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Should you bother

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wanted to throw this out there as I’m slowly settling into the scene now.

How many of you would actually consider replying to a profile without a verified meet or cam, but who is photo verified?.

Trying to see if I should bother at the moment.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

We do. We've given quite a few guys their first veri from coffee meets

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By *andmcoupleCouple over a year ago

Newton

I think if we can see you are new we give up u the benefit of the doubt that your not fake but if messing about within a few messages then we don't wait around

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

Everyone has to start somewhere OP

Jo x

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By *andmcoupleCouple over a year ago

Newton

I would also just get cam sorted and get in chat rooms and get a load to verify you. But saying that 90% of the site is guys so not as important

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met a few newbies or guys without a green tick in the past. One has become my regular fabber.

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

We were all beginners once over so yes we would.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the replies guys, good to know there’s hope then haha

Also nice to hear some have had good experiences from it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the profile is new with pics and photo veri we would give it a try (if appealed). We all gotta start somewhere! Good luck x

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By *rFunBoyMan over a year ago

Longridge

"Wanted to throw this out there as I’m slowly settling into the scene now.

How many of you would actually consider replying to a profile without a verified meet or cam, but who is photo verified?.

Trying to see if I should bother at the moment."

Photo verified is good..

Other than that, gut feeling should be enough, speak on phone first.

Only had 3 wind ups in many years. Most are genuine once you filter the silly responses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wanted to throw this out there as I’m slowly settling into the scene now.

How many of you would actually consider replying to a profile without a verified meet or cam, but who is photo verified?.

Trying to see if I should bother at the moment."

I think that given the current circumstances people should be more understanding, that said in my experience most ladies won’t look twice at a profile with no veries.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reply to all messages, because I have nice manners. Tend to loose interest in profiles with no pics at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I reply to all messages, because I have nice manners. Tend to loose interest in profiles with no pics at all "

Im the same i always reply either way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll reply, but wouldn't meet an unverified (by meet) male. Bad experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wanted to throw this out there as I’m slowly settling into the scene now.

How many of you would actually consider replying to a profile without a verified meet or cam, but who is photo verified?.

Trying to see if I should bother at the moment."

Why not? Chicken and egg, there has to be a first.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

When I was looking for meets out of clubs on here it wouldn't bother me whether they were verified or not, I didn't even look most of the time.

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By *abriellajackCouple over a year ago

Newport

It's more about the quality of the message and effort they have put into the profile text. A guy being photo verified doesn't add anything in our opinion as I'm not sure there are too many women pretending to be guys!

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Dive in, but keep your wits.

Even "meet" verified can turn out to be fake!

You'll soon realise the fakes through their lack of normality.

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