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I must admit I’ve probably wanked 6 times in about 2 years. A few on cam and a few when she was away.
Even if we don’t get sexy for a couple of weeks, I tell her it’s all saved up and doesn’t take long for her to want to empty me
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I'm now a widower but when she was alive I always wanked in the shower or in the car the last 4 years we didnt have sex and even when we did I wasnt satisfied to still wanked sometimes with her sometimes alone.
Now I'm wanking constantly |
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Why wouldn't someone wank if they are part of a couple? Man or woman. Single people have weird ideas about relationships. Just because you are in a relationship no one has any responsibility to ensure the sexual fulfilment of the other.
Either party, usually the man but not exclusively, can have a higher sex drive than the other and if they want to have an orgasm but don't want to be a rapist or cheat then wanking it is.
Wanking can also be something you do when the whole rigmarole of sex is just too much like hard work when all you want to do is get off.
Some times one might want some time to enjoy yourself and explore your fantasies without the other half interfering with your process.
Theres the danger wank, where the other party nips off to make a cuppa and you are suddenly gripped with the idea of can you get off before they come back and not get caught.
It can be a good educational tool if you both fancy doing it in front of each other and pay attention to the way you each get yourselves off.
Sometimes a wank is in order if the other party hasn't quite reached the pinnacle you needed to get off at the same time as they have.
There are exceptions where wanking is certainly a bad thing. Wanking on a bus or in the street and god forbid under the table while your mother in law serves a Sunday roast.
That said, theres nothing wrong with a good old wank, guys and dolls. It can be a perfectly natural part of everyone's sexuality. If and as often as you want it. |
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