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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm like a lot of you married guys out there who wish their wives would be more interested in swinging in one form or another. I'm lucky enough to have a few great experiences with my wife and some not so great. However for the last few years she has made it very clear that it does not interest her. In fact when it comes to sexual arousal and what actually turns us on, its no surprise that I confess we are complete different. For me its very much something that starts in my mind and for her its something that is purely physical.
I'm wondering how many of you face the same set of challenges in initiating a certain kind of sex and how many of you know you really love the idea of your partner enjoying themselves with someone else and do not really know why? And your attempts to make them behave the way you wish only adds more pressure onto them and effectively turns them off.
If you like to share your experiences with me privately or in this thread please do.
If I get enough interest I'm considering starting a podcast on the subject. I have no professional interest in this - its more of a hobby and a passion and a frustration. I guess it would be good to know I am not alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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GB here- Interesting question.
I guess for us it a combination of a couple of things.
While our sex life is great there is only a finite amount of experiences you can have together. You can't change core personality and physique. We don't enjoy exactly the same things in bed. And Jess is more sociable than me. So her going out meeting new people, having a new aspect to her social life. And then experiencing sex with guys of different interests, backgrounds, size, shapes, etc. gives her something she enjoys which I cannot. She can also find men passionate about sexual things that don't turn me on, and again get pleasure from that which I could give her, but less inclined to. At the end of the day if you want your partner to be happy then they should have the freedom to pursue what makes them happy. We're totally secure in our marriage, sex with others won't affect it negatively.
The second reason is I am massively attracted to sluts. I love promiscuous and sexually ambitious women. The more they sleep around and do, they sexier they are to me. So Jess can fuck every guy on the internet if she wants. It makes me more attracted to her, and also makes us want each other more.
Why I love sluts is a question I can't really answer. Like blonde or brunette, tits or arse, fat or slim, sometimes you just have a type that turns you on. If have physical preferences too, but in terms of behaviour being married to a cumslut is my dream. And she gets the fun along the way  |
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"GB here- Interesting question.
I guess for us it a combination of a couple of things.
While our sex life is great there is only a finite amount of experiences you can have together. You can't change core personality and physique. We don't enjoy exactly the same things in bed. And Jess is more sociable than me. So her going out meeting new people, having a new aspect to her social life. And then experiencing sex with guys of different interests, backgrounds, size, shapes, etc. gives her something she enjoys which I cannot. She can also find men passionate about sexual things that don't turn me on, and again get pleasure from that which I could give her, but less inclined to. At the end of the day if you want your partner to be happy then they should have the freedom to pursue what makes them happy. We're totally secure in our marriage, sex with others won't affect it negatively.
The second reason is I am massively attracted to sluts. I love promiscuous and sexually ambitious women. The more they sleep around and do, they sexier they are to me. So Jess can fuck every guy on the internet if she wants. It makes me more attracted to her, and also makes us want each other more.
Why I love sluts is a question I can't really answer. Like blonde or brunette, tits or arse, fat or slim, sometimes you just have a type that turns you on. If have physical preferences too, but in terms of behaviour being married to a cumslut is my dream. And she gets the fun along the way "
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