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Social or straight to fucking
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Done social first fucking at a later date.
Done social first and fucking om same night
Done straight to it
Done social first and told to naff off 
Any but the last for me "
Right now even the last option sounds quite appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At least one social, possibly two.
The effort would hopefully be worth it, because he would be in it for the long term and wouldn't have to phaff any more on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think with the right amount of pre chat and photos/ cam etc you can know if you want to play.
Wouldn’t wan to waste a sex opportunity by just a social
Social and then to play on the same meet as a final check then fine
Just love a physical meet
Had a social a while ago and we ended up fucking in my car in the pub car park |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First meets are strictly on terms of a social. How soon fucking commences depends on how well the social went..
My first two meets, long ago and not through fab, went incredibly well...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social first and then if all good arrange a time to fuck. I like the build up between the two dates, adds to the excitement x
This for us.........most of the time  "
straight to fucking. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Social and then fucking, but same evening.  "
Same for us , not that it’s a given or even always happens , but if we like a couple enough to meet then hopefully we’ll end up getting it on, social for the sake of it - no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah wait I think I misunderstood this chat. I thought it was one of those option x,y or z to the profile above.
I see now it was a genuine general question.
Social with chemistry and option of fucking. After all we are all here for the carnal pleasures |
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Both! sometimes it's good to have a sit down and get to know each other over a drink or two, but on the other hand I like things like being blindfolded and a few guys enter the room and do what they want with me and other similar scenarios where total strangers have me. I like variety what more can I say. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials are preferred if not meeting someone in a swingers club situation. You can chat for months online and think you may get on with someone yet it can be a complete different kettle of fish when you meet face to face!
There HAS to be a real attraction
To want to play. |
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I was having this conversation with someone yesterday - he said he's never had a social meet, doesn't see the point in them, and can tell from messaging whether he wants to fuck someone.
I couldn't disagree more! I always have a social meet first, with clear no expectation of play on the same day (it does happen when the chemistry is right, but it shouldn't be assumed). I enjoy a social - getting to know someone, the chemistry, feeling that spark...I also trust my instincts so if anything feels off or in any way uncomfortable it's a hard pass from me.
I'm not here looking for mediocre sex with a stranger - I'm looking for regular meet ups with someone who makes my fanny flutter just looking at them...you can't test that chemistry in a PM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was having this conversation with someone yesterday - he said he's never had a social meet, doesn't see the point in them, and can tell from messaging whether he wants to fuck someone.
I couldn't disagree more! I always have a social meet first, with clear no expectation of play on the same day (it does happen when the chemistry is right, but it shouldn't be assumed). I enjoy a social - getting to know someone, the chemistry, feeling that spark...I also trust my instincts so if anything feels off or in any way uncomfortable it's a hard pass from me.
I'm not here looking for mediocre sex with a stranger - I'm looking for regular meet ups with someone who makes my fanny flutter just looking at them...you can't test that chemistry in a PM "
yes I agree |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
We play almost entirely in clubs because I love to fuck strangers and get a real thrill from anonymous sex. No social is necessary, sometimes we don't even exchange names, and once I didn't even see his face. |
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Social as we need to feel we get on with the person, plus we enjoy the flirting and the build up.
We do fuck on the first meet if everyone is happy, and horny.
However, if a random single lady in a club wished to play with us, we could be extremely tempted to skip the drink and just fuck. |
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