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over a year ago
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As a single swinger I am very curious about all the swinging couples. I'm envious of you sexy couples as I know it must take so much trust, communication and respect. Hat off to you all...
When did you first realised you wanted to swing?
Who had the idea, and how did that initial conversation start?
How do you maintain the relationship and the swinging?
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"As a single swinger I am very curious about all the swinging couples. I'm envious of you sexy couples as I know it must take so much trust, communication and respect. Hat off to you all...
When did you first realised you wanted to swing?
Who had the idea, and how did that initial conversation start?
How do you maintain the relationship and the swinging?
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Think for us was talking about having a girl join us and we looked into how that could happen but then joined the site and realised that's hard to find so then used the site to visit chams and xtasia when we were in the Midlands and lived it from there. Didn't really play with others for a while tho.
We prefer private meets tho as prefer around our age which we struggled to find at clubs
Just talk about anything we want to try and do.
Just hard to find 4 people that all feel attracted, would love a 4-6 couples orgy meet up as we havnt gone to full swap but want to but not found the right ones or we have like them but not got the chance to a 2nd meet
Moved down south now so will be looking to get out to a few clubs down here to give them a go
Mrs always says she wished she knew about this when she was younger
I personally think all couples would do it of they felt secure and talked as who doesn't love watching others play or play with |
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"The answer to your last question is in your first paragraph op  "
Trust, Communication and Respect... the essential ingredients to any successful relationship. If even one is missing then it makes for a struggle I know all to well.
I was more curious as to know how and who starts the conversation, and understand it will be different for everyone.
Just thought it would nice to hear a few of the successes stories  |
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I was the one who suggested swinging as the initial reason is that I am bi and wanted to have sex with women again. It's even more pleasurable that I can share the sexual experiences with Mr and that he has the pleasure of having sex with other women too.
We also thoroughly enjoy full swap with other couples too. It is fun, sexy and something we both share and enjoy together. It is an 'extra' to our great lives that we indulge in every now and again. |
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"The answer to your last question is in your first paragraph op
Trust, Communication and Respect... the essential ingredients to any successful relationship. If even one is missing then it makes for a struggle I know all to well.
I was more curious as to know how and who starts the conversation, and understand it will be different for everyone.
Just thought it would nice to hear a few of the successes stories "
Ok.
Mr N first suggested it to me when we were in our early 50s. We had more freedom and time to ourselves. We talked about it a lot, agreed how we'd proceed and went from there. |
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