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"Why do people insist on ticking every box in the interests without understanding what they mean? "
i guess its called hedging your bets.
same as people that say they are straight, but happy to play bi, or whatever.
ateotd people will post anything to get a chance of a meet.
i appreciate that it is bloody annoying when you contact someone that says they are interested in something and they say its not their thing (as has happened to us recently). |
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I have not ticked any as worked out many men say they interested in what I have ticked but often are not and just saying it to try and get a meet regardless . Now I not ticked any, men ask and I turn it round to their interests if I think they are the sort to just agree to what I say to get a shag rather than actually be into the same.then I can see if we are compatible sexually not have a guy agreeing to everything I say I like but not mean it. There be nothing worse than having a meet that you think the other person is well into your favorite sexual thing to find they are very much against it |
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"I have not ticked any as worked out many men say they interested in what I have ticked but often are not and just saying it to try and get a meet regardless . Now I not ticked any, men ask and I turn it round to their interests if I think they are the sort to just agree to what I say to get a shag rather than actually be into the same.then I can see if we are compatible sexually not have a guy agreeing to everything I say I like but not mean it. There be nothing worse than having a meet that you think the other person is well into your favorite sexual thing to find they are very much against it "
I found the same.. not ticking any works best for me  |
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Some people probably to do it to increase their odds of getting a meet but it puts my partner and I off. Similarly with the people who send copy and paste messages about how they'll do absolutely anything and how hard it is to shock them with your sexual interests. What exactly do they think people get up to? 
On another note, having something on your interests list for me is to say what you have an interest in; not to say what you're prepared to do with others. I enjoy watersports and asphyxiation but I wouldn't be prepared to do these things with anyone but my partner. |
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"Why do people insist on ticking every box in the interests without understanding what they mean? "
have you ever considered that "shock horror" they actually like all those things  |
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we use the Advanced Search to look for profiles that have selected Separate Room Swap yet would suggest that half the profiles that appear in the results have no interest in that when we read their profile   |
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It's the only marker tht you have in terms of people when they're on a site like this. We get a lot of messages and I respomd to them based on what people say. It may not seem fair, but how would you deal with it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Well thats fine...What i was refering to, was profiles that have cuckhold, anal DP...and yes it's possible that it didn't occur to them to find out what the words meant...the reality is that when faced with such aperson, you wonder whether or not you want to meet woth them....if they're so slap dash with the profile...maybe that extends to other things... |
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"Why do people insist on ticking every box in the interests without understanding what they mean? "
For exactly the same reason they complain about receiving mail from those that they don't want to receive from.
They don't set their profiles up properly! |
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"Why do people insist on ticking every box in the interests without understanding what they mean?
For exactly the same reason they complain about receiving mail from those that they don't want to receive from.
They don't set their profiles up properly!"
saw a profile recently that had a rant in the middle about peeps asking for Sep Room Fun and them saying they dont do that, not ever ...
no wonder peeps were asking as the twats HAVE ticked that very interest  |
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