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Couples connections difficult atm
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everyone.;)
Couples do you find difficult to connect to other couples ?
Obviously we all know the impact of lockdown, but even b4 we noticed that we dont seem to generate much interest on couples..our connections have been mainly on clubs but we would like to create others out of clubs in future too.
Any contructive suggestions appreciated  
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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago
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We never clicked in a one to one meet so only used clubs. The scene has held less of an interest to her the last couple of years so not that worried. Our fun when we were more active was definitely in a club,with other couples. Chams in Birmingham was our best experience. Think our time to end for us both is near, this current situation could be the deciding factor. |
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No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x"
Yes I agree it does..sometimes makes us wonder if its anything wrong with our profile x
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We find it does take alot of effort too. Initial contact with couples seems promising at the start but then fizzles out, dodging a minefield of fakes and timewasting couples too is a problem. We keep our friends list deliberately small and cull it regularly. That at least allows us to focus on couples that we feel are worth the time. But even then there are no guarantees |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x
Yes I agree it does..sometimes makes us wonder if its anything wrong with our profile x
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I’d say your profile is pretty darn hot! And those videos!! Wow! Wish I knew how you manage to do that |
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We seem to receive plenty of winks /messages which is flattering ...some couples wanna make "friends" in lock down with a view of hooking up later which is lovely ....we have special fab friends we can contact by phone to chat to also which keeps things bubbling  |
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We've been lucky enough to connect with a few couples really well over the downtime. It's the same for us as normal and looking for people that we're both attracted to and that then also want to chat and are able to converse with a view to later rather than a quick gratuitous cam play (not our thing).
We have found a few but it really has been effort in = effort out and now wondering if they'll pan out later when we can finally meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We're super fussy so it's partly our issue of not finding what we want, but finding the same to a certain extent. We're also not keen on message ping pong so it's rather a case of a few messages and then we'll go back to them when we have a view of when meeting might be viable. |
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"We're super fussy so it's partly our issue of not finding what we want, but finding the same to a certain extent. We're also not keen on message ping pong so it's rather a case of a few messages and then we'll go back to them when we have a view of when meeting might be viable. "
Hey nothing wrong with being fussy/selective...we are also fussy sods Lol
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"No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x
Yes I agree it does..sometimes makes us wonder if its anything wrong with our profile x
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Nothing in your profile would put us off x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's difficult at the moment, it's finding the oomph to keep chatting when you're not getting the chat flowing. We're like most though, we will be looking out for that 1 couple to be exclusive with once it's safe to do so, may never happen tho. |
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"We're super fussy so it's partly our issue of not finding what we want, but finding the same to a certain extent. We're also not keen on message ping pong so it's rather a case of a few messages and then we'll go back to them when we have a view of when meeting might be viable. "
There is nothing wrong with being fussy. No joy in meeting for the sake of it. It is tricky finding 4 way attraction. Plus Miss is straight and a lot of couples seem to want the fem to be at least bi-curious. Also a lot of profiles only have pics of the woman. It can definitely be easier to find compatible people in clubs. |
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