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The sensual and intelligent approach
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.
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"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.
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Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.
Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners "
Ha ha. And Westerham is such a great place to indulge one’s love of classic Russian literature! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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We always look for this in a couple
Definitely sensual, I.e you appreciate all 5/6 senses are important in seduction and sex.
I would say interesting over intelligent because I think intelligence can often be misunderstood and unfortunately education isn’t given equally .
And if you’re also tactile then that’s a big bonus  |
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I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.
The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.
There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.
The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.
There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope "
Correct assessment. I agree totally on education. Can’t stand snobbery either. |
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"I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.
The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.
There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope
Correct assessment. I agree totally on education. Can’t stand snobbery either. "
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Neither can I, I don't like inverted snobbery either which seems to be far more prevalent and indeed encouraged and accepted. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name"
Yes there are also people who are highly intelligent but very boring. I think when people state they want to meet intelligent people they often just want interesting, seductive and / or emotionally intelligent conversations, not a discussion on bioinformatics or a discussion of post modern feminist literature. |
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"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.
Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners "
Im actually styling myself on Karamazov snr these days...Shagging the village simpleton and that   |
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The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name
Yes there are also people who are highly intelligent but very boring. I think when people state they want to meet intelligent people they often just want interesting, seductive and / or emotionally intelligent conversations, not a discussion on bioinformatics or a discussion of post modern feminist literature."
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Intelligence and education aren't the same in my opinion. I think there's a song called "educated fool" |
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"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.
Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners
Im actually styling myself on Karamazov snr these days...Shagging the village simpleton and that "
Well so long as you don’t meet the same end eh |
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I agree with much that's been written here. I much prefer a more thoughtful approach to this and appreciate getting to know people a little. I'm not talking about becoming lifelong friends (although if that happens, great), but I'm keen to spend my time with people who are like-minded, open and curious about the world, take their time and appreciate sensuality.
After all, good sex is about connection. And that needs to start in the mind.
As far as how sensuality comes out in everyday life, that's a good question. Appreciating beauty in all its forms, nature, people, music, food, etc., being open to new experiences, interested in learning, not quick to judge, and so on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.
The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.
There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.
Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners
Im actually styling myself on Karamazov snr these days...Shagging the village simpleton and that
Well so long as you don’t meet the same end eh "
Im halfway through, don't spoil it for me! x |
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