting again. And again .
Bizarre "
Got a feeling those Women aren't swingers, but have other motives.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you have known you cannot unknow.
What you have seen you cannot unsee.
What you have felt you cannot unfeel.
Once you have had your eyes and mind opened to the fab world it is very difficult to go back to the muggle world and live their life. Fab life has its way of drawing you back in for any number of reasons that are your own.
This is our second profile which we have kept alive for a long time now. Back in the day we had a disagreement and as part of the test of trust it was agreed we would delete the old profile. A few weeks later is was she who wanted to come back. Having more experience and a clearer understanding of what she wanted to get out of the adventure a new approach was agreed to. The same old people just with a different name and a new set of rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For 99% of guys it's probably because his balls are full.
For 75% of the women its probably because they realise they can't get much out in the real world. |
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I struggle with the whole thing sometimes, seems a lot of people can be very shallow, same goes for any aspect of online life! But especially as a single guy when there is a hugeee aboundance, seems even when I try be really distinctive I seem to get no where, I now just trawl the forums but take breaks away, either get too caught up in it or just get busy in life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fabs and this lifestyle is very addictive and every so often I tell myself I must stop and so i delete my account, which I've done at least 3 times but always manage to come back a few months later! Restarting again is such a pain though because you lose all veris and have to re-establish creditibilty.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For 99% of guys it's probably because his balls are full.
For 75% of the women its probably because they realise they can't get much out in the real world."
I like you.....
You call it like you see it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life change and you look at this as nothing when your family is in need ……. My mum I looked after now in care home as don't really know me she say she do .. But demenica take everything from the person you know . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simply wanted a break and then a fresh start. My block list was too big to clear one by one and there's no bulk delete as I have changed my mind about a few things. |
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