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Regular or 1 offs
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi All
We are just wondering what you all prefer. Regular meets or just the one off meets. We do not like the wham bam meets we like long regular fun with regular meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer one offs, im not into wham bam meets tho, all because i dont want to meet someone again i still like to meet for a drink to make sure i like them, have a chat and a flirt then have a full night of hot steamy sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without a doubt one offs - regular becomes something we don't feel happy with , too friendly and often clingy - we just do this for the thrill and change which club meets and one offs satisfy perfectly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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prefer friendly meets, be them one offs or regular, we have a mix of both but always get to know eachother before and usually do something social before we play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends on who it is
as i love regular fun and getting to know someone and buidling on it and becoming good friends and also having better and better sex all the time
but some people you do see again and its not the same as the first time, or they dont make the effort the same or just constantly texting haha, and that can make it not as good too. so people like that maybe you are better with one offs, but overall i like making sexy friends and keep in touch and play another day if i can x |
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Regulars are better one because you can get know each other and really start to push each others buttons but of course only if the first meet goes well... And two with so many timewasters and fake profiles here meets with new people aren't always available. Although as a single guy I'm happy to meet either way...  |
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When I first got into swinging i prefered o e-offs but found it was a bit too shallow for me and now much prefer regulars....with the trust built over time its easier to explore fantasies and experiences.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like both . No matter which it is id always meet for a social drink first after a few exchanged messages on here. I have to feel comfortable with the person along with a physical attraction on both sides.
It's alot of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All
We are just wondering what you all prefer. Regular meets or just the one off meets. We do not like the wham bam meets we like long regular fun with regular meets "
regular meets r the best,but last regular friend ended up begin a twisted bitch,but boy did she make me hard and horney,maybe one off r the best,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer one off meets if its a private meet arranged through here, but at parties or in clubs we often see the same people repeatedly and will quite happily play again and again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like abit of both really. But do prefere regular meets with women I like the flirting going out and having fun when we choose to. Iam married but always dreamed of having a gf but I certainly wouldn't say no to a one off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular is def more preferable. Just like with your partner you get to know what turns them on and visa versa. That said, pure raw sex with total stranger in a club is gr8 fun too ! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if i meet someone to many time i tend to find the sex gets a little samey and boring, as does the person lol i just think meeting new and different people keeps it more exciting |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I like regular meets on and irregular basis if that makes sense.....
it doesn't have to be every so often, but if you click with people then I don't see why you should only meet once or twice..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i suppose it depends on what you call regular tho
regular as in calling on the same person every time you wanted a shag, meeting them on a weekly/monthy basis i wouldnt do
Meeting someone more than once i will do if its something like once every 3/4 or so months because thats a long enough gap to not get to know them to well and stops the time you do spend together from being same old
Tho most of my meets are one offs i will do re meets with the right person its just most guys i meet tend to be asking if i want to meet them again next weekend before we have even finished the meet that weekend and that just puts me off and the chances of me re meeting someone like that is zero |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
A girl once said that she prefers to not meet people more than once so she doesn't fall in love with them - surely that's more of an emotional discipline issue if there's a risk of falling in love with everyone you've slept with more than once? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Hi All
We are just wondering what you all prefer. Regular meets or just the one off meets. We do not like the wham bam meets we like long regular fun with regular meets "
We like both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is regular classed as once a year around my birthday or would that be a one off..... Lol thats a one off hun..lmao "
May have to use the same hand as last year, could be classed as regular then lol |
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I think most of us would prefer just a few reg fuck buddies.
I find you just get a good one and then try for a 2nd or 3rd and the 1st disapears then they drift back and the 3rd disapears
suddenly you either have a drought or all of them want a piece of you at the same time !!
its like trying to herding a group of cats lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take it when you can.
be thankful.
dont pressure a woman into meeting again.
she will text,call you and let you know if she wants to.
and if not, dont worry.
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Lol.
Though the occasional one nighter is fun!!
) as familiarity breeds trust and an ability ti be more open and let yourself go. 
