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We are a couple trying to find a women for FF or FFM but finding it very hard, obviously not looking to meet right now but wanting to chat and get to know someone before we meet.
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"Hi!
We are a couple trying to find a women for FF or FFM but finding it very hard, obviously not looking to meet right now but wanting to chat and get to know someone before we meet.
Anyone have any tips? "
Are you including couples with a bi female in your search? Some meet alone. Clubs (when open) are a fun way to find playmates. |
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It's a difficult one.
Pitch your messages right.
As a single bi woman I get messages from couples that make me feel like a fuck toy or like boyf is far more into it than girlf.
Or girlf wants to enjoy bit not reciprocate.
Not saying this is you guys but it's quite common. It's not a nice feeling.
Good luck x
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Thank you for your help.
We haven't looked for couples with a bi female before as we didn't want a man involved at all. Maybe it's a thing to look for if some do play alone!
We definitely aren't looking for a girl to be a toy ect, looking for it all to be equal and get to know each other.
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Your looking for what 1000's of others are, the single female. As a bi female, I don't like to be " used" as a play thing. As a couple we've been invited to another couples house. When we got there we were told, I could play with them both. He could play with me, but my fella could not play with her.
So we left. I was not to be "used" as their unicorn. We went as a couple, we play as a couple.
I'll only really play bi in clubs. I'm not a bi cherry taker, as I've been asked many times to take. I also like to take as well as give. If in a club, they take but won't give. I simply walk away. These are normally the ones, only doing it for their partner.. |
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I guess to a degree its supply and demand couples massively outnumber single women then when you factor in the women that won't play with couples or only play in clubs probably comes out over a 100 couples to even single women |
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"Hi!
We are a couple trying to find a women for FF or FFM but finding it very hard, obviously not looking to meet right now but wanting to chat and get to know someone before we meet.
Anyone have any tips? "
Really? I get ffm suggestions all the time and I'm straight. Maybe redo your profile to attract more women? |
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To me ffm seems popular as i constantly get messages and winks. So make it explicit and have a man involved in the way you want them to be.. N i bet you have amazing time
For me.. I just want the man and the female is forced to watch or not involved at all. I do make it clear on my profile |
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There was a thread once that had some very good tips coming from the single females point of view, very detailed and I believe would be useful to those looking for their first time, but I can’t remember who posted the thread or the name of it  sorry 
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"We are finding it difficult too. Hate that 'putting on a show for the guys' mentality.
Been chatting to a few ladies so we shall see.
MsD"
I hate the whole putting on a show mentality too. It's definitely not what we are about and I think most couples get that label, they think the women are only doing it for the mans satisfaction. Where actually it was me that wanted to do this and find someone not J
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