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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious as I plan to meet up with people in hotels or their place. When meeting up, and assuming things go well of course, do you always expect to spend the whole night and sleep (actually sleep) together?
I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here. |
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Everyone is different and it is certainly a question to be asked when planning the meet. Also with who is paying for what (rooms) etc
Make it simple and clear so there can be no misinterpretations. |
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Think it's different depending on chemistry and what you both expect from a meet.
I have had 2 or 3 stay overnight whilst accommodating the night befores antics (made a for a good morning re-run of naughtiness).... To a cuckold couple where I stayed the night with the Mrs's in their wedding to bed whilst hubby slept in the spare room. Whilst other singles and couples prefer to show the door once all the naughty fun is out the way...
Everyone is different and has different fantasies and kinks!... Guess you got to know what you want and that could also depend on the relationship you build with your play partners...
Hope that helps! |
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We have spent the night with a trusted meet ,but wouldnt with a random we have just met ,having sex is one thing but staying over and seeing each other in the cold light of day is another ,trusted regular only ...  |
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"Everyone is different and it is certainly a question to be asked when planning the meet. Also with who is paying for what (rooms) etc
Make it simple and clear so there can be no misinterpretations. "
I have done both and as said previously it depends on the meet and the people. But waking up with a meet couple in a big bed was interesting the first time it happened.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we book hotels we like the guy to go once the fun is over then we can either have our own fun or sleep if we’re shattered! Plus then in the morning we can get another meet over if we want as we usually book a late check out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When we book hotels we like the guy to go once the fun is over then we can either have our own fun or sleep if we’re shattered! Plus then in the morning we can get another meet over if we want as we usually book a late check out "
That's how I normally see it for couples too and the ones I have met in this situation see itvthe same... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try to Accommodate and love people "that I know" staying the whole night.
Things can progress at their own pace, its more relaxed, we can experiment more and become much more comfortable with each other.
I even make breakfast.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love staying the night, being woken up to a stranger eating my pussy after it's been really fucked. Or maybe even waking up getting fucked, or vice versa waking them up sucking them nice and hard to start fucking all over again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on the meet - I do enjoy both......but generally only stay over if its just a meet with a "single" woman....
Also, it depends on whether its meant as a one night stand or if its meant just as a sexual experience, what time of day it happens and whether there is transport back if I havent driven there...
Once, I had a lunchtime meet - we enjoyed the hotel room and went our separate ways - we both fancied meeting up the following day, so went back to the same hotel room (I hadnt checked out) first thing the following morning....
On balance, I have to say that I have left after fun more than an overnight stay, but overnights can be good too - as the fun can continue.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cant think of anything worse. Once the sex is over and they have completed their feedback questionnaire I want them gone. Our favourite part is going over what just happened and having a bit of a giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nowadays i only meet in clubs but years ago i only stayed overnight with one guy where i met him at his house and then in a hotel for the weekend with the guy who im now married to. |
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By *hamesGentMan
over a year ago
Oxfordshire / Sussex |
Good question this one. When I've been invited to a couple's home for an evening, more often than not, I've stayed the night, sleeping in their spare room. But that's something that has always been discussed beforehand, after spending some time getting to know them online or by phone. As I prefer a more unhurried and friendly encounter, this suits me well. It also means you can have a couple of drinks without having to worry about getting home. And of course, the obvious benefit is continuing the fun in the morning, which is a big part of the experience.
With hotel meets, I've both shared a room with a couple or booked my own room, which I think works better. It gives you a bit of privacy when you want it, and you can still continue the fun in the morning with a quick text invitation.
The key is working this out before you meet. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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My preference would always be for an overnight stay but then my meets tend to be a little more than "just sex" and will usually last around 24 hours and consist of doing something social as well as spending intimate time together and are with people I've built a connection and chemistry with that, whilst still NSA, go beyond simply meeting for sex.
That said if it were with a couple, or someone that didn't want the overnight element, or even a meet in a club, and all other things being equal then an overnighter isn't a deal breaker either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahhh good topic.
I have done in the past but never on the first meet. Think it's quite intimate. Usually it's social drink and a good few hours at mine or theirs having some naughty fun if all goes well. Kinda seems natural to have a chill after for an hour then get off.
However I did regularly meet a cuck couple for over a year and a big fantasy of ours was for me and the wife to spend the night in their bed. Cuck was banished into the spare room until morning
Brought us coffee and watched as she laid in my arms.
Hot, hot, hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also know couples who after the threesome want some time alone to fuck in order to talk about it. Few couples have said their best sex is straight after a meet |
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Depends on the person but we've normally talked it out beforehand.
My preference is for an overnight stay, I don't like to feel as though I'm watching the clock or there is a deadline.
I'm also a big fan of sleepy morning sex, all loose-limbed and warm-skinned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends where you are and who really you get a feel for it usually have had 3 sums and then joined in the guest bedroom with the wife or he wants her for himself after woman sometimes want you to stay as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also know couples who after the threesome want some time alone to fuck in order to talk about it. Few couples have said their best sex is straight after a meet "
Definitely this! We never do sleep overs. I let them know before we meet that they will have to leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the person but we've normally talked it out beforehand.
My preference is for an overnight stay, I don't like to feel as though I'm watching the clock or there is a deadline.
I'm also a big fan of sleepy morning sex, all loose-limbed and warm-skinned."
We’ve got to agree with this,
Only 2 meets up to now but both have lasted till the early hours any way so by the time it was over it was time to go home anyway  |
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A guy offered to pay for a hotel room for me to get changed in and afterwards spend the night with him. But if I’ve never met that person before I’m not chancing it, besides he may snore and it, be as bad as my snoring 
Once I told him, I’d get my own room and would also pay half towards dinner, (yes I need feeding) he cooled off.
I feel bought in some way, so prefer a nice evening then off they go, only with someone I know would I consider an all night meet.
Plus I’m never randy in the morning and my makeup maybe slightly smudge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done both over the years and it all depends on various things. The individuals meeting and what they want out it and also if it's a first meet or a long standing set up. As long as both get out of it what they want, that's the main thing |
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Sleepovers are rare for me. I don’t meet in hotels anyway, struggle to sleep sharing a bed and I usually have things to do in the morning. Even with a trusted fwb who lives 50 miles away, he drives back!
I done it on occasion, usually for practical reasons. I have to be really into someone really for that (ie, someone I’m dating) |
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I would always want to get home but one early swig meet involved me meeting the couple in a bar, we all got on great so back to theirs. We had a really hot threesome but after the husband came he left me and his Mrs to it... We fucked some more and she came with me giving her oral.
I left at about three am. She text me at 9am asking if she could pop round. No hubby on sight. She came in and I fucked her on the kitchen table, she came as I came inside her.
I never knew if hubby knew she had followed up, I never asked if I'm honest and met her alone again a few weeks later.
They were engaged to be married and I'm sure they got married so maybe it was all just part of their dynamic .... |
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We prefer to leave once its over we always book a room of our own if we travel for a meet we have offered to have meets stop over at ours they usually prefer to leave once the sex is finished usually stop for a drink then go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious as I plan to meet up with people in hotels or their place. When meeting up, and assuming things go well of course, do you always expect to spend the whole night and sleep (actually sleep) together?
I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here."
I will definitely spend the night as long as I enjoy her vibe, would be really nice to have causal fwb that you get along with |
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After social drinks & chat for a couple or so hours we come back to ours for a several hours of fun then they go home. We found 3 in our bed all night doesn't work really... can't afford a bigger bed...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When we can plan special meets, for us it almost feels more real if a guy spends the night with our Fem.
Once lockdown is over we have a bit of catching up to do. Any guys fancy an all nighter in 2021? Let’s book it now |
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"Just curious as I plan to meet up with people in hotels or their place. When meeting up, and assuming things go well of course, do you always expect to spend the whole night and sleep (actually sleep) together?
I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here."
Jessica I'd much rather spend the night together make the most time I could with someone like yourself. It's more special and the connection is there more then and obviously they know I'm not in any rush to leave or clock watching. Also nice to Wales up with them next to me afterwards too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After social drinks & chat for a couple or so hours we come back to ours for a several hours of fun then they go home. We found 3 in our bed all night doesn't work really... can't afford a bigger bed... "
I sometimes end up in the guest bedroom, not always on my own either ?? |
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"When we can plan special meets, for us it almost feels more real if a guy spends the night with our Fem.
Once lockdown is over we have a bit of catching up to do. Any guys fancy an all nighter in 2021? Let’s book it now "
Love to help you that both of us sandwiching your lovely lady wake up call mmm |
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"Just curious as I plan to meet up with people in hotels or their place. When meeting up, and assuming things go well of course, do you always expect to spend the whole night and sleep (actually sleep) together?
I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here."
no... I dont like sharing a bed...so I'd have my fun and send them home.
I find it odd to spend the night with someone unless they are a regular partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Overnight would be my preference, but then I don’t meet for ‘just’ sex. There has to be connection/chemistry and therefore a more intimate experience is desired from both sides. |
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By *rzuuMan
over a year ago
Norwich |
AS with most other comments on here, it very much on a meet by meet circumstance. Personally I would love for a lady to stay all night, but if she wants to go then I have no issue with that at all.
Everyone has preferences, so I don't adhere to a solid rule here.
Whatever though, both parties need to be comfortable and feel safe if the decision IS to stay over, and on the flip side, neither party should be offended is the other party decides NOT to stay.
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"After social drinks & chat for a couple or so hours we come back to ours for a several hours of fun then they go home. We found 3 in our bed all night doesn't work really... can't afford a bigger bed...
I sometimes end up in the guest bedroom, not always on my own either ??"
Ooh we only have a mattress in the attic...  |
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