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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so what I've noticed is there are lots of people out there on the site saying they are straight (mainly men) who then contact you and say they are bi. It got me to thinking why is there still such a stigma against bi men, I may be wrong but there dose not seem to be the same thing with bi women to be honest it almost seems like they are sought out if that makes sense.
Now don't get me wrong it's obviously each to their own if bi males are not for you that's cool, but people having to hide who they are because they worry about how it's perceived even on here seems like a sad thing.
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Because even though swingers like to think that they are broadminded and 'out there' most of them aren't. We get messages all the time from bi men who have straight on their profile and hidden veris because they are from men. If they let couples know they are bi they are treated like lepers, hence they have to keep quiet about it. |
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There are those who like bi, those who don't and those who couldn't care less. Same as there are guys like BBW, guys like skinny, women like big cocks, women don't. Some like black midgets with 1 leg. Each to their own. If guys are unable to say they are bi thats their issue. If you chose to play with them, or not, its down to you. Is there a stigma against bi guys? Yes, in the same way there is a stigma about black one legged midgets. Its about what you like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because even though swingers like to think that they are broadminded and 'out there' most of them aren't. We get messages all the time from bi men who have straight on their profile and hidden veris because they are from men. If they let couples know they are bi they are treated like lepers, hence they have to keep quiet about it. "
Well im bi and certainly don't hide it in my profile and have still met up with couples straight and bi and don't think i have been treated like a leper.
I actually prefer it if people say they don't meet bi guys as it saves me wasting time messaging them. |
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Well i'm Bi - not curious - just 100% Bi which in eyes of many makes me just pain old greedy - - well id lie if i disagreed with that
However being Bi does not mean im desperate for sex; it merely means i enjoy the company of both sexes
I not hide behinf false/fake profile about my sexuality; im just me and happy to be so - but all i say is being Bi does not mean im dirty - just higlhy sexed thats all  |
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I hate being duped by ...wait for it...COUPLES!
the husband suddenly becomes bi, or has been at the helm of the pre-meeting conversations
then there is the expectation to play bi, when u've already stated ur not
*I've met lots of bi people, and a good few friends..but they have always been honest and respected my boundaries.
*but I draw the line at some guy 'helping' my cock into a fanny |
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"There are those who like bi, those who don't and those who couldn't care less. Same as there are guys like BBW, guys like skinny, women like big cocks, women don't. Some like black midgets with 1 leg. Each to their own. If guys are unable to say they are bi thats their issue. If you chose to play with them, or not, its down to you. Is there a stigma against bi guys? Yes, in the same way there is a stigma about black one legged midgets. Its about what you like."
as a black one legged midget i resent that comment lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i'm Bi - not curious - just 100% Bi which in eyes of many makes me just pain old greedy - - well id lie if i disagreed with that
However being Bi does not mean im desperate for sex; it merely means i enjoy the company of both sexes
I not hide behinf false/fake profile about my sexuality; im just me and happy to be so - but all i say is being Bi does not mean im dirty - just higlhy sexed thats all "
Don't shoot the messenger! We are merely repeating what we are always being told by bi men who message us. Makes it much harder to sort out the genuine bi guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see your point and agree as I made the same point about each to their own. But why hide it? You would never get a woman who hides that she is bi on here (again I may be wrong lol). |
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"There are those who like bi, those who don't and those who couldn't care less. Same as there are guys like BBW, guys like skinny, women like big cocks, women don't. Some like black midgets with 1 leg. Each to their own. If guys are unable to say they are bi thats their issue. If you chose to play with them, or not, its down to you. Is there a stigma against bi guys? Yes, in the same way there is a stigma about black one legged midgets. Its about what you like. as a black one legged midget i resent that comment lol "
I also resnt the comment im from the newly found ; BLMASUK which respesents all those effected by this .....for one on one conulations call 08456700010001 which our help line - thank you  |
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"Ok so what I've noticed is there are lots of people out there on the site saying they are straight (mainly men) who then contact you and say they are bi. It got me to thinking why is there still such a stigma against bi men..."
Setting whole "stigma", existing or not, aside
those guys are mostly wanky timewasters.
I'm getting same, lots of winks and messages from guys, who clearly even didn't bother to read my profile, where is what I'm looking for.
Initially I used to write them back, but none proved to be any good, now they go straight (no pun intended) to the bin. |
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"I see your point and agree as I made the same point about each to their own. But why hide it? You would never get a woman who hides that she is bi on here (again I may be wrong lol)."
As we said, they hide it because a lot of straight couples don't want to know them if they are bi. So they say. Although I think some of them are so desperate that they will suck a cock just to fuck me lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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True I can see that but as others have said I still get lots of meets off of couples. Just be cause I'm bi dose not mean I'm going to come over and stick it to your hubby, well unless he asks me to lol. The way I see it it's good to have options lol |
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