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Question about "Hygiene"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was with a fit woman years ago and a've made an excuse and walked out before because there was an odour down there. Shame because she was hot but just put me off her altogether.
Can women not smell if its bad down there and how should a guy approach the subject without offending her?
Obviously "Sorry luv thats reeking" wont cut it.lol
If I was bad down down there i'd want the woman to tell me and just say it straight you're stinking i aint going near that, get in that shower or get to the clinic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You say you’d want to be told , but you didn’t have the courage or social skills to tell her ?
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Didnt want to make her feel bad because she was a really nice person and i reckon it would make her insecure next time she was with a guy so i decided to make an excuse and leave.
I aint the sensitive type so i dont mind people being straight with but not everyone is like me. The worlds got a little softer now and people are more sensitive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe you have unrealistic expectations of how a woman *should * smell"
Nope been with a few and none of them smelt like this before.
Noticed over the years vegetarians taste different to others so no unrealistic expectations from me. Its just a hard subject to approach i guess.
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Women smell different at different times of their cycle. I sometimes think I can smell myself but when I've asked others they have said its normal. If I smelled bad I'd get it checked out. But then after years of being married to someone who told me I smelled like kippers... ( when I didnt) I am paranoid about it anyway |
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"You say you’d want to be told , but you didn’t have the courage or social skills to tell her ?
Didnt want to make her feel bad because she was a really nice person and i reckon it would make her insecure next time she was with a guy so i decided to make an excuse and leave.
I aint the sensitive type so i dont mind people being straight with but not everyone is like me. The worlds got a little softer now and people are more sensitive."
There are very few women who wouldn't feel sensitive about this matter.
If you feel it's down to you to say something contact her, say that you don't want to offend her but you think she might have an infection and should see doctor. |
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"Was with a fit woman years ago and a've made an excuse and walked out before because there was an odour down there. Shame because she was hot but just put me off her altogether.
Can women not smell if its bad down there and how should a guy approach the subject without offending her?
Obviously "Sorry luv thats reeking" wont cut it.lol
If I was bad down down there i'd want the woman to tell me and just say it straight you're stinking i aint going near that, get in that shower or get to the clinic."
Maybe you should have suggested a shower together before sex. Walking out with no explaination is rather cruel. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was with a fit woman years ago and a've made an excuse and walked out before because there was an odour down there. Shame because she was hot but just put me off her altogether.
Can women not smell if its bad down there and how should a guy approach the subject without offending her?
Obviously "Sorry luv thats reeking" wont cut it.lol
If I was bad down down there i'd want the woman to tell me and just say it straight you're stinking i aint going near that, get in that shower or get to the clinic.
Maybe you should have suggested a shower together before sex. Walking out with no explaination is rather cruel."
Never just walked out. I actually made a valid excuse so i didnt offend her in anyway or raise suspicion. Not the hurtful type. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They all smell different. Sometimes it's a breath of fresh air in the park, other times it's a visit to the recycling centre. "
Haha thats some quote.lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You say you’d want to be told , but you didn’t have the courage or social skills to tell her ?
Didnt want to make her feel bad because she was a really nice person and i reckon it would make her insecure next time she was with a guy so i decided to make an excuse and leave.
I aint the sensitive type so i dont mind people being straight with but not everyone is like me. The worlds got a little softer now and people are more sensitive.
There are very few women who wouldn't feel sensitive about this matter.
If you feel it's down to you to say something contact her, say that you don't want to offend her but you think she might have an infection and should see doctor. "
It was years ago so not in contact but thats a great way to explain it.
I'll be sure to do that next time if it happens again.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is the difference in smell between vegetarians and carnivores OP ? Which do you prefer ?"
The vegetarian was more sweet tasting. We use to try different foods to see if it made any different to each other and she loved when i ate pineapple because it made me taste amazing. Have to experiment, its the only way to see for yourself.  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Sohnds like it could be BV. Some women just aren't aware of it and a shower isn't going to help. BV is not contagious either.
My scent can vary depending on my cycle as do many others..That's life"
Never come across BV, is it common ? Neve had issue with any unpleasant smells or tastes down there, they vary enormously but always good. Tbh even after a really big night out and then morning sex before a shower, or around period time, can’t say I’ve ever been put off by smell. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sohnds like it could be BV. Some women just aren't aware of it and a shower isn't going to help. BV is not contagious either.
My scent can vary depending on my cycle as do many others..That's life"
A've noticed that when some women are near or just finished there cycle scent changes. As you say, I guess thats just life. |
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"Sohnds like it could be BV. Some women just aren't aware of it and a shower isn't going to help. BV is not contagious either.
My scent can vary depending on my cycle as do many others..That's life
Never come across BV, is it common ? Neve had issue with any unpleasant smells or tastes down there, they vary enormously but always good. Tbh even after a really big night out and then morning sex before a shower, or around period time, can’t say I’ve ever been put off by smell."
I don't know how common it is. I know it can be reoccurring, but that's all I really know about it. |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
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"Was with a fit woman years ago and a've made an excuse and walked out before because there was an odour down there. Shame because she was hot but just put me off her altogether.
Can women not smell if its bad down there and how should a guy approach the subject without offending her?
Telling her would be worse I feel
Obviously "Sorry luv thats reeking" wont cut it.lol
If I was bad down down there i'd want the woman to tell me and just say it straight you're stinking i aint going near that, get in that shower or get to the clinic.
Maybe you should have suggested a shower together before sex. Walking out with no explaination is rather cruel."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sohnds like it could be BV. Some women just aren't aware of it and a shower isn't going to help. BV is not contagious either.
My scent can vary depending on my cycle as do many others..That's life
Never come across BV, is it common ? Neve had issue with any unpleasant smells or tastes down there, they vary enormously but always good. Tbh even after a really big night out and then morning sex before a shower, or around period time, can’t say I’ve ever been put off by smell."
BV is very common and easily treated with a course of antibiotics from doctors.
It's not sexually transmitted either. It can cause an unpleasant smell and mucky discharge, its can be more embarrassing for the female concerned and make her self conscious about personal hygiene but it doesn't matter how frequent you wash its antibiotics that are needed.
Once antibiotics are started positive improvement is seen very quickly but you must finish the course.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I'd appreciate something like: "Hey, this is really awkward, but it smells a little strong down here."
I always shower prior to meets, and I regularly check my smell and my taste to ensure that everything is fine down there. It does change depending on my cycle or in the hot weather, and even sometimes when I am very aroused.
Either something is off that I haven't noticed - in which case I would appreciate the opportunity to have it checked out - or he just doesn't like my natural scent, which is unfortunate but just life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sohnds like it could be BV. Some women just aren't aware of it and a shower isn't going to help. BV is not contagious either.
My scent can vary depending on my cycle as do many others..That's life
Never come across BV, is it common ? Neve had issue with any unpleasant smells or tastes down there, they vary enormously but always good. Tbh even after a really big night out and then morning sex before a shower, or around period time, can’t say I’ve ever been put off by smell."
It can be very common in some women.
I’ve never had it but my cousin suffers with it if she washes too vigorously or uses perfumed body wash/creams.
It’s not down to poor hygiene it’s an imbalance with the vagina’s PH, so virtually anyone can get it. Antibiotics sorts it out. |
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